In response to my "Porn sucks" thread, I'd like to follow up with another thread that will most likely hit deep in the hearts of many.
Here is my view of my relationship: (Caution: I am not forcing any views, I am simply proposing the idea of a man/woman role in relationships.)
My babe and I truly love each other and there are certain things, based on the typical male view of being whipped, that would cause me to appear to be 'whipped'.
I am very courteous and mannery with her... I always open her car door when we go anywhere (grocery store) and then open the door into the place we're going to. She usually orders her own meal, but when we go somewhere and she eats the "regular" I'll order for her and she doesn't mind that.
Now, to the meat: Here is a scenario. My fiancee and I are watching a movie. Since we both work and go to school, time together is sparse and we like to spend it together. I had a friend show up during the movie, he lives about 20 mins away and I kindly asked him to go home because I was spending time with my girlfriend... and he did, no biggy.
I don't ever get on the computer when she is around and she would never do something like that with me around. I feel that I can get on the computer when she leaves late... she is the priority in my life (along with work, school, etc) so why should I choose getting on a computer over her when she is around?
And besides that, as I mentioned in the "Porn sucks." thread, we don't feel watching other people have sex is enjoyable or makes our relationship better in anyway. We have our time apart and with friends, but she is my partner for life, my best friend, lover, etc. and she will always be number one.
Here is my view of my relationship: (Caution: I am not forcing any views, I am simply proposing the idea of a man/woman role in relationships.)
My babe and I truly love each other and there are certain things, based on the typical male view of being whipped, that would cause me to appear to be 'whipped'.
I am very courteous and mannery with her... I always open her car door when we go anywhere (grocery store) and then open the door into the place we're going to. She usually orders her own meal, but when we go somewhere and she eats the "regular" I'll order for her and she doesn't mind that.
Now, to the meat: Here is a scenario. My fiancee and I are watching a movie. Since we both work and go to school, time together is sparse and we like to spend it together. I had a friend show up during the movie, he lives about 20 mins away and I kindly asked him to go home because I was spending time with my girlfriend... and he did, no biggy.
I don't ever get on the computer when she is around and she would never do something like that with me around. I feel that I can get on the computer when she leaves late... she is the priority in my life (along with work, school, etc) so why should I choose getting on a computer over her when she is around?
And besides that, as I mentioned in the "Porn sucks." thread, we don't feel watching other people have sex is enjoyable or makes our relationship better in anyway. We have our time apart and with friends, but she is my partner for life, my best friend, lover, etc. and she will always be number one.
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