When will we <men> wake up and realize that women are evil creatures.

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TomC25

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Viper GTS

I can understand loving someone. I am in love with my wife.

I don't think she loves you as much as you love her, and she is using you as a backup right now. How easy would it be for her to let you go to be with another man she likes better. You see, she is still looking, you are not. Would she still look after you 2 got married?
 
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iamwiz82

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i tell my girlfriend all the time she is trying to kill me. I cant be a passenger in a car she drives, cuz i'm so scared. Once, she turned in front of a car doing 40 mph, when she had the stop sign and the other guy had the right of way. The guy had to lock up his brakes and i screamed my head off.

Women are evil, but remember, so are guys, i think everyone can agree to that one.
 
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meister

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just a thought,

I began dating a girl and made a decision that she was the one for me. That decision was slower to come for her. (like 3 years slower)

While she wasn't out with others, she was hesitant to 'commit'.

Suffice it to say, it wasn't easy and I perhaps at times wasn't the most patient; but she is now my wife and we've been married 10 years. She is more fiercely loyal and good to me than I could have been to here during our 'dating' years.

Mark
 
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maxcom

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womens faults are many, men have only two, everything we say and everything we do
 
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Viper GTS

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meister...

That's what I think is going to happen. It's just that getting there is like Red described... Getting my heart ripped out &amp; stomped on. She just turned 20, &amp; is only ~8 months out of a three year relationship that should have ended two years sooner. I'll probably wait it out.

Viper GTS
 
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ArkAoss

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wow, I missed alot of fun stuff. lemme see:

Tomc25
Re: your comment to me
I definitly agree.

ISLa
I agree there too, both sides have their devils with spoons, my bro met one.

Yamaha and maxcom

YUP too, &quot;Yes dear&quot; is a power full phrase.
 
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gunf1ghter

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Viper

Speaking from someone who went through your scenario not once but twice (thick skull?) take my word for it, she's screwing with you.

The longer you let her lead you on the harder it's going to be to let go.

The fact that she would even discuss making out with someone else indicates that she has a rather casual attachment to you and will dump you when she finds the BBD

Bigger Better Deal

 
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Isla

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Viper, It's happened to me, too.

I had a boyfriend who I adored but he couldn't decide whether I was good enough for him or not. :| I knew he was never going to find a better match than me, but he was very status oriented and I wasn't quite blue blooded enough for his tastes. He was very much the Country Club type.

After a year of him not being able to make up his mind, I met Mr Isla.

Once Old Boyfriend heard I had a new love, he came running after me. :disgust:

I'll never forget the last time I saw him... He had come to my house unannounced and Mr Isla was already there. Mr Isla was cordial and friendly but I know Old Boyfriend was feeling the burn! I know he regrets not marrying me when he had the chance. I heard that he got married right after I did, and also that he got divorced less than three years after the wedding.

I can understand wanting to be patient with Sara, but there is a possibility she is the kind who only likes the challenge.
 
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Total Refected Power

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Viper:

Some will say she is sowing her wild oates but I disagree. When I met my wife at age 18 (1st year college) I knew she was the one I would marry. She felt the same. We have been together for over 14 years and married the past 7. At no point in our relationship would I ever do anything to jeopardize my relationship with her.

Good luck.
 
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jorken

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Evil creatures? Hrm... I tend to think of them more as vultures. Life sucking money eating VULTURES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah, i feel better now.
 
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warcleric

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Azrael: heh I married 3 of them.....2 being Asians, wow, you have not seen a womans wrath until you have seen an asian womans wrath.....dont let that public reserved demeanor fool you, they are tigers just waiting for you to show a weakness so they can rip you apart and eat you for dinner.
 
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KMurphy

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Isla is a smart woman; you would do well to heed her advice. Mike's advice is good too.

I married a down to earth type woman similar to Isla and couldn't be happier.

Coincidentally, my previous gf was named Sarah and sounds much the same as yours. When you commit to love a woman who does not love you; you're in for heartache and potential emotional outbursts that can get you into real trouble. Best thing to do is to end it now; I know it's easier said than done. You could also be the type that must learn from experience vs. from others' experiences (like me). I could start a new forum on the kind of loser women I've dated before.
 
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Namuna

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For Men,
Our mission in life as men ISN'T to find a GOOD woman, it's to find THE LEAST evil/psychotic woman.

For Woman,
Their mission is to find the least immature/two-timing man.

Homer quote:
&quot;When it comes to compliments, women are ravenous, blood sucking monsters! Always wanting more, MORE, MORE!!
 
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CrimsonWolf

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Two points I would like to make:

1. Bluga - I agree wholeheartedly. Most of my friends, and even myself, have had many opportunities slip away from us because we tried to love women we truely didn't love.

2. Viper - While I'm not familiar with the exact details of your relationship, I can offer you one word of advice. Loyalty. Loyalty is the foundation of a relationship. With loyalty, a couple can get through the best and worst times together. Trying to maintain a relationship without be loyal to your significant other is like trying to build a house on sand. It just doesn't work. IMO, from the details given, it doesn't sound like Sarah is being very loyal. However, like I said, I may be mistaken. I'm simply going by the details given. Anyways, I hope it works out.
 
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