My friend passed away in Pattaya, Thailand while there on vacation. We feel a little lost back here in the states. We were told by the Consulate that we probably wanted to have him cremated rather than embalmed. She said that they are way behind the U.S. in that area. Does anyone know there method for embalming? The family would rather have him embalmed, but not if they are going to butcher him. This is just one of the many worries we have. Anyone help us out?