without even factoring what the media says (or has said) about Michelle Obama I still think Cindy McCain is a better first lady.
Her role in bringing medical attention in 3rd world countries comes from a heartfelt desire to help kids and those with special needs. She is also a special ed teacher (Or was) and I have nothing but the utmost respect for those that work at a service level with people w/special needs.
Essentially With Mrs McCain she saw the need for help and did what she could to make that happen.
I applaud that desire and drive. Factor in her addiction problem, she seems to me to have dealt with alot in her life and she has overcome her obstacles.
She also has a fierce heart when it comes to her family and her son serving in the military. I have to believe that she would do everything she could do protect her son and protect her family, and I'd like that perspective in both the President and his First lady.
With that said I think me and my family would be able to relate more with Obama and his family...
So, it's an interesting question.