Why can't I speak whats actually on my mind?

[shamrock1313]

Why am I afraid to tell the girl I love... well, that I love her? I've been hurting for the past couple days from recent actions from said girl, and I am talking to her about it now. I have never felt this way about ANY girl before. She is just completely different from any girl I have ever met before. I want to tell her exactly how I feel, but I am just too scared to tell her.

I fear more emotional hurt. I just needed to get this off my chest. I am sorry if this is bloggish or anything. I just can't help it anymore. I hold in everything, and it builds up to a point where I just sulk about it instead of opening up..

I have no courage.

 

[mchammer]

omg wtf

 

[MX2]

You fear rejection.

/thread

 

[HamburgerBoy]

Originally posted by: shamrock1313
I hold in everything, and it builds up to a point where I just sulk about it instead of opening up.

Opening up your wrists will help you greatly.

 

[Ricemarine]

Originally posted by: MX2times
You fear rejection.

/thread

I concur.

 

[CraKaJaX]

Just do it.

 

[Zim Hosein]

Originally posted by: shamrock1313
Why am I afraid to tell the girl I love... well, that I love her? I've been hurting for the past couple days from recent actions from said girl, and I am talking to her about it now. I have never felt this way about ANY girl before. She is just completely different from any girl I have ever met before. I want to tell her exactly how I feel, but I am just too scared to tell her.

I fear more emotional hurt. I just needed to get this off my chest. I am sorry if this is bloggish or anything. I just can't help it anymore. I hold in everything, and it builds up to a point where I just sulk about it instead of opening up..

I have no courage.

I'm gonna guess you're very young shamrock1313, live and learn IMO

 

[Tu13erhead]

Cheer up, emo kid!

 

[bigrash]

maybe you should bake her a cake?

 

[MX2]

To give you a tip from a female and possibly help you. I would rather a guy approached me stumbling over a few words here and there and appear a slight bit nervous, than to deal with the overbearing "attack it before it gets out of eyesight" guys.

Just relax and tell her you are nervous and she makes you all fluttery inside

 

[MichaelD]

You're obviously very young...nothing wrong with that...we all must start somewhere.

You're afraid of rejection and/or failure, plain and simple. You don't want to love in vain. You don't want your spirit to get crushed. You don't want your heart broken.

That's normal. But guess what? LIFE HAPPENS, dude. You will never know what you can achieve if you don't stretch and reach out for the brass ring. You may fall flat on your face; you can do it now or you can do it later. There's no avoiding it; someday, you will get your d1ck stepped on, big-time.

You'll hurt, learn and grow. Maybe you'll be lucky enough to grow to be old and bitter, like me!

Love is better than breathing when it's great and worse than dying when it's not. But that's life.

Remember this:

Women: you can't shoot'em and you can't have hetereosexual sex without'em. <--words to live by

 

[mchammer]

Originally posted by: bigrash
maybe you should bake her a cake?

lol :thumdsup;

 

[shamrock1313]

I'm not emo by any means. I can guarentee you that. Zim, I will be 18 soon. Though, that doesn't necessarily make me experienced or anything.

 

[KarenMarie]

how long have you and this girl been together? How many g/f have you had before this?

 

[mchammer]

well he has cool avatar

 

[shamrock1313]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie
how long have you and this girl been together? How many g/f have you had before this?

For around 2 years.. I just cannot express myself to her. Its not any easier over the net than it is face-to-face. I've had about 3 short ones. All the other times were rejection which makes this time especially harder.

 

[KrillBee]

Originally posted by: shamrock1313
Why am I afraid to tell the girl I love... well, that I love her? I've been hurting for the past couple days from recent actions from said girl, and I am talking to her about it now. I have never felt this way about ANY girl before. She is just completely different from any girl I have ever met before. I want to tell her exactly how I feel, but I am just too scared to tell her.

I fear more emotional hurt. I just needed to get this off my chest. I am sorry if this is bloggish or anything. I just can't help it anymore. I hold in everything, and it builds up to a point where I just sulk about it instead of opening up..

I have no courage.

if you tell her, she may not be interested and your friendship with her 'could' be destroyed
if you dont tell her you could miss out on a relationship with her

quite a predicament i say

 

[MichaelD]

Argh!

There's no predicament here. You like her, right? Visualizing her in your arms keeps you up at night, correct?

Right.

Tell her. If she runs away screaming, your torment will be over, instantly and you can get on with life.

If she feels the same way, then your dream has been realized.

Either way, you WIN. WINNAR!!!!

 

[AlienCraft]

Originally posted by: MichaelD
Argh!

There's no predicament here. You like her, right? Visualizing her in your arms keeps you up at night, correct?

Right.

Tell her. If she runs away screaming, your torment will be over, instantly and you can get on with life.

If she feels the same way, then your dream has been realized.

Either way, you WIN. WINNAR!!!!

aNYTHING ELSE IS bs.
Q
F
T

 

[NGC_604]

Originally posted by: HamburgerBoy

Originally posted by: shamrock1313
I hold in everything, and it builds up to a point where I just sulk about it instead of opening up.

Opening up your wrists will help you greatly.

Wuhahah

 

[SampSon]

I'm guessing that you're talking to your "love" about this topic on some sort of internet medium.
You deserved to be slapped around for that.

These types of discussions should be done in person or in voice only.

Some quick advice, you're not in love, you will find another girl, and it's not ok to propose to a women over the internet.

 

[xSkyDrAx]

Emo FTL

just cut yourself with your plasitc knife now.

 

[KrillBee]

Originally posted by: MichaelD
Argh!

There's no predicament here. You like her, right? Visualizing her in your arms keeps you up at night, correct?

Right.

Tell her. If she runs away screaming, your torment will be over, instantly and you can get on with life.

If she feels the same way, then your dream has been realized.

Either way, you WIN. WINNAR!!!!

no
if she leaves him, he'll have lost a friend

 

[compuwiz1]

You, first are probably lame, out of touch with yourself, and probably really shallow. Is that enough reason?

 

[Schfifty Five]

Originally posted by: KrillBee

Originally posted by: MichaelD
Argh!

There's no predicament here. You like her, right? Visualizing her in your arms keeps you up at night, correct?

Right.

Tell her. If she runs away screaming, your torment will be over, instantly and you can get on with life.

If she feels the same way, then your dream has been realized.

Either way, you WIN. WINNAR!!!!

no
if she leaves him, he'll have lost a friend

Somehow I don't think OP is looking for another friend though.