Why am I so clingy?

Keego

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I'm getting pissed off, I have no social problems whatsoever (except the myriad of preconceptions I have about people) but I just can't stop being clingy? It's not annoying her, it's annoying me! It's not like I need to talk to her every day, but when we're together, I can't help myself, she' just that beautiful.
 

Keego

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Originally posted by: Electric Amish
Use some of those dryer sheet thingies.

They're supposed to get rid of the clingy-ness.

amish

I use bounce :eek:

yes gopunk
 

Garet Jax

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Kyguy,

You didn't answer Platinum's question. Saying and believing are two different things.
 

ElFenix

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Originally posted by: weezergirl
Guys are so easy to take advantage of and walk all over.

And this is why. :p

you women are evil!
 

PlatinumGold

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god i hate clingy partners. my wife is great with that. she gives me my space. i remember one gf i had, she would never let me sit down to read. AT ALL. whenever i had any free time, i had to spend it with her. OMG, it was really suffocating.
 

idNut

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I'm kind of the same. There's this girl that is just so damn beautiful that I go into deep depressions over since I know I could never have such a person. It tears me apart everytime I'm around her. I just can't be around her or I'll end up going insane. I mean, my sanity is already on the edge so this girl will just end up pushing me over the side. I dunno, I'll STFU now.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: Kyguy
Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
but I just can't stop being clingy?

so deep down, u just don't believe ur worthy of her. right?

That would be an easy answer if it were true, but I think I am.

It's either that or you're insecure about the strength of the relationship and are afraid that you'll somehow lose her.

nik
 

idNut

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Love is the reason I'm a misogynist/misanthropist; I just can't take it, too afraid or something.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: idNut
Love is the reason I'm a misogynist/misanthropist; I just can't take it, too afraid or something.

You've just described the first 19 years of my life. :) But Chelsea is steadily changing my mind and showing me that there is hope and that there are women out there that are worth your time.

nik
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: Kyguy
I am afraid of losing her.

Hense your grip being so tight. :) Don't worry, I was the same way and sometimes revert back to being clingy when she's away for long periods of time. It's not fun, but you can get through it; I know. :)

nik