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Why do most women fall for the worst men alive?

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Women want that one man to give them their every want and need. Whereas Men want every woman to give them their ONE want and need.
 
Why do the hot, fun, but somewhat sketchy women that most of us find attractive fall for hot, fun, but somewhat sketchy guys?

hmm... you tell me.
 
I think any women with a guy will complain about them because women are never satisfied. Hence, the majority of men who have a gf will always seem like morons, and those without a gf will always think to themselves: "oh, if I were your bf, i wouldn't treat you like that."

Also, according to dr. Drew, girls that go for "bad" men are those who has never had a connection with their father and is attracted to that chaotic feeling of a male.



the real question is, how come things like programming aren't perceived by girls as cool? I talk to my gf about coding all the time, and the dedication and skill it takes to actually come up with a good solution, she cares only because I do, but I know she doesn't look at it the same way as being able to dance well. 🙁
 
Genetic code; instinct. In our ape days a cruel, headstrong & vapidly stupid male was better able to provide for his offspring.
 
Originally posted by: miri
Some women dont like boring, clingy men. They want a man that is a challenge.

Question to you, do you like to play easy boring video games? Some people tend to avoid boring individuals.
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'challenge' is vague. challenge as in a guy who can have women around him, opening to scenarios of taking him away from her?

the casual women around him, who he /they occasionally flirt?

does this 1. validate to her that her guy is likeable. Sad how the female mind works (s it mind, or instinctual), but it does. But why do you need this assurance?

'all the good men are taken' syndrome. To find a good man is to look at the one that is taken or takable 'approvable'.

funny how when a woman meets a guy, the next thing she does sooner or later is get you to meet with her 'girlfriends' and after that day, she gets a 'analysis debriefing' from her girlfriends, approval or not. Though the final decision is hers, so much is allowed to be influenced by 'other' women.

2. needs to feel she's competing against other women? as opposed to a guy that doesn't have any women around him (which she officially wants) but yet if they weren't swarming around him... she'd feel no 'challenge'? and think she was clinging on to a weirdo, less 'manly' man?


well some women aren't like that, they're happy if a guy stays home instead of having all the attention. Probably taxing on her keeping tabs.

 
Originally posted by: EmperorIQ


the real question is, how come things like programming aren't perceived by girls as cool? I talk to my gf about coding all the time, and the dedication and skill it takes to actually come up with a good solution, she cares only because I do, but I know she doesn't look at it the same way as being able to dance well. 🙁
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Correct! Programming is powerful, but only in the realm of machines! Talk to women about some global economics, something financial related... throw all kinds of graphs and trends that show you know how $ is made... they're gonna get wet.

in both cases they don't know what the heck you're talking about, in both cases you may make the same amount of $, but one they get wet, the other they think you're a nerd. Welcome to the female.
 
Way to many variables to make broad sweeping generalisations that I see peppered through out this entire thread.

My advice to whoever was disgruntled enough to post this thread in the first place is to go out and meet more people.

Plenty of fish in the sea and thats a fact.
 
Originally posted by: geecee
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: bigredguy
Many women i know choose their partner largely because of his physical attributes, and then wonder why they are so unhappy emotionally.
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Most men do the same thing. Perhaps it would be better to say, "Most people ... choose their partner largely because of physical attributes."
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Because most women are just as shallow as most men? 😛
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i didn't say that for 2 reasons

1) i don't believe men require as much emotional love as women, it's a double standard, i know, and

2) the thread is about women being dumb at chooseing partners, so my post was too.
 
I think the answer is pretty simple. The guy asked. I just got screwed over by my ex, but that's not going to stop me from asking me the next one. Try it sometime, you may be suprised. My ex, she was crazy, everyone is crazy in there own way; maybe the next one won't be crazy in a bad way like the last one was though, only one way to find out.
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: crazySOB297
They always date the "bad-asses" because there's no commitment there, and sometimes they are quite afraid of commitment to.
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They go for the "bad-asses" because these are the alpha males that get their juices flowing.. Women say they want a nice guy, but they don't.
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They want a nice guy...to help them raise the bad ass's kid after he humps and dumps them.
 
Originally posted by: Siddhartha
Originally posted by: quackerww
Just asking a question, has nothing to do with me....

Seemed like a good Thread...
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Women prefer men who have good looks, money, fame, etc. They are looking for the best deal they can get.
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Men want what they can't have. Women want what doesn't exist. 😛
 
Originally posted by: quackerww
Why do most women fall for the worst men alive?

Do they not know normal men would be more dedicated to them and treat them right?

But no they fall for the jocks and people that beat them?.

Go Figure.
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Most? haha, you are obviously a loser who thinks that girls prefer other people because they have a fault. Look inward, son. Make yourself appealing to women and you will find that they become interested. If you can't make yourself appealing to women, then maybe you should consider batting for the other team.
 
Originally posted by: Bozono
Originally posted by: Mik3y
so ya, i went to vietnam just 3 weeks ago. and guess what? on my 2nd day, i got laid. so 2 of hottest asian girls ever come up to me, wanting to talk. i'm viet, but i cant speak viet at all, so i was like, "um...hi....you...me...hotel?". all she understood was me pointing to her and myself and the word hotel. end result? the most awesome 3some ever. and no, i didnt have to pay them ******, in case you come asking. they're just pure sluts.
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Let me direct you to this and this.
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:thumbsup: for the mentioning of my post...😛 :laugh:
 
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