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Why do only obese women like me?!?!

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Accipiter22

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Feel free to haev fun with this, I dunno if anyone can actually give me a serious answer....

I'm look good (or at the very least, decent). I dress good, I'm in awesome shape, I make good conversation...yet the same demographic keeps going after me; obese girls. and not just a LITTLE bit chubby. I mean obese. I'm 5 10 or 5 11 and 180 lbs, and EVERY girl that shows much interest in me weighs at LEAST as much as me...wtf. I mean, if i pursue a decent looking skinny girl, i can get the #, but they never pan out for some reason...Maybe because disiniterest attracts women, and I dont' act very interested in obese girls, so after I meet them they want to pursue me?!?!


and please nobody chime in with 'don't be shallow'. It's like my friend says 'no matter what anybody says, looks do matter. Nobody goes out and says 'hey there's someone i find repulsive, I'll go talk to them!'.
 
Because good looking guys go after good looking girls ergo they don't have to go out hunting. Monsters don't get attention from guys so they have to go out on the hunt.

Good looking women that you meet in bars are often (not always) spoilt, arrogant, self-centered little bitches and couldn't give a crap about hurting guys if it means they get a better looking guy.

Best of luck to you.
 
Fat women are desperate, so they resort to chasing. All other halfway decent looking women get hit on all the time, they have no need to chase men down.
 
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Feel free to haev fun with this, I dunno if anyone can actually give me a serious answer....

I'm look good (or at the very least, decent). I dress good, I'm in awesome shape, I make good conversation...yet the same demographic keeps going after me; obese girls. and not just a LITTLE bit chubby. I mean obese. I'm 5 10 or 5 11 and 180 lbs, and EVERY girl that shows much interest in me weighs at LEAST as much as me...wtf. I mean, if i pursue a decent looking skinny girl, i can get the #, but they never pan out for some reason...Maybe because disiniterest attracts women, and I dont' act very interested in obese girls, so after I meet them they want to pursue me?!?!


and please nobody chime in with 'don't be shallow'. It's like my friend says 'no matter what anybody says, looks do matter. Nobody goes out and says 'hey there's someone i find repulsive, I'll go talk to them!'.
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i agree with that. there has to be some kind of physical attraction.

i don't know what the answer to your situation is, but good luck.
 
Perhaps you are one of those guys in the middle.

Not good looking enough for hot girls to consider you, but still not good looking enough for the "obese" girls to assume you're out of their league. The "obese" girls must think you're "hot stuff, within their reach"
 
Originally posted by: Accipiter22

and please nobody chime in with 'don't be shallow'. It's like my friend says 'no matter what anybody says, looks do matter. Nobody goes out and says 'hey there's someone i find repulsive, I'll go talk to them!'.
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looks matter to men. An smooth talking ugly guy can talk away his ugly face in ten minutes and be in bed with that model you are too timid to approach by the end of the night.
 
OP - are you extra nice to fat girls, because you feel sorry for them? Maybe they're misunderstanding your attitude.

If you're too clingy with the kind of girls you want to date, than can put them off.

 
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Accipiter22

and please nobody chime in with 'don't be shallow'. It's like my friend says 'no matter what anybody says, looks do matter. Nobody goes out and says 'hey there's someone i find repulsive, I'll go talk to them!'.
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looks matter to men. An smooth talking ugly guy can talk away his ugly face in ten minutes and be in bed with that model you are too timid to approach by the end of the night.
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I've seen it happen. Not with a model, but a hot chick at least.
 
maybe if you stop walking around smelling like bacon, that would solve all ur problems
or least 1/2 of it, ...or 1/4..or w/e the proportion is
 
Dude, you have to act like an arse to women, otherwise they will have absolutely no interest in you outside of trying to find new ways to use you.
 
from my experience its because obese women see that we dont have 'confidence' or whatever to get skinny ones. In my case i keep getting older divorced or women with kids who are my age. Neither i will really want to go into.

These obese women also see our potential for 'good' in the future, whereas the thin ones are only looking at present moment. So we might be 'dirt poor' now, but we have potentail so tehy are trying to latch on. If we pretend to be fun, rich, flamboyant, we will end up with the thin girls.. cause they live in teh moment.. cause they are too insecure abouttheir looks tehy cant think far enoguh.

there are exceptions to the rule.
 
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