whoa, this isnt good...

[Scrapster]

I'm gonna talk behind Stefan's back for sec...

Isn't it interesting though that he didn't say he had a crush on the 17 year old? In fact, someone had to mention the 17 year old, in order to get a reaction out of him, the reaction being that "she is hot, but has a b/f". The fact that the 17 year old was "taken" decreased his attractiveness for her. But the 14 year old, she probably hasn't even started dating, making her more "available" per se.

I just think that is interesting. . .If a woman has a b/f do guys think she is "less attractive" then if she didn't have a boyfriend?

 

[BigToque]

<< I'm gonna talk behind Stefan's back for sec... >>



In a public forum (that I have access to), its not really 'behind my back'

As for the 17 year old, she is no less attractive because she has a boyfriend. I just chose not to try to interfere with anybodys relationships. Its not something I have a right to do.

Also, I don't find her 14 year old sister to be any more attractive because she doesn't have a boyfriend.

 

[SSP]

<< 19 = high school senior

......who flunked out a few semesters. >>



I don't know where in Ontario you went to school, or if the education system in your school is different then mine. But you can be a 19 year old High school senior. Most of the guys I know (including me) are planing to go to University, so we are still going to the same school for OAC (granted were still 18).

BTW - No, I didnt flunk any semisters, its the way Edu. system works here.

 

[cherrytwist]

Dude, there's nothing &quot;wrong&quot; with you or your situation.

I was in a similar situation many, many years ago. I was 18 and I met a girl who was 14, a friend of a friend type of deal. We became friends quickly and shared a mutual attraction. We would &quot;hang out&quot; (at the mutal friends house) but never dated for obvious reasons (for one, she wasn't allowed to date yet). Soon I moved away to college, and we kept in touch through phone conversations and letters for a few months. Then gradually, we lost contact for various reasons and realized it wouldn't work.

Then about four years later, I'm drinking coffee with my gf at the time, and this chick comes walking up to the table asking me what my name is... It was the same girl!!! We got together and man, had she grown up. I was 22 and she was 18 (in case you couldn't do the math yourselves ) and we picked up where we left off. We were together for the next 2 1/2 years and we are still friends today.

Hope this helps somehow.