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Why do only obese women like me?!?!

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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: ribbon13
Why is it I have the opposite problem? I kinda like the healthy ones, and hot skinny chicks always approach me. I know being extra nice usually is a turn off, and I try it, but they still don't leave me alone. From my earliest experience with the really good looking girls... they always turn out to be money grubbing unfaithful scandalous little bitches.

Truth FTW


haha that's so true though....I'm starting to doubt if there even is such a thing as a good looking girl who isn't a whorible whore.

i have one. she is one of the few. doesnt care about material things, likes to play computer games, will basically do anything i ask her to do, and most of all she loves me even though sometimes i dont deserve it. gotta find one like that and its all good...
 
Originally posted by: AmdEmAll
yeah only fat chicks seem to like me to. problelby cause I have zero confidence.

Yeah, no young woman is truely out of your grasp until you think she is. Unfortunately confidence is key... 🙁
 
To the OP: Of course you're getting hit on by fat chicks, EVERYONE does! The reason is simple: they're fat, they dont get any, so they have to be more agressive in pursuing a mate because men arent pursuing them. Hot girls most likely wont be all over you, they'll expect the guys to come to them.
 
Originally posted by: Slammy1
500 fat ones, or 50 really fat ones?

It's a lot of things. Of course confidence, but as well you may be friendlier to the friendlier personalities of some women. The hot ones that are friendly tend to get guys that fixate on them so they're a bit more stand-offish, makes them seem stuck up. Also, good looking people tend not to have as many real problems in life so they tend to (of course, this is a general statement) fixate on shallower issues. For example, there was this one girl in class that had an obvious attraction for me. She'd follow me around a lot, that sort of thing. Very good looking girl too, blond hair blue eyes cheerleader sort (and straight-A student). She was pre-med, came in one day really upset. I asked her if she was OK, if something was wrong, she said she'd just read that the average doctor only makes something like 100k coming out of med school. My immediate response was that there are a lot of them working in clinics and doing things like peace corp which brings down the average, this actually made her feel better. That was the llast time I talked to her.

what kind of bonehead statement? I beg to differ, what the heck constitutes a real problem? The popular and attractive people usually have the most real problems because its masked by society's superficial view of their beauty. I have met a ton of attractive females, and guys for that matter, and they all have lots of real problems but people dont see those because they're so caught up in their external beauty. Kinda like how people think rich people have it all, when it creates a multitude of other problems, although still better than the problems encountered on the other end of the spectrum.
 
Originally posted by: PrayForDeath
Originally posted by: goku
Does the OP live in chicago?

Why?

Interesting thread; so any updates OP?

well I went to the club last night after the hopkins-taylor fight. There's a girl that hangs out with some of my other friends that's pretty cool/hot so I acted polite, and then feigned disinterest just to confuse her. She ended up hugging me and trying to dance with me in my friends basement when they played music.

The club was alright, there weren't a whole ton of girls there. I stood off to the side looking disinterested and an UBER-skinny girl started grinding on me...I'm talkin 5 6 80 lbs...i could actually feel her pelvic bones grinding on me through her ass. That was ****** awful....but I suppose she wasn't obese so I can't complain.

See my thread about fighting outside of a club for how the night ended
 
U r aware that girls don't soley judge guys on their looks? They to to an extent but they're much more interested in your personality and how u make them feel. If a fat chick comes up to u and wants to get to know u better, just point behind her and yell "Turkey" and then we she looks away, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!!! HAHAHA!
 
Originally posted by: iamskew

I know why: your pictures sent my gaydar into high alert. You definitely dress like you enjoy the company of other dudes. And you have a really gay look on your face. So, in other words, stop dressing and looking gay and you'll be money.


I literally almost broke my chair and injured myself after reading that comment... not in a mean way... it was just funny
 
steps:

1) watch shallow hal movie..

2) remember that a woman who is 180 is generally not considered obese or morbidly obese.

3) try looking a lit more into personality
 
Originally posted by: iamskew

I know why: your pictures sent my gaydar into high alert. You definitely dress like you enjoy the company of other dudes. And you have a really gay look on your face. So, in other words, stop dressing and looking gay and you'll be money.



baahahaha



Disclaimer: I"m not saying I don't want to be friends with obese girls, I'm just not physically attracted to them.
 
Originally posted by: CoolTech
Originally posted by: Slammy1
500 fat ones, or 50 really fat ones?

It's a lot of things. Of course confidence, but as well you may be friendlier to the friendlier personalities of some women. The hot ones that are friendly tend to get guys that fixate on them so they're a bit more stand-offish, makes them seem stuck up. Also, good looking people tend not to have as many real problems in life so they tend to (of course, this is a general statement) fixate on shallower issues. For example, there was this one girl in class that had an obvious attraction for me. She'd follow me around a lot, that sort of thing. Very good looking girl too, blond hair blue eyes cheerleader sort (and straight-A student). She was pre-med, came in one day really upset. I asked her if she was OK, if something was wrong, she said she'd just read that the average doctor only makes something like 100k coming out of med school. My immediate response was that there are a lot of them working in clinics and doing things like peace corp which brings down the average, this actually made her feel better. That was the llast time I talked to her.

what kind of bonehead statement? I beg to differ, what the heck constitutes a real problem? The popular and attractive people usually have the most real problems because its masked by society's superficial view of their beauty. I have met a ton of attractive females, and guys for that matter, and they all have lots of real problems but people dont see those because they're so caught up in their external beauty. Kinda like how people think rich people have it all, when it creates a multitude of other problems, although still better than the problems encountered on the other end of the spectrum.

If you read your last statement you seem to confirm my point. Ever date a cheerleader?
 
Originally posted by: Accipiter22

The club was alright, there weren't a whole ton of girls there. I stood off to the side looking disinterested and an UBER-skinny girl started grinding on me...I'm talkin 5 6 80 lbs...i could actually feel her pelvic bones grinding on me through her ass. That was ****** awful....but I suppose she wasn't obese so I can't complain.

LOL from one extreme to another :laugh:

sorry just had to say that 😛
 
Sad that you think that a grl who tips the scales at 180 is obese. At what weight do you consider a woman to be obese?


Will G.
 
Originally posted by: paulney
Originally posted by: iamskew

I know why: your pictures sent my gaydar into high alert. You definitely dress like you enjoy the company of other dudes. And you have a really gay look on your face. So, in other words, stop dressing and looking gay and you'll be money.

Bwhahahaha
Zing!!!


Fvcking hella funnay.😀
 
Originally posted by: iamskew

I know why: your pictures sent my gaydar into high alert. You definitely dress like you enjoy the company of other dudes. And you have a really gay look on your face. So, in other words, stop dressing and looking gay and you'll be money.
ROFL

Hilarious!! :laugh:

EDIT: That one titled "again" is flamin'!
 
Originally posted by: ShellGuy
Sad that you think that a grl who tips the scales at 180 is obese. At what weight do you consider a woman to be obese?


Will G.

it depends on height......most of these girls I"m talking about are 5 4 and down and close to 180 prolly.
 
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: ShellGuy
Sad that you think that a grl who tips the scales at 180 is obese. At what weight do you consider a woman to be obese?


Will G.

it depends on height......most of these girls I"m talking about are 5 4 and down and close to 180 prolly.


According to a BMI calculator 5'4 has a BMI of 30.9 (30 and over is obese) It's not nearly as ambiguous to women as it is to men.
 
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