I'm curious as to the psychological aspect to this. I myself have never committed a heinous crime other than simple traffic infractions (years ago).
I have came across people, especially a relative in the family that has a repeat-ability in committing crime. What I don't understand is that she seems to have a "lack of embarrassment" about her actions. Or even a high concern that she needs to be a little more careful. She's had repeated traffic offenses with drunk driving, probation violations, debt that goes to court etc.
In my mind, I would feel really bad for myself if I had even one of these on my record. I would be concern that it would cause issues with my job, issues with how people view me etc.... But she has a kinda nonchalant view of it and thinks it's no big deal.
She had a drunk driving charge about a year ago, got another speeding ticket, which became a parole violation, lost her job recently and she lies to me saying she got another job. But in actuality she was fired from her last job because they found out about the drunk driving charge that she concealed from them.
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There's one thing I can't stand and absolutely loathe. People who think that they can drive while drunk. They are the worst scum and put everyone's life in danger. Imagine you crash into a vehicle with a baby or kids FFS. These fuckers need to be put away for the first offense for at least ten years with the option of AA.
You need to read! I said, and I quote, "with the option of AA.."
I agree with most of this...except the option for AA. if they want to attend AA while in prison...fine, but don't allow it as an alternative. You can't force someone to be rehabilitated...not AA, not drugs, not at all. Not until that person decides they WANT to quit will rehab work for them.
Are you familiar with the expression "Hobson's Choice?"DUDE! You just got done saying you can't force someone, yada, yada, yada. WTF do you think an option means?
DUDE! You just got done saying you can't force someone, yada, yada, yada. WTF do you think an option means?
Are you familiar with the expression "Hobson's Choice?"
The choice between AA and prison is no choice at all.
The jail system also does not help. Instead of trying to rehabilitate criminals we just revenge them and ruin a big chunk of their lives. When they come out, they have nothing, and they can't get a job. The only thing they know is crime.
if they want to attend AA, let them attend in jail/prison. NOT as an alternative to jail/prison.
That is what I'm saying. Prison time with the option of AA in prison. Perhaps upon completion 3 years gets knocked off.
Now you're saying mandatory? You just got done saying you can't force someone. And you just complicated the whole damn thing.
I say you fuck up once your ass is in the slammer. You know the crime, now do the time! There's no sense in getting in a 2 ton beast and being drunk. None once so ever!