Who is "more" wrong...

[mitchelt]

I was talking to my wife about her brother and his ex-wife. Long story short...she cheated on him with some single guy she works with.

Here's the question...who is "more" wrong, the ex-wife or the single guy.

I say although he knew she was married, she was more wrong because she broke her vows, were as he "only" slept with a married women.

 

[CKent]

Personal responsibility ends with the person.

I'll admit I voted "she is" before reading the post, it's a matter of course that women are wrong.

 

[irishScott]

I'd typically say equal, but if forced I'd go with the wife. Like you said, she broke her vows. The other guy was just being an asshole.

 

[destrekor]

I'd say whoever is the one in the committed relationship is the one who is always 'wrong'. The other, if single, and KNOWS about the relationship, is really just taking advantage of an opportunity. Still 'wrong' though, but the cheater is the more wrong person.

 

[spaceman]

the wife

 

[Gothgar]

She... if she cheated on her husband, it means it was going to happen be it with the dude who took advantage of the situation or some other random guy.

 

[Nitemare]

The guy was a horny asshole, the wife was a cheating slut, take your pick

 

[spaceman]

this is quickly becoming the most lopsided POLE! in atot history!

 

[JujuFish]

Originally posted by: irishScott
I'd typically say equal, but if forced I'd go with the wife. Like you said, she broke her vows. The other guy was just being an asshole.

This pretty much sums it all up, based only on the information given.

 

[ViviTheMage]

she, duh.

 

[amdhunter]

LOL, awesome that not one guy here thinks the guy is at fault! :thumbsup:

 

[Tiamat]

She is "more" wrong in that she made a promise and broke it. He didn't make any promises. They both committed the same wrong action.

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: amdhunter
LOL, awesome that not one guy here thinks the guy is at fault! :thumbsup:

the 3 girls who post here are out shoe shopping.

 

[spaceman]

well to be fair the guys hands are dirty for sure.

 

[Gothgar]

Originally posted by: amdhunter
LOL, awesome that not one guy here thinks the guy is at fault! :thumbsup:

well... he did ask who is more wrong... sure the guy has some fault in it, especially since he probably knew she was married, but SHE is FOR SURE more wrong in this case than the guy.

 

[Capt Caveman]

Dumb question. The woman for sure. B/c if it wasn't this guy, she would have had an affair with another.

 

[nageov3t]

it's not the other party's fault to make sure that the MARRIED person keeps their own vows.

 

[BW86]

Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
she, duh.

 

[HardcoreRobot]

no fault for the single person

 

[zinfamous]

Originally posted by: Gothgar
She... if she cheated on her husband, it means it was going to happen be it with the dude who took advantage of the situation or some other random guy.

bingo bango

 

[FallenHero]

Originally posted by: irishScott
I'd typically say equal, but if forced I'd go with the wife. Like you said, she broke her vows. The other guy was just being an asshole.

this

That being said, karma is a bitch.

 

[Oceandevi]

Depends on how you measure wong. inches or centimeters?

 

[ivan2]

she has a vow and an obligation, he doesn't, all he's got is weak moral, but nobody has ever taken a oath to not hit on married women.

 

[Baked]

You should ask your wife.

L&R ------>

 

[thecrecarc]

Ok, who voted he is? It's obvious most of the fault is on the wife.