When will we <men> wake up and realize that women are evil creatures.

[Viper GTS]

The only problem with giving her up is that I don't just lose a girlfriend ('cause she isn't technically that, even)... I lose my best friend. The only way for me to really give her up would be to totally excommunicate her. Granted, it would save me a lot of pain &amp; a lot of money on phone bills, but I'd lose my closest friend. So far having her in my life has been worth the pain she sometimes causes.

Viper GTS

 

[Neos]

It is all men's faults that women are this way ...for the most part. To put it in simple terms ...we rejected our heritage as KINGS .....meant to rule this earth in love and have power over spiritual forces of darkness. In following after our own self, and allowing the evil one to lead us over the years down this dark path, we have given up our Godly heritage as real men ...and the women and our families suffer, and thus the world.

Just a thought!

Neos

 

[gunf1ghter]

Neos,

uhhh....... ok.

 

[czhang]

Viper,

u know u sound like me when u talked about the friendship thing. Being friends is always hard after a relationship. Especially when two people feel different about it. I have been in both situations, where the person think of me as his bestfriend and i don't, and where i think of this person as a bestfriend and he doesn't. I just got out of a near 2 year relationship. One that was quite difficult and heartbreaking at the end. It was sad because i knew that after we break up friendship is gonna be soo difficult. And I was right. I see him as my bestfriend, but he sees me only as a regular friend. I can't reach in, I can only be on the sideline just watching and wish him all the luck. And its good that way to stay away, because its needed to heal all the emotional wounds, plus it eliminates hositility u have toward eachother too. It took me almost 3 months to finally feel ok again. The point is, you see her as a bestfriend, but does she? I don't think she does, if she does, then she would respect you. What she is doing is not respect, she is just toying w/ ur feelings. Thats harsh. Plus even for all the wrong things she's done, if afterwards she still wants to be friends, she would try to be. If she doesn't then hey its her loss because she could have had a bestfriend.
And you'll really get to open your eyes to other people around you, people who really do care for you and those who don't. If you don't let the wrong one go, how are u gonna find the right one? You'll see that she's not right one for you anyway! U don't owe her anything, u only owe it to the next girl u go out with.

good luck

 

[eakers]

love makes girls crazy.
sex makes girls crazy.
boys make girls crazy.

*kat. <-- only crazy because of the boy.

 

[eakers]

ps, girls make girls crazy.

*kat. <-- didnt mean to forget that one

 

[Viper GTS]

czhang...

She considers me to be her best friend as well, which adds another level of complications... If I quit talking to her, we BOTH lose our best friends.

Suck, suck, suck.



Viper GTS

 

[Pretender]

Viper: there's something seriously fvcked about this situation.

Think about it, for a moment. Either she's had a change of heart and decided that your relationship wasn't going anywhere (or fast enough), or it could be some sort of demented test to see if you'll admit to something (like previously mentioned, women are evil creatures). If it's the former, either speed things up or face reality and find someone else. Life goes on, and as much as you might not want to admit it, you'll find someone else. If it's the latter, well, I hear cloves of garlic and silver weapons tend to get rid of evil things.

Think about this for a moment - if you were in her position and told her you &quot;weren't having enough fun&quot; and just wanted to play around with another girl, she'd probably consider you a &quot;player&quot; and get rid of you in a moment's notice. There is a huge double-standard in relationships, but what she's doing is unnatural, maybe she's confused about the terms of the realtionship, maybe she's tired of it, who knows when it comes to women. Try having a serious, heart-to-heart talk with her and see what's going on.



I'm probably one of the least qualified to comment on this subject, but take some of my words into consideration.

 

[Passions]

women = cleaned up gorillas.

You have to be a true fool to let your guard down for a beastly creature. yes they might be beautiful, yes they might charm you with their cuteness, but alas! the farce is so easily trackable. only during certain times, do they reveal themselves and show their hidden nature. one of knavish and sly qualities. swinging from one branch to the next, but never until she has a firm grip on the next. their eyes always on the prowl. i am not amused. once during my journies into life, i reached a point of nirvana. a state of true enlightenment hit upon me, and i realized i am no longer susceptible to the evil dark powers woman so easily trap most men. so many times before me have i seen good brothers fall victim to the nasty predators, yet i will be strong. nevertheless, i must admit and be true to myself and say that they are incredibly powerful creatures. *bows in mediation.*

*lifts head from deep thought.*

BE STRONG BROTHERS.

 

[Lily27]

Are we REALLY that bad?

 

[shaady1]

warcleric, I love you and this post.

Printing...

 

[gunf1ghter]

Lily,

yes, at one point I felt exactly the way that Bobby did... a conniving (sp?) woman can really make you feel that way, it took me over 4 years to get over one relationship.

 

[Jugernot]

You are somewhat correct, but once you know your spouse long enough you will be able to figure out that face. &quot;The face&quot; is known to all men who are in a relationship. I get it every once in a while and can diffuse it rather easily most of the time.

Anyone else know &quot;The face&quot;?

 

[GaryTcs]

Viper,
Since she doesn't have any problem running around on you, let her know that you feel no obligation to be faithful either. I'm not so sure I could trust a girl that tells me she's only making out with the guy. She's just doing the absolute minimum to keep you around. Sometimes another girl in your life will bring the original back (especially a better looking one), but even if not- at least there is another one. If you can't bring yourself to get another girl, tell her you did anyway. Spend more time with female friends. (While you're with them, ask them about this &quot;i'm only kissing&quot; thing. You'll be suprised by the answers.) If jealousy won't bring her back, then nothing will. Your the &quot;sucker&quot; guy while he's the &quot;fvcker&quot; guy. For god's sake though, don't get any more serious. Unless you get her back on path, let it ride. You have already given her permission to treat you like this by not getting rid of her at the first sign of trouble. At least salvage a little dignity. There are others.

On the original subject, women are inherently evil. There is nothing we can do about this. But, they're also a hell of a lot sexier than any of us. The alternative isn't pretty.

 

[Wuming]

from all that my friends had been through, all the stories i have heard including those i just read here, it seems that guys are more often than not at the losing end of a relationship. maybe our society has made us think that guys failing in relations is nothing while gals failing in relations would have to carry a stigma with them. i haven been in a serious relationship with any gals yet, and what my friends went through has become such hinderance for me. apologies for the sweeping statement but it seeems to me that gals are always the ones initiating breakups then asking for another chance. guys being so blindly in love just got led deeper and deeper into the traps, which the gals set intentionally or not.

its painful to see friends go through traumatizing relations....

maybe it just so happened that all my guy friends had to end up in unfated relations.

i hope.

 

[nullshark]

Check my sig.

 

[GL]

A lot of girls are evil. Here's my first encounter with a string of evil women:

Back in high school I had a huge crush on this one girl in my summer school class. So did my friend. She led both of us on. I still remember the time I had the guts to ask her out and she actually said yes...and I was like man this is too easy. I get to the movie theatre (she picked me up with her girl friend). I was like...uh oh. I get there and as we're going up the escalator to the theatre she's like &quot;remember that guy John Doe (let's keep him anonymous)?&quot;. And I'm like &quot;yes&quot; and thinking to myself &quot;yes that guy that you told me is just a friend and not your boyfriend or your potential boyfriend&quot;. She's like &quot;well, we're going out now&quot; and I was like &quot;wow&quot;...that's about the best I could mutter as I started having heart palpatations. I get into the theatre and he's there. So needless to say, the whole experience was frustrating. I was 17 and the guy was 22 (didn't know this) and at one time the girl and her friend went to the washroom and I had to make small talk with the guy. I asked him what high school he was in and he responded &quot;University of Toronto...second year&quot;. Ouch...

Anyways I'm glad it didn't work out...my guy friend is worth more than that girl is to me now and probably would have been to me today.

-GL

 

[nullshark]

Especially for young women (not so much with women over 25 who have their heads screwed on), you have to show them that you're willing to walk away if they don't treat you with respect. If you just follow them around blindly showing them that you love them so much, they know that they can use you like toiletpaper; they can hang on to you with minimal effort until someone who excites and intrigues them comes along (like a big football player who doesn't reveal all his inner thoughts/feelings, for example).

Treat her with respect, not blind devotion. Demand the sam in return. If it's not forthcoming, leave.

 

[GL]

Amen nullshark. Too bad I didn't heed this advice several years ago.

-GL

 

[Michael]

Viper - Making out is foreplay. It basically is sex. If you can deal with someone you consider your girlfriend having sex with someone else (I know you have strong personal feelings about sex before marriage, but it isn't like people get &quot;used up&quot; or anything - it more is a trust issue than anything else), then it'll be ok in the long run.

I went through a few similar experiences when I was younger. If you're not willing to experience the pain, you'll never experience the rapture.

Good luck.

Michael

ps - Women are capable of remarkable evil. They go very well with men who also are capable of remarkable evil.

 

[GaryTcs]

Nullshark, at around 25 women start to lose their value as a commodity. The power of beauty wanes at the same time we men start to make money. (our commodity is security; money) By 35 the power shifts almost exclusively to the man, provided he has some money.

 

[SVTPower]

I KNEW they were evil for years now, Sorry I didn't post earlier

 

[sharkeeper]

WOMAN, n.



An animal usually living in the vicinity of Man, and having a
rudimentary susceptibility to domestication. It is credited by
many of the elder zoologists with a certain vestigial docility
acquired in a former state of seclusion, but naturalists of the
postsusananthony period, having no knowledge of the seclusion,
deny the virtue and declare that such as creation's dawn beheld,
it roareth now. The species is the most widely distributed of all
beasts of prey, infesting all habitable parts of the globe, from
Greenland's spicy mountains to India's moral strand. The popular
name (wolfman) is incorrect, for the creature is of the cat kind.
The woman is lithe and graceful in its movement, especially the
American variety (felis pugnans), is omnivorous and can be
taught not to talk.

Cheers!

 

[OS]

<< at around 25 women start to lose their value as a commodity. The power of beauty wanes at the same time we men start to make money. (our commodity is security; money) By 35 the power shifts almost exclusively to the man, provided he has some money. >>



God damn, sad but true. Reminded me of what I learned in my pysch class, that nearly all relationships have a sort of economic model to it.

 

[Viper GTS]

Michael...

That's EXACTLY what I tell her. She doesn't see it that way, though. She sees it as harmless fun, while I wouldn't so much as kiss anybody else, let alone be rolling around on a couch somewhere with them. I can NOT deal with it, that's the whole problem. I hear about it &amp; it pisses me off. To her it may be nothing, to me physical contact is to be reserved for relationships that mean something. Which she insists that one doesn't.

:|

Viper GTS