I agree with GF. Neither has it easier, just different.
johnnyjack stumbled across a touchy subject. Males have quite a lot of pressure put upon them regarding sexual performance. "But sex shouldn't be considered important in a relationship!" Blah blah. Its unfortunate, but sex has become a staple in our society and males have to bare a huge brunt of it.
A guy being bad in bed can damage a relationship.
A woman being bad in bed... oh wait... is that even possible?