Originally posted by: tami
i live in the upper west side now with 2 roommates. i'm getting married in 2 months and getting a nice 1br with my husband-to-be in the bronx. it will be quieter, and we have some married friends living up there already, so it won't be completely unfamiliar, although it will definitely be a big change from my current metropolitan lifestyle.
with $1500, you can definitely live in queens, brooklyn, or the bronx in a 1 bedroom (at least). i am biased towards the UWS (upper west side) because well, i went to school thereabouts (columbia) and haven't left (i graduated awhile ago).
as far as the bar scene, i'm not sure if you even want that, but to address previous posts, there are plenty of bars in the 70s-80s and amsterdam avenue which is still within the UWS. however, that bar scene is nothing like the scene in the lower east side (which is downtown), where you can probably get cheaper drinks and have a better time among a university-type crowd. still, that's all a short commute away thanks to wonderful public transportation. as for me, i'm not such a fan of bar scenes, and living almost a block away from the "strip" of bars has not exposed me to much of it either. the most important thing you should know about living in nyc is that your life is how you make it, so it really doesn't matter where you live. convenience is located almost anywhere in this wonderful city.
if you're looking to meet people or students, almost anywhere in manhattan can be an advantage to you. the best places for that are the union square area (nyu is located there) and the columbia area (UWS / morningside heights). columbia is a little more north of everything, such as times square -- but that, in my opinion, is what makes the place so unique. it's quieter and steps away (plus the short 15 minute-ish commute) to everything else in the city.
it really depends what you want, though, because nyc has tons to offer. are you looking for something quiet, but yet in the middle of everything? are you looking for something really noisy? keep in mind that there are ambulances driving throughout the city 24/7 -- no joke. are you sensitive to that? do you care for mid- to high security, or do you not mind when the same homeless guy asks you for change day in and day out?
once you know where you want to live, you need to consider whether you want to live in buildings that have doormen, laundry rooms on the premises, and, believe it or not, elevators. if they don't advertise the apartment as such, chances are it's a walk-up, which can really be awful if you're moving up heavy boxes. but first, figure out which neighborhood best suits you.
hope that helps a bit. of course, it would help to know more of what you're looking for as well, and definitely check out craigslist for housing listings (no broker fee listings are nice and more affordable)