i'm confused by zone alarm's output. did your computer send an icmp unreachable message to forums.anandtech.com, or the other way around?
when you attempt to connect to a remote machine, and the connection can not be made due to whatever routing issues, a router sends you an icmp unreachable message. (i.e. this is not a ping attempt - and a scan would be an insane thing for them to do, plus AFAIK they're running windows, and i dont think many windows people use nmap - AND you'd get alot more warnings if they did scan you

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AFAIK, zone alarm simply drops all packets coming in (i.e. it doesnt respond, so the unreachable message was not sent by you), so that would mean you received this packet from forums.anandtech.com, which means there was some sort of routing issue at that time. who knows why, the internet is a crazy place
