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Why do most women fall for the worst men alive?

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Originally posted by: bleeb
Originally posted by: Mik3y
girls want guys that are fun, exciting, daring, and preferably one who looks good and takes care of themselves physically too. i would want a girl like that. its hard just to find someone you like who just likes you back for who you are. most people dont get to know who you really are unless you make it happen, so confidence is the key here. knowing atot, most of us are hermits.
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bing!!
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hahah cave dwellers
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: crazySOB297
They always date the "bad-asses" because there's no commitment there, and sometimes they are quite afraid of commitment to.
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They go for the "bad-asses" because these are the alpha males that get their juices flowing.. Women say they want a nice guy, but they don't.
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Yup.. especially asian chicks.. Man everytime I see a hot asian chick.. she's always with this wannabe gangster guy.
 
It's a matter of path of least resistance. The good guys are much less available than the sleazebags.
 
Originally posted by: bigredguy
Many women i know choose their partner largely because of his physical attributes, and then wonder why they are so unhappy emotionally.
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Most men do the same thing. Perhaps it would be better to say, "Most people ... choose their partner largely because of physical attributes."
 
Originally posted by: virtualgames0
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: crazySOB297
They always date the "bad-asses" because there's no commitment there, and sometimes they are quite afraid of commitment to.
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They go for the "bad-asses" because these are the alpha males that get their juices flowing.. Women say they want a nice guy, but they don't.
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Yup.. especially asian chicks.. Man everytime I see a hot asian chick.. she's always with this wannabe gangster guy.
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say that to his face! he'll call his gang and jump you
 
Because most women who put themselves in that situation don't really know what they want. There's millions of dollars dumped into research as to why women stay in abusive relationships, but it all boils down to one thing: Stupidity. If you're being abused, LEAVE. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO STAY. YOU ARE STAYING OF YOUR OWN FREE-WILL. YOU DO NOT NEED THIS PERSON IF THEY ABUSE YOU. IF YOU RECOGNIZE THE ABUSE, STOP COMPLAINING AND GO!

I don't care what you say about love and emotions, abuse is abuse, and the smarter women leave when they realize what they've gotten into. The less fortunate ones stay behind and continue being abused.

Women want rich men, powerful men, or rich and powerful men.

Ladder Theory FTW
 
so ya, i went to vietnam just 3 weeks ago. and guess what? on my 2nd day, i got laid. so 2 of hottest asian girls ever come up to me, wanting to talk. i'm viet, but i cant speak viet at all, so i was like, "um...hi....you...me...hotel?". all she understood was me pointing to her and myself and the word hotel. end result? the most awesome 3some ever. and no, i didnt have to pay them ******, in case you come asking. they're just pure sluts.
 
Originally posted by: Mik3y
so ya, i went to vietnam just 3 weeks ago. and guess what? on my 2nd day, i got laid. so 2 of hottest asian girls ever come up to me, wanting to talk. i'm viet, but i cant speak viet at all, so i was like, "um...hi....you...me...hotel?". all she understood was me pointing to her and myself and the word hotel. end result? the most awesome 3some ever. and no, i didnt have to pay them ******, in case you come asking. they're just pure sluts.
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Let me direct you to this and this.
 
Originally posted by: Bozono
Originally posted by: Mik3y
so ya, i went to vietnam just 3 weeks ago. and guess what? on my 2nd day, i got laid. so 2 of hottest asian girls ever come up to me, wanting to talk. i'm viet, but i cant speak viet at all, so i was like, "um...hi....you...me...hotel?". all she understood was me pointing to her and myself and the word hotel. end result? the most awesome 3some ever. and no, i didnt have to pay them ******, in case you come asking. they're just pure sluts.
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Let me direct you to this and this.
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lol, i would never have sex with a random girl who came up to me in some other country. Unless they approached me with a very recent STD test result that came up negative... then i'd consider it...
 
Originally posted by: Azndude51
Originally posted by: Bozono
Originally posted by: Mik3y
so ya, i went to vietnam just 3 weeks ago. and guess what? on my 2nd day, i got laid. so 2 of hottest asian girls ever come up to me, wanting to talk. i'm viet, but i cant speak viet at all, so i was like, "um...hi....you...me...hotel?". all she understood was me pointing to her and myself and the word hotel. end result? the most awesome 3some ever. and no, i didnt have to pay them ******, in case you come asking. they're just pure sluts.
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Let me direct you to this and this.
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lol, i would never have sex with a random girl who came up to me in some other country. Unless they approached me with a very recent STD test result that came up negative... then i'd consider it...
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i can understand viet but cant speak it. they kept making sure i didnt have an std. they were more cautious about it than i was. score! 🙂
 
The 'worst men alive' are probably more outgoing, willing to go out, dance, and have a good time. They meet more women so they have a better chance of dating one. Your 'nice guy' is probably sitting on a computer complaining about how he doesn't have a woman in his life.
 
Some do and many don't.

Though this one female friend of mine always made the wrong choice. I mean every single time. She would go out with one POS after another and in between complain about how they treated her and why it always happend to her. She would not consider the possibility that her selection process left a lot to be desired.
 
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: bigredguy
Many women i know choose their partner largely because of his physical attributes, and then wonder why they are so unhappy emotionally.
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Most men do the same thing. Perhaps it would be better to say, "Most people ... choose their partner largely because of physical attributes."
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Because most women are just as shallow as most men? 😛
 
Some women dont like boring, clingy men. They want a man that is a challenge.

Question to you, do you like to play easy boring video games? Some people tend to avoid boring individuals.
 
Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
I think most women pick the bad guys because they see some redeeming quality in them and maybe feel that they can change them so that they will no longer be bad guys or because they think that that quality will be enough for them.

Some are naive, some are insecure and some just don't know what they want.
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I think she's pretty much hit the nail on the head. Women like the "bad boys" due to whatever qualities that they see in those guys that they don't see in the "average" guy. The problem with this is that once the initial "swooning" that the woman feels from being with the "bad boy" is gone, she is already planning on what needs to be done to change him to suit her needs. She won't listen to anybody who tells her that the guy isn't going to change. She is CERTAIN that she is all that he will ever need and that she can make him change. She holds on to this idea....never failing to believe that this will happen. Time passes and they get married. She is still convinced that she will change him.....although she hasn't yet. And eventually, she realizes that regardless of how hard she has tried, she can't change him because he has no desire to change. And she'll finally understand that change comes from within a person and that unless he wants to change.....none of her efforts will cause him to do so. That seems harsh and awful...but it seems to be true. 🙁

jc
 
Originally posted by: Mik3y
Originally posted by: Azndude51
Originally posted by: Bozono
Originally posted by: Mik3y
so ya, i went to vietnam just 3 weeks ago. and guess what? on my 2nd day, i got laid. so 2 of hottest asian girls ever come up to me, wanting to talk. i'm viet, but i cant speak viet at all, so i was like, "um...hi....you...me...hotel?". all she understood was me pointing to her and myself and the word hotel. end result? the most awesome 3some ever. and no, i didnt have to pay them ******, in case you come asking. they're just pure sluts.
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Let me direct you to this and this.
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lol, i would never have sex with a random girl who came up to me in some other country. Unless they approached me with a very recent STD test result that came up negative... then i'd consider it...
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i can understand viet but cant speak it. they kept making sure i didnt have an std. they were more cautious about it than i was. score! 🙂
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heh, well shoot.. maybe i should go for a visit... haha.
 
Originally posted by: quackerww
Why do most women fall for the worst men alive?

Do they not know normal men would be more dedicated to them and treat them right?

But no they fall for the jocks and people that beat them?.

Go Figure.
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most women don't.

some do, but i wouldn't say most.

 
Originally posted by: jcwagers
Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
I think most women pick the bad guys because they see some redeeming quality in them and maybe feel that they can change them so that they will no longer be bad guys or because they think that that quality will be enough for them.

Some are naive, some are insecure and some just don't know what they want.
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I think she's pretty much hit the nail on the head. Women like the "bad boys" due to whatever qualities that they see in those guys that they don't see in the "average" guy. The problem with this is that once the initial "swooning" that the woman feels from being with the "bad boy" is gone, she is already planning on what needs to be done to change him to suit her needs. She won't listen to anybody who tells her that the guy isn't going to change. She is CERTAIN that she is all that he will ever need and that she can make him change. She holds on to this idea....never failing to believe that this will happen. Time passes and they get married. She is still convinced that she will change him.....although she hasn't yet. And eventually, she realizes that regardless of how hard she has tried, she can't change him because he has no desire to change. And she'll finally understand that change comes from within a person and that unless he wants to change.....none of her efforts will cause him to do so. That seems harsh and awful...but it seems to be true. 🙁

jc
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Nail on the head..... Those Women will never truely get it either. Because if she figures out that its a good idea to divorce him, she will end up again in the same exact situation with another man 90% of the time.
 
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