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[hoihtah]

saltboy...

what' beau was saying is just another excuse for him to get a girl in bed.

you base your marriage on sexual attraction...
and your marriage is as good as yesterday's newspaper.
time isn't on your side.

 

[WyteWatt]

Ok. Well i really did not have to hear that. Ek. (Gets very sick)

 

[Beau]

Originally posted by: hoihtah
saltboy... what' beau was saying is just another excuse for him to get a girl in bed. you base your marriage on sexual attraction... and your marriage is as good as yesterday's newspaper. time isn't on your side.

Not true. I was engaged to be married next month. I dated the girl for 3 years, then lived with her for 2. I'm sure that If we weren't as young as we are, we'd still be getting married next month. I don't base marriage on sexual attraction, but the fact is that sex is a large part of any relationship.

 

[SaltBoy]

Originally posted by: Beau6183

Then reverse that and say that happend to you being male and your wife had the one-eyed-snake pointing at you. But that is an extreme, I guess.

"Uhh... Honey, before we get married, I really need to know -- are you a woman?"

You could just find that your sexually interests are not on the same page as your partners. Some people are just instinctually bad in bed.

Hey, you're right there. Bad sex really can lead to bad relationships, regardless of whether the couple is religious or not. That's why during ANY sexual relationship there has to be some form of open communication between the partners. My fiancee and I are going to be bad in bed at first, no doubt. But that's all the sex we'll know about, since we don't have anything to compare it to. As the days go by, I think if we're willing to tell each other what we want (sexually) and work at it, the relationship will get a LOT better. Communication in sexual relationships is just as important as communication in any relationship.

 

[hoihtah]

beau...

how many girls do you know that's got an issue with her man's man's size?
i've heard females talk about lack of intimacy... (emotional)
but not about the size.

if that were true... there'd be no such thing as divorce in black community.

if anything, this whole size complex is really a male thing.

female members of AT please correct me if i'm wrong...
but i've been told, that as far as females are concerned...
as long as they feel beautiful and their partners confirm that,
they don't care much of the size of their(either side's) equipments.

 

[StageLeft]

Originally posted by: hoihtah
beau...

how many girls do you know that's got an issue with her man's man's size?
i've heard females talk about lack of intimacy... (emotional)
but not about the size.

if that were true... there'd be no such thing as divorce in black community.

if anything, this whole size complex is really a male thing.

female members of AT please correct me if i'm wrong...
but i've been told, that as far as females are concerned...
as long as they feel beautiful and their partners confirm that,
they don't care much of the size of their(either side's) equipments.

You're probably right. I think it's a concern if he is small but I highly doubt that many relationships are cancelled because of inadequacy in penile size.

For what it's worth I simply can't imagine not doing it before marriage. It seems to me that for those who wait for marriage since they can't screw before getting hitched it puts a rush on things - and that is a very, very bad idea. I knew a guy who didn't want to do it before marriage either and as a result he rushed into it. Getting married so that you can screw because your religion otherwise forbids it is a damn bad idea.

Not saying that is what's going on with you, saltboy - but for anybody it does go on with that is a bad idea.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

I'll probably be engaged within a year.

nik

 

[hoihtah]

Originally posted by: Beau6183

Originally posted by: hoihtah
saltboy... what' beau was saying is just another excuse for him to get a girl in bed. you base your marriage on sexual attraction... and your marriage is as good as yesterday's newspaper. time isn't on your side.

Not true. I was engaged to be married next month. I dated the girl for 3 years, then lived with her for 2. I'm sure that If we weren't as young as we are, we'd still be getting married next month. I don't base marriage on sexual attraction, but the fact is that sex is a large part of any relationship.

i completely agree with you. sex is a large part of any relationship.
but my point is...

males look at sex as a physical act.

females look at sex as an emotional act.

a huge difference here.


as far as being good or bad at sex is concerned...
with experience, physical aspect of sex does get better.

it's like driving a car.
it's not about how fast you can get there.

enjoy the ride.

 

[vi edit]

how many girls do you know that's got an issue with her man's man's size?
i've heard females talk about lack of intimacy... (emotional)
but not about the size.

This thread is getting "off topic" but I want to take issue with this - who says that being small is always the size issue? It's not. I've been in a relationship where sex was unpleasant for both parties because...well..."peg P" was too large for "slot v".

That is a serious issue and is very much a real problem.

 

[hoihtah]

haha...

i don't know how this thread turned into a quantity thread...
but it's interesting how no females are responding to that whole topic.

anyhow... vi... you got some serious issues there.
obviously you don't have any asian blood in you.

 

[SaltBoy]

Originally posted by: Skoorb


Not saying that is what's going on with you, saltboy - but for anybody it does go on with that is a bad idea.

Oh, I've seen it with my brother -- he rushed into marriage too fast, and he's definitely suffering because of it. Then again, he couldn't see past the fact that his wife was a complete b**** until it was too late. I've definitely taken a much more cautious approach.

 

[vi edit]

Nope. Native American

 

[hoihtah]

vi

there you go... you are a living proof, that native americans are not the descendents of asians.
i've read some theories that alaska extended over to asia... and asians migrated over to North America...
a long long time ago.



or it could just be some evolutionary effect.