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WHY CANT I FIND A WOMEN(THAT IS LIKE ME)

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Well if you want a women that is like you then like other people have said just carry on with what you are currently doing. It doesn't happen straight away that you find the love of your life or a woman that likes you back.

If you go out and do other things that aren't *you* then the women you meet won't be like you at all. I'd suggest to go out and do other things. Get a few friends or just one and go join a gym, Football club, a society anything. But that doesn't help to meet women like you.

Well just keep going on.

I've always thought to myself that if I wasn't in a relationship when I get out of Uni then I'd be shafted. The girls are gone the job you go to 5 days a week. It'll be tough.

eakers suggestion about trying to find women on the net is very good for you. They'll be in to computers in some sort of way if they are on the net a lot. Hey Eakers is perfect for you 😀
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
yea thats true but hell in Knoxville TN where in the heck would lan parties be at.
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well, even knoxville should have an arcade no?

It's pretty much a matter of stop looking for them and they'll appear before you.
 
Go to Sweden or Denmark! You wouldn't believe how many blond, blue-eyed hotties I saw in Cybercafes playing Quake III, CS, Warcraft, Diablo II, etc. I almost walked up to a few to ask them to marry me!
 
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Go to Sweden or Denmark! You wouldn't believe how many blond, blue-eyed hotties I saw in Cybercafes playing Quake III, CS, Warcraft, Diablo II, etc. I almost walked up to a few to ask them to marry me!
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Thats interesting. Didn't know that.

Oh yeah a lot of my chinese girlfriends play a lot of arcade games. They all play ps2 and 'some' pc games also. They all play games! Didn't really know they were so big in to it since I went to school in a town with very very few asians attending my school. Now that I go to Uni in London a lot of chinese girls are about since they have a china town in London. All play games like crazy. I've not seen them hang out with many guys that aren't 'asian' though. That did seems a bit strange to me, but now it doesn't so much as I understand why. They are not born in England so English isn't their first language and not many other people that aren't chinese speak chinese.

 
Originally posted by: Rob9874
I wouldn't want a girl who was into those things. Sure it sounds neat, but after a while she's just some chick who acts like a male nerd. Not too sexy.
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there ya go
 
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Go to Sweden or Denmark! You wouldn't believe how many blond, blue-eyed hotties I saw in Cybercafes playing Quake III, CS, Warcraft, Diablo II, etc. I almost walked up to a few to ask them to marry me!
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I think it's only in the States where video gaming is frowned upon by others. Some countries take it serious, like a sport. 🙂

Here, the girls at Cybercafes are usually someone's g/f and/or unattractive.
 
Im 25 and am in a similar situation ... so you know you can survive like this for another 2 yrs atleast 🙂
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Hey guys im really having a rough time. Im 23 and I cant seem to find a women who is in to things im into. I love video games, movies ,computers etc. I find some nice woman but most of them find me boring or they want to change me into this play boy. However I just dont know what to do. I also very frustrated because ive just moved to Knoxville Tn and I swear the ratio here is like 15men to every 1women. Someone please help me out.
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Because finding a pretty geeky lady is a hard and rare thing to come by.
 
I havent read the whole of this thread (admittedly) but I do know its usually better to find someone who will "complement" what you already have, its like filling in the blanks. E.g. Your evil, she's an angel 🙂
 
You don't necessarily need to find a girl who's into video games either. Just one who's open-minded and doesn't mind that that's what you're into.
 
Originally posted by: yellowperil
You don't necessarily need to find a girl who's into video games either. Just one who's open-minded and doesn't mind that that's what you're into.
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The most intelligent comment in this thread thus far.
 
Originally posted by: Nocturnal
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Hey guys im really having a rough time. Im 23 and I cant seem to find a women who is in to things im into. I love video games, movies ,computers etc. I find some nice woman but most of them find me boring or they want to change me into this play boy. However I just dont know what to do. I also very frustrated because ive just moved to Knoxville Tn and I swear the ratio here is like 15men to every 1women. Someone please help me out.
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Because finding a pretty geeky lady is a hard and rare thing to come by.
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I found one thread and yes she is extremely HOT 😛

-Bubbadu
 
Originally posted by: bubbadu
Originally posted by: Nocturnal
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Hey guys im really having a rough time. Im 23 and I cant seem to find a women who is in to things im into. I love video games, movies ,computers etc. I find some nice woman but most of them find me boring or they want to change me into this play boy. However I just dont know what to do. I also very frustrated because ive just moved to Knoxville Tn and I swear the ratio here is like 15men to every 1women. Someone please help me out.
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Because finding a pretty geeky lady is a hard and rare thing to come by.
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I found one thread and yes she is extremely HOT 😛

-Bubbadu
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You going to update that thread this weekend or are you too busy spending time with the girl?

 
It's impossible to find a young lady who's content with a laid back "easy goin" guy, don't mess with the ladies till your around 26 to 30, their just not worth it till they calm the phuck down. If you find a lady who isen't looking for "sparks" then I'd go for it, otherwise their expecting to much.
 
Well I just wanted to thank all of you for your kind thoughs and I hope that soon ill be able to find that one. Just right now im tired of being lonely.
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Hey guys im really having a rough time. Im 23 and I cant seem to find a women who is in to things im into. I love video games, movies ,computers etc. I find some nice woman but most of them find me boring or they want to change me into this play boy. However I just dont know what to do. I also very frustrated because ive just moved to Knoxville Tn and I swear the ratio here is like 15men to every 1women. Someone please help me out.
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Move.
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Well I just dont know plus its been quite a long time since ive met a girl that took my breath away that actually liked me back. Im not a fat guy but im not small either. Man its just so frustrating. The worst thing about it is that I have a job and make good money.
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Lower your standards. Fat guys get fat ugly chicks. Face it.
 
Hey guys im really having a rough time. Im 23 and I cant seem to find a women who is in to things im into. I love video games, movies ,computers etc.[\b] I find some nice woman but most of them find me boring or they want to change me into this play boy.
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The answer is simple......stop looking, the Holy Grail doesn't exist 😛
 
I heard it said once before that love happens when you aren't looking for it. So stop obsessing, be yourself, and someone will find you who loves you for you. just live your life, and if you are happy with your life, and find someone, the more the better, if not, you still love your life and who you are.
 
If you want someone who is interested in guy stuff then start dating guys. One of the things I really like about women is that they are different.
 
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