why are girls so evil

[weezergirl]

it seems like everyday there is a new post about how some girl has "messed with my head". i don't get it...what exactly do we do?? i'm a girl and i have a bf. he doesn't think i'm evil. ) but i'm also wondering...what makes a girlfriend perfect? i'd like some input on this my straight male friends.

 

[GreenBeret]

No girlfriend is 'perfect', but that is just part of their perfection.
/me skips away to write my GF a letter

 

[BlueScreenVW]

1. Girls are evil simply because they are human. Nobody said boys/men are any better, right?
2. Hmm... A perfect girlfriend? Wouldn't that be kind of boring?

 

[Eoin]

You are perfect.

Seriusly, though. Most of the guys who complain are young. But here is a perfect girl:

Never nags. Lets guy go out with friends whenever he wants and is always ready for sex afterwards. Is ready for sex whenever he wants it. Never nags. Cleans up after him, cooks for him, gives him back rubs. Never nags. Is ready for sex whenever he wants it. Doesn't ask where he went with friends or what they did. Will always be faithful. Never talks about marriage. Maintains that 18 year old body forever. Never nags. And the most important thing, she is ALWAYS ready for sex whenever he wants it.

Not very realistic is it?

 

[Ulfwald]

I know what makes women evil. It is the way that some use their bodies as weapons to manipulate and get what they want. You get into a mans heart, then you try to tear him down and then make him what you want him to be, not what he truly is.

 

[VoodooExtreme]

Don't really know... but my GF seems to manage it pretty well.

 

[weezergirl]

hmm in response to that i agree that some women want to mold their man into something they are not. but a lot of guys do it willingly in their fight to make that girl like them, change that is. and then they look back on it and blame it on the girl. i don't know if u guys will ever see it that way but i seriously have seen it!

 

[GreenBeret]

IMHO, it's because Adam got messed over by Eve. He told his sons that women are bad/manipulative etc. Since guys are told that girls stick together and always mess w/ you, they will never believe a woman's point of view. Whens something goes sour, it is therefore, obviously the woman's fault, and she is just trying to wiggle out of it. They will therefore tell the next generation the same thing. and so on and so on.

I think I just proved the creation theory

 

[Eoin]

Guys who let the girl change them have only themselves to blame. If they don't like it, they should see it soon enough and bail. If they let it happen, then it's their fault. If it is happening, then the girl is not right for them and they should find a new one.

 

[Elledan]

A 'Perfect' g/f would be a very bad idea...

A thing I like to see with girls is an intelligence as close as possible to my own, which is very high

A good conversation is better than anything else, IMHO

 

[MadMerc]

well my ex could fall in the "evil" category

after 5 yrs of telling me that the worst thing i could ever do would be have an affair, while i was at home looking after our son, she was out screwing another guy

as for my current gf, no evil there

 

[BlueScreenVW]

<< an intelligence as close as possible to my own, which is very high >>


LOL, Elledan

Addition: agree completely with the &quot;conversation is important&quot; idea!

 

[weezergirl]

whoa. that is evil. but guys do the same thing. therefore it is not girls who are evil..it's those cheaters!!! why do people cheat? geez.

 

[Elledan]

<<why do people cheat>>

Simple: it's in our genes.

It's an old mechanism which guarantees that males and females mate as much as possible with each other and not just with one or don't mate at all.

 

[weezergirl]

yeah but i would hope that people have the heart to not hurt other people, esp ones they are supposedly digging . cheating really hurts and i don't care what your body wants to do...your brains and your heart should be smart enough to not.

 

[Eoin]

But some people only thing with the brain in their &quot;genes&quot;. For most people, it's because they feel like they are missing something.

 

[Elledan]

weezergirl > not everybody can resist the desires this mechanism creates. It depends on your will-power. Since it's the only thing that keeps us from admitting to every desire, once it fails, nothing can stop us.

 

[bcterps]

<< <<why do people cheat>> >>




<< Simple: it's in our genes. >>



Actually, it's in our jeans hehe

--Ben

 

[ArkAoss]

hey, i started a few of them threads, and not to say girls where evil, more to make sure what i was observing was normal, and i've found from said research, that despite all the show girls put on to show they are different, they arn't different. Each girl does the same stuff for the same reasons, yet they think that those things are what seperates them from each other. but i guess that's what makes em special.....

 

[unxpurg8d]

Hey, I'm not evil................I'm just drawn that way. :Q

 

[Yeeny]

We are not evil, it's just that men like to make us look that way when they cannot comprehend they might have actually *gasp* did something wrong. Well ok, some of us are evil, but not as often as it's portrayed...

 

[FettsBabe]

Most women are vindictive and its hard for them to hide or put aside their personal feelings so they can make good decisions.

I have a friend who's going through a divorce, and she said that she didn't want him to see the child, and I told her she should because its in the childs best interest. However, she hates him and she will tell you that is the reason she doesn't want him to spend time with the child. Although, she is letting him now (after our longgggg talk).

I myself have mostly male friends because of things like this. I think men are easier to comprehend and make happy.

When my friends come over we are all fine until one of my friend's girlfriend's arrives and gets her typical &quot;jealous&quot; and &quot;mean&quot; attitude. She's kinda childish and gets mad over the least little thing (like her having to shuffle cards instead of him doing it for her).

I, myself, try not to nag or bug Psycho, we are bestfriends and that helps us alot. We hardly ever fight and honestly I think we are soul mates.

I get along well with guys, but (I'll tell you honestly) women get jealous over my small waist and long dark brown hair. Most women don't even talk to me because of this. Most women feel like they have to be the center of attention whether they realize this or not, and they always want to look better than the chick sitting next to them.

No flames please, just my humble opinion.

 

[bigbootydaddy]

we like to do stuff for the gf. but every now and then, it be nice if the roles reversed, without having to ask. appreciate stuff. that has to be rule number one. be honest, trusting.

 

[Stark]

<< i'd like some input [from] my straight male friends >>


Guys and girls just think differently. You may have been asking for explaination and wisdom. Guys think you're asking for sex.

 

[bcterps]

It's all about communication and maturity. Men and women just communicate in vastly different ways, and until you figure out how to communicate in a way that makes sense to the opposite sex you'll get nowhere.

I believe that maturity comes with time and experience. It allows you to be able to look at a situation objectively, or at least from both sides of the situation.

Whether its women being evil or men being jerks I believe it comes down to these two issues. At least in my experience.

--Ben