why does it seem things never go as you pictured?

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platinumike

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Im talking about that mental image or a whole scenario of how you picture things playing out, or maybe how you picture a place/someone's house to such great detail. But 9 outa 10 times it never goes as pictured. Sometimes its for the better, most times its not. Right now im feeling kinda energetic so was gonna out, but what im picturing downtown to be like is to be alot of people there, real busy, plenty of hot chicks. I bet you i go there and its not busy at all. Another instance is im picturing asking a girl out on monday(in my class) i Must do it. I've made small talk and wanna go out with her, now that i have my confidence and have pictured it in my head, it will always play out so much differently.

WHY!!
 
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ajpa123

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it's that uncertainty and variety that keeps life livable, interesting and sometimes a PITA.
 
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Originally posted by: platinumike
Im talking about that mental image or a whole scenario of how you picture things playing out, or maybe how you picture a place/someone's house to such great detail. But 9 outa 10 times it never goes as pictured. Sometimes its for the better, most times its not. Right now im feeling kinda energetic so was gonna out, but what im picturing downtown to be like is to be alot of people there, real busy, plenty of hot chicks. I bet you i go there and its not busy at all. Another instance is im picturing asking a girl out on monday(in my class) i Must do it. I've made small talk and wanna go out with her, now that i have my confidence and have pictured it in my head, it will always play out so much differently.

WHY!!
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Life is an imprefect and unpredictable thing.
 
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because you build things up in your mind to an outcome that can never happen that perfectly. it happens to me a lot... i think and get excited about things then when they happen, they were so built up in my mind, it could never have been THAT perfect...
sorry :(
 
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platinumike

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ya, but why cant 1 have the power of making it as close to as he pictured as possible? is it best not to even waste your mind pondering on things that will always have a varying outcome?
 
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ajpa123

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Originally posted by: platinumike
ya, but why cant 1 have the power of making it as close to as he pictured as possible? is it best not to even waste your mind pondering on things that will always have a varying outcome?
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u think and overanalyse WAY too much...
 
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Originally posted by: xSauronx
Originally posted by: platinumike
ya, but why cant 1 have the power of making it as close to as he pictured as possible?
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because you touch yourself at night
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im surpised that hasnt become an acronym..i think ill start that officially in this thread

BYTYAN
 
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Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
why does it seem things never go as you pictured?
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:camera:'s ? :p
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Didn't you read, he said that he didn't get pictures. ;)

I don't blame him, when you wake up at "her" place and find out that she isn't a she, burning the memory card is the only option.
 
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platinumike

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Originally posted by: ajpa123
Originally posted by: platinumike
ya, but why cant 1 have the power of making it as close to as he pictured as possible? is it best not to even waste your mind pondering on things that will always have a varying outcome?
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u think and overanalyse WAY too much...
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hmm...maybe I do. Maybe its stifling my personality. So when i start to analyze things should i just move my mind on to something else?
 
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ajpa123

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Originally posted by: platinumike
Originally posted by: ajpa123
Originally posted by: platinumike
ya, but why cant 1 have the power of making it as close to as he pictured as possible? is it best not to even waste your mind pondering on things that will always have a varying outcome?
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u think and overanalyse WAY too much...
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hmm...maybe I do. Maybe its stifling my personality. So when i start to analyze things should i just move my mind on to something else?
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No, just smile and clear your mind.
 
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platinumike

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Originally posted by: ajpa123
Originally posted by: platinumike
Originally posted by: ajpa123
Originally posted by: platinumike
ya, but why cant 1 have the power of making it as close to as he pictured as possible? is it best not to even waste your mind pondering on things that will always have a varying outcome?
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u think and overanalyse WAY too much...
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hmm...maybe I do. Maybe its stifling my personality. So when i start to analyze things should i just move my mind on to something else?
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No, just smile and clear your mind.
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Its wierd though, at clubs and parties im always the energetic/crazy/random one. I'll try to smile and clear my mind, Im gonna do this when i see that chick again...gahh cant wait!
 
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Originally posted by: BooGiMaN
Originally posted by: xSauronx
Originally posted by: platinumike
ya, but why cant 1 have the power of making it as close to as he pictured as possible?
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because you touch yourself at night
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im surpised that hasnt become an acronym..i think ill start that officially in this thread

BYTYAN
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im more surprised nobody said it within 3 replies

but thats good...bytyan, yay!
 
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ajpa123

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Originally posted by: platinumike
Originally posted by: ajpa123
Originally posted by: platinumike
Originally posted by: ajpa123
Originally posted by: platinumike
ya, but why cant 1 have the power of making it as close to as he pictured as possible? is it best not to even waste your mind pondering on things that will always have a varying outcome?
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u think and overanalyse WAY too much...
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hmm...maybe I do. Maybe its stifling my personality. So when i start to analyze things should i just move my mind on to something else?
Click to expand...

No, just smile and clear your mind.
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Its wierd though, at clubs and parties im always the energetic/crazy/random one. I'll try to smile and clear my mind, Im gonna do this when i see that chick again...gahh cant wait!
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No, wait.. when you see sum random chick..

smile, clear your mind and grab her b00bies :shocked:
 
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BriGy86

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Originally posted by: platinumike
Im talking about that mental image or a whole scenario of how you picture things playing out, or maybe how you picture a place/someone's house to such great detail. But 9 outa 10 times it never goes as pictured. Sometimes its for the better, most times its not. Right now im feeling kinda energetic so was gonna out, but what im picturing downtown to be like is to be alot of people there, real busy, plenty of hot chicks. I bet you i go there and its not busy at all. Another instance is im picturing asking a girl out on monday(in my class) i Must do it. I've made small talk and wanna go out with her, now that i have my confidence and have pictured it in my head, it will always play out so much differently.

WHY!!
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its called hope, for me its useless because it only leaves me in disappointment
 
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platinumike

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Originally posted by: BriGy86
Originally posted by: platinumike
Im talking about that mental image or a whole scenario of how you picture things playing out, or maybe how you picture a place/someone's house to such great detail. But 9 outa 10 times it never goes as pictured. Sometimes its for the better, most times its not. Right now im feeling kinda energetic so was gonna out, but what im picturing downtown to be like is to be alot of people there, real busy, plenty of hot chicks. I bet you i go there and its not busy at all. Another instance is im picturing asking a girl out on monday(in my class) i Must do it. I've made small talk and wanna go out with her, now that i have my confidence and have pictured it in my head, it will always play out so much differently.

WHY!!
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its called hope, for me its useless because it only leaves me in disappointment
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Ya i guess it could be called hope. But then not having hope isnt good i always hear "have hope"
 
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BriGy86

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its a pointless emotion, nothing good ever comes of it,

having hope and never having anything good come from it is just lieing to yourself, but im told im a heartless bastard so do what ever is best for you
 
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How about every time I go to Wendy's to get a burger I imagine the burger as it is shown in the commercials, all big and juicy and about 4" tall with a large beef patty spilling outside the bun. Instead, I get this luke warm, flat piece of crap that looks nothing like it does on tv. Oh well, thems the breaks.
 
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platinumike

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lol. i read your myspace, you dont seem to be a heartless bastard. bTw how is that thing when it comes to meeting people?
 
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