Why are break ups so hard?

bigrash · Nov 11, 2003

Damn feel like sh!t right now, even though this is what I wanted. Hurts like hell. But I guess it's the right thing to do.

MrDudeMan · Nov 11, 2003

Originally posted by: bigrash
Damn feel like sh!t right now, even though this is what I wanted. Hurts like hell. But I guess it's the right thing to do.

if it was the right thing to do, then why are you sad. i never got that. when i broke up with my first girlfriend, i almost laughed in her face lol...

p.s. i have a girlfriend of 2.5 years and we broke up once or twice. it wasnt meant to be so it felt wrong. if it feels wrong, it wasnt the right decision.

illusion88 · Nov 11, 2003

Why are break ups so hard?

Because you touch yourself at night

moshquerade · Nov 11, 2003

really, why are you sad? it was your decision.

Kadarin · Nov 11, 2003

Why'd you break up?

eakers · Nov 11, 2003

its just sad because you are losing someone who is close to you. although you may not love them in the same way you once did there are still feelings there.

johnjohn320 · Nov 11, 2003

Originally posted by: MrDudeMan

Originally posted by: bigrash
Damn feel like sh!t right now, even though this is what I wanted. Hurts like hell. But I guess it's the right thing to do.

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if it was the right thing to do, then why are you sad. i never got that. when i broke up with my first girlfriend, i almost laughed in her face lol...

That's cause you're an ass...

Platypus · Nov 11, 2003

just remember that no matter what you will die alone anyway.

cLe0 · Nov 11, 2003

you did the wrong thing... guilt is setting in...

iwearnosox · Nov 11, 2003

Your ex-girlfriend calls me. I put on my robe and wizard hat.

virtuamike · Nov 11, 2003

If they were easy, everyone would be breaking up.

Being single is somewhat liberating, try enjoying it.

yoda291 · Nov 11, 2003

If it's the right thing to do, you should focus on why it was the right thing to do...

but just cuz I'm an ass, remember,

if you touch yourself, you make baby jesus cry.

Iron Woode · Nov 11, 2003

I remember when my ex GF and I broke up. It was the 2nd most painfull, devastating thing I had to endure. We were madly in love and our relationship was explosive. I started suffering from depression and things fell apart for us. She couldn't deal with it and we had a very nasty break up. I eventually recovered, but she had moved on.

I still have feelings for her and feel very guilty about the breakup. Its been 10 years and she still won't talk to me.

Don't make stupid mistakes with someone you love or you may end up like I did. Alone and very sad. Granted I have a new GF now, but the pain and guilt are still there and it hurts when I hear about her or if I see her.

I love my new GF, but not like I did with my first serious GF. That kind of love is extremely intense. Now I am more jaded.

PatboyX · Nov 11, 2003

everybody hurts. except celebrities. only that one time, sarah jessica parker called up a radio show and complained that "we're human too" after being called horse-faced. but im sure that she was only hurt becuase it reminded her of high school, before she was a celebrity.

anyway, my girlfriend and i recently broke up.
great sadness.

Tinkerhell · Nov 11, 2003

Originally posted by: iwearnosox
Your ex-girlfriend calls me. I put on my robe and wizard hat.

lol

Sid59 · Nov 11, 2003

get kicked in the balls. should make you feel slightly better.

mpitts · Nov 11, 2003

Originally posted by: iwearnosox
Your ex-girlfriend calls me. I put on my robe and wizard hat.

Teh funnay +2

Luden · Nov 11, 2003

The thread title reminds me of Popular by Nada Surf...

And bigrash have a :beer:.

SociallyChallenged · Nov 11, 2003

Originally posted by: mpitts

Originally posted by: iwearnosox
Your ex-girlfriend calls me. I put on my robe and wizard hat.

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Teh funnay +2

-1 Agility for equipping the hat.

bigrash · Nov 12, 2003

Well, it was the right thing to do because she came with a lot of bagage. She's separeted (not too long ago) and has 2 kids. Going into it we both didn't want anything serious, but we both fell in love. I was cool with the fact that she has kids but she still has a lot of issues with her ex. This is the right thing for the both of us.

iwearnosox lol.

yoda291 yup, right now I'm trying to focus on the right thing, but it's hard cause I miss being with her.

Luden Damn i love that song and I think I have that CD here somewhere. Havent heard it in a while. Cheers to you too. :beer:

tk149 · Nov 12, 2003

Originally posted by: Iron Woode
I remember when my ex GF and I broke up. It was the 2nd most painfull, devastating thing I had to endure. We were madly in love and our relationship was explosive. I started suffering from depression and things fell apart for us. She couldn't deal with it and we had a very nasty break up. I eventually recovered, but she had moved on.

I still have feelings for her and feel very guilty about the breakup. Its been 10 years and she still won't talk to me.

Don't make stupid mistakes with someone you love or you may end up like I did. Alone and very sad. Granted I have a new GF now, but the pain and guilt are still there and it hurts when I hear about her or if I see her.

I love my new GF, but not like I did with my first serious GF. That kind of love is extremely intense. Now I am more jaded.[/q}Wow, sounds just like me, only I got dumped a year ago, and still ain't dating. She's engaged now. I'm drinking heavily and dying a little more every day.

bigrash, sorry to hear it. Just remember that you made the right choice, and don't ever look back.

Zugzwang152 · Nov 12, 2003

Originally posted by: Iron Woode
I remember when my ex GF and I broke up. It was the 2nd most painfull, devastating thing I had to endure. We were madly in love and our relationship was explosive. I started suffering from depression and things fell apart for us. She couldn't deal with it and we had a very nasty break up. I eventually recovered, but she had moved on.

I still have feelings for her and feel very guilty about the breakup. Its been 10 years and she still won't talk to me.

Don't make stupid mistakes with someone you love or you may end up like I did. Alone and very sad. Granted I have a new GF now, but the pain and guilt are still there and it hurts when I hear about her or if I see her.

I love my new GF, but not like I did with my first serious GF. That kind of love is extremely intense. Now I am more jaded.

i hear ya, buddy. i hear ya. been a long ass time for me, and i still don't consider myself healed yet. as such, i'm still single, and only half-heartedly looking.

Schadenfreude · Nov 12, 2003

Damn. I thought I was one of the few on ATOT who's breaking up . . . is this, like, the popular time of year to break up people or what?

bigrash, I can sympathize. I know it's the right thing to do, she knows it too, but it hurts me to see her get hurt by what I've said/done . . .

I've been staring at the phone for the last week wondering whther I should call or not. This sucks.:brokenheart:

Iron Woode · Nov 12, 2003

Originally posted by: Zugzwang152

Originally posted by: Iron Woode
I remember when my ex GF and I broke up. It was the 2nd most painfull, devastating thing I had to endure. We were madly in love and our relationship was explosive. I started suffering from depression and things fell apart for us. She couldn't deal with it and we had a very nasty break up. I eventually recovered, but she had moved on.

I still have feelings for her and feel very guilty about the breakup. Its been 10 years and she still won't talk to me.

Don't make stupid mistakes with someone you love or you may end up like I did. Alone and very sad. Granted I have a new GF now, but the pain and guilt are still there and it hurts when I hear about her or if I see her.

I love my new GF, but not like I did with my first serious GF. That kind of love is extremely intense. Now I am more jaded.

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i hear ya, buddy. i hear ya. been a long ass time for me, and i still don't consider myself healed yet. as such, i'm still single, and only half-heartedly looking.

Closure is such a b!tch.

The only way I can get closure would be to speak to her face to face. And so far, that ain't happening.

If I could do it all over again, I would, but I wouldn't repeat the mistakes I made initially. I keep wondering , what if?

Iron Woode · Nov 12, 2003

Originally posted by: Jehovah
Damn. I thought I was one of the few on ATOT who's breaking up . . . is this, like, the popular time of year to break up people or what?

bigrash, I can sympathize. I know it's the right thing to do, she knows it too, but it hurts me to see her get hurt by what I've said/done . . .

I've been staring at the phone for the last week wondering whther I should call or not. This sucks.:brokenheart:

Don't make the same mistake I did. Call her.

I never called her, and later I found out she waited for months for me to call. I am starting to really hate myself, ugh.

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