Originally posted by: DearQT
Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: rbloedow
Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Dude, what happened to the rbloedow before he came out? I didn't always agree with some of your politics, but at least you didn't seem to want to flaunt your homosexuality every chance you got. I mean, it's one thing to make it known that you are gay, but it is another to constantly do things that seem to bring attention the that fact. I think that a gay forum would rapidly tire of heterosexuals who continuously flaunt the fact that they are heterosexual. Not that they wouldn't accept a straight person there, but they just don't want to hear about his "Straigth Pride Worldwide" all the time.
I'm the same person, just with another facet of my personality that I don't hide.
Seems that you not only don't hide it, you want everybody to know it and you take every chance possible to make sure it happens.
It's all denial intertwined with desire for acceptance displayed in the form of attention seeking. If you notice, he's displayed his homosexuality through different phases. It started with the outright denial and force to convince himself and others by constantly posting about Mariah Carey and how beautiful she was. Anyone who didn't see it his way was blind. Then it moved to a long talk about how heroic he was in attempting to save his close lesbian friend from her evil mom who wouldn't accept her sexuality. He helped break the news to her family. He got a pat on the back from AT members as a result. All that while he refused to confront his own demon. Then he finally, after ages, came out. And of course again he got a pat on the back. Then the whole childish puppy love started; acting frantic about his newfound infatuation. Of course the other person was a member here. That wasn't enough reason to respect the person and tone it down. And naturally people do get tired of hasty relationships. They've probably made up again, though.
The newest development was with a former high school mate. He could not hold back his confession ... not even to allow her complete her sentence, much less approach the subject differently. Don't worry, he'll grow up soon when he himself comes to terms with his sexuality. Only then would he stop seeking so much attention and pats on the back.