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I'm currently having this issue. I'm playing video games for much longer than intended. I have a difficult time going to bed on time. I'm waking up in bad moods. I don't go to the gym, eat like crap and repeat the process when I get home. Weekends are sometimes a haze of me playing Skyrim for hours on end.
I've tried using apps like Cold Turkey. I've tried using timers. I've tried decreasing my playing time and I've tried playing games that take less commitment. Skyrim is one of those games that can suck hours out of your life. The next thing you know you've spent 500 plus hours fighting skeltons and sleeping in a tent.
I have a love hate relationship with gaming. I've been thru Nintendo, Playstation, PS2, PS3, Xbox, PC gaming from the early days of Half Life to today, PSP, PSP Go, Sega, and Android gaming. Everytime I go thru the typical cycle.
*Craving to play video games kicks in
*Start looking at video games online
*I purchase system
*Start gaming
*Hours quickly increase
*Depression starts increasing. Feel like I'm wasting my life.
*Depression and anxiety gets worse
*I try to rationalize why gaming is good for you
*Try to monitor my gaming, doesn't work
*Try other strategies to find that balance between work and my love for gaming
*Nothing works, start to get angry. "I could be learing a language or starting a business!"
*I delete all of my games, delete Steam. Sell my system
*Feels great for about a week
*Cycle starts all over again.
Some of the issues I hvae towards gaming might have to do with my mom. She hated video games. She'd tell me "you're wasting your time playing those stupid games again! Get your life together!" She'd lay on me this guilt trip. It was years ago but I can still remember it like it was yesterday. Funny, because my sister is an avid video game player and she is a programmer who works for a small startup out of Boston. I don't know why I can't do the same.
Anyone else have this issue?
I've tried using apps like Cold Turkey. I've tried using timers. I've tried decreasing my playing time and I've tried playing games that take less commitment. Skyrim is one of those games that can suck hours out of your life. The next thing you know you've spent 500 plus hours fighting skeltons and sleeping in a tent.
I have a love hate relationship with gaming. I've been thru Nintendo, Playstation, PS2, PS3, Xbox, PC gaming from the early days of Half Life to today, PSP, PSP Go, Sega, and Android gaming. Everytime I go thru the typical cycle.
*Craving to play video games kicks in
*Start looking at video games online
*I purchase system
*Start gaming
*Hours quickly increase
*Depression starts increasing. Feel like I'm wasting my life.
*Depression and anxiety gets worse
*I try to rationalize why gaming is good for you
*Try to monitor my gaming, doesn't work
*Try other strategies to find that balance between work and my love for gaming
*Nothing works, start to get angry. "I could be learing a language or starting a business!"
*I delete all of my games, delete Steam. Sell my system
*Feels great for about a week
*Cycle starts all over again.
Some of the issues I hvae towards gaming might have to do with my mom. She hated video games. She'd tell me "you're wasting your time playing those stupid games again! Get your life together!" She'd lay on me this guilt trip. It was years ago but I can still remember it like it was yesterday. Funny, because my sister is an avid video game player and she is a programmer who works for a small startup out of Boston. I don't know why I can't do the same.
Anyone else have this issue?