why do girls love jerks? <<YAGT>>

[McGyver]

loosing sleep, lack of appetite, can't seem to focus; symptoms of being in love. but i know as well as everybody sane that getting a girl needs a lot more than that, be a player. the gameplan is to ignore her, be mean and act like a jerk. hopefully, she'll hit that.

 

[MrDudeMan]

i dont know if i would take it to that extreme, but definitely dont show her just how interested you are or it wont be fun for her and you lose.

 

[S Freud]

Originally posted by: MrDudeMan
i dont know if i would take it to that extreme, but definitely dont show her just how interested you are or it wont be fun for her and you lose.

Its sad how true that is, at least in my experience. I like a girl, started paying attention to her, got nowhere. So naturally I gave up, no more then a week later she starts texting me like crazy and asking to hang out and stuff.

 

[herkulease]

I wonder if some female shrink ever wrote about this odd thing women do.

and none of that self esteem stuff people tend to use as a reason.

 

[Conky]

Nice guys have no control and no fun. Don't be afraid to be a dick... nice predictable guys are sitting alone most of the time.

You don't have to be a total jerk... just enough to make her know you are capable of being a bigger jerk, lol.

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

What you deem jerk-ish behavior she sees as assertive and self confident.

/thread

 

[mundane]

 

[doze]

You don't have to be an ass, just have a little self confidence and a slightly indifferent attitude and you'll do fine.

 

[Cooljt1]

confidence and the fact that the jerk just doesnt seem to give a ****** or "need" her which makes her try to qualify herself to them and win him over. there it is in a nutshell

 

[Whisper]

It's not that girls like jerks, it's that girls like guys who are confident in themselves. People who are too nice, in general, seem to come across as push-overs. Hell, remove yourself from the situation for a second, and imagine seeing an attractive girl out with a guy who's fawning all over her; even you'd wonder what she's doing with him. People in general want a mate who values the relationship, but also knows that said relationship includes "alone time" for each party involved.

 

[BlancoNino]

Originally posted by: diegoalcatraz

I disagree.

 

[Triforceofcourage]

Originally posted by: McGyver
loosing sleep, lack of appetite, can't seem to focus; symptoms of being in love. but i know as well as everybody sane that getting a girl needs a lot more than that, be a player. the gameplan is to ignore her, be mean and act like a jerk. hopefully, she'll hit that.

I agree, I have had most success when I acted aloof and like a dick. Its unfortunate but you will never get anywhere acting nice to a girl. Treat her well but make sure she knows she isn't the only game in town.

 

[Paulson]

Assholes are just more interesting I guess...

 

[Red Dawn]

They don't love jerks they just don't like needy dorks. Stop acting like a needy dork and you'd be surprised at the outcome.

 

[Stunt]

Everyone loves what they can't have, jerks blow off women all the time and it drives them nuts

The key is confidence...even the most outgoing women want someone who takes control and tells her what they want.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: McGyver
loosing sleep, lack of appetite, can't seem to focus; symptoms of being in love. but i know as well as everybody sane that getting a girl needs a lot more than that, be a player. the gameplan is to ignore her, be mean and act like a jerk. hopefully, she'll hit that.

I don't know about the above.

Most chicks are not looking for 'Prince Charming' to become their husbands...they want fun, they don't need a commitment anymore to do things in a bedroom, and they don't want someone following them around / checking up on them. In a dating scene, they may have other boyfriends.

Too many guys think they have to put a chick on a pedestal and when they see another guy not getting a door, or calling a chick a name/picking on her....they don't get it's probably exciting for both parties. She wants to try and get him to do things...when he does she 'wins' a bit...he wants her to do things, when she does he 'wins' a bit.

Lots of people just jump relationship to relationship though, on their first dates they are already picturing a life together.

 

[Dean]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
They don't love jerks they just don't like needy dorks. Stop acting like a needy dork and you'd be surprised at the outcome.

It took Red quite a few decades to finally come to realize that philosophy OP. He speaks from experience!


......zing

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: Dean

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
They don't love jerks they just don't like needy dorks. Stop acting like a needy dork and you'd be surprised at the outcome.

It took Red quite a few decades to finally come to realize that philosophy OP. He speaks from experience!


......zing

No it didn't, I just had to read your YAGT threads to come to that conclusion.

 

[Dean]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Dean

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
They don't love jerks they just don't like needy dorks. Stop acting like a needy dork and you'd be surprised at the outcome.

It took Red quite a few decades to finally come to realize that philosophy OP. He speaks from experience!


......zing

No it didn't, I just had to read your YAGT threads to come to that conclusion.

hahaha. Yeah I must have hundreds of them by now.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: Dean

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Dean

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
They don't love jerks they just don't like needy dorks. Stop acting like a needy dork and you'd be surprised at the outcome.

It took Red quite a few decades to finally come to realize that philosophy OP. He speaks from experience!


......zing

No it didn't, I just had to read your YAGT threads to come to that conclusion.

hahaha. Yeah I must have hundreds of them by now.

Oops sorry, I misread your handle, I thought it said "Dork" instead of "Dean":laugh:

 

[Dean]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Dean

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Dean

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
They don't love jerks they just don't like needy dorks. Stop acting like a needy dork and you'd be surprised at the outcome.

It took Red quite a few decades to finally come to realize that philosophy OP. He speaks from experience!


......zing

No it didn't, I just had to read your YAGT threads to come to that conclusion.

hahaha. Yeah I must have hundreds of them by now.

Oops sorry, I misread your handle, I thought it said "Dork" instead of "Dean":laugh:

hahaha. Now that comeback is more like it. For a minute there I thought you were losing your edge!!:laugh:

 

[bobdelt]

they want to tame the wild beast... they want the jerk, that will only be nice to them.

 

[McGyver]

well put guys, i'll just treat her like a bitch right now.

 

[SoundTheSurrender]

Make her cry and ignore here, call here a slut a couple times and you'll get here sooner or later.

 

[StormRider]

Here's what you should do:

Tell her that you're interested in her. If she says, "I'm not interested in you that way -- I think of you as a friend". Reply, "Ok, having you as a friend is good enough for me". Then be the best friend possible. Since you are happy just being around her, you will start exercisng. If she ask, "Have you been working out?" Reply, "Why, yes I have -- thanks for noticing!". Then continue to be happy while she is just your friend and you see her going out with other guys. Since you are happy, you will become more successful in life. You might get promoted and earn lots of money, buy a nice house, a nice car and stuff.

After a couple of years, she might start to "notice" you. You've been working out, you have a great job, make lots of money and is a great and loyal friend to her.

Now, if she makes a move and tries to kiss you with the hope of moving beyond the friendship stage, pull back and say, "What are you doing?". And if she says, "I think I have feelings for you". Reply back with, "I only think of you as a friend and I don't want to ruin this great friendship. I'm not interested in you in that way".

 

[Gooberlx2]

i'm compelled to be one even tho i'm not

You don't get to have it both ways.