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when do women mature?

huberm

Golden Member
I broke up w/ my gf a few months ago and have since been trying to meet new people. Unfortunately, all of the women I have met since then have been so immature and FAKE. Is this the norm for women my age (23)????

I have been told I act much more mature than the typical 23 year old. Is it just me bringing this out in women or do I need to start looking for ladies in the late 20s/early 30s????? What the heck am I doing wrong?
 
It depends where you meet them. If you meet women are "clubs" and "bars," you're going to meet immature ones.

I think the only people who had low opinions of women in general do so by their own fault, because they unknowingly go to the worst places to find them.
 
Originally posted by: LoKe
Women supposedly mature faster than men.

That's physically. He speaking mentally.

But I really don't know who matures quicker mentally. It's really apples and oranges to compare them.
 
I don't know, my wife was never immature and we met when I was 21 (she was 19) and got married a year later. I think it depends on the woman. I didn't meet her at a club and nor did I meet her at church. We just kind of found each other and the rest is history. Keep looking, the good one's are out there. Also, the girls you are meeting might be putting on a front just to get some attention.
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: LoKe
Women supposedly mature faster than men.

That's physically. He speaking mentally.

But I really don't know who matures quicker mentally. It's really apples and oranges to compare them.

I think LoKe was referring to that as well..
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
It depends where you meet them. If you meet women are "clubs" and "bars," you're going to meet immature ones.

I think the only people who had low opinions of women in general do so by their own fault, because they unknowingly go to the worst places to find them.

I feel really bad right now because I agree with you. :shocked:
 
Originally posted by: n yusef
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
It depends where you meet them. If you meet women are "clubs" and "bars," you're going to meet immature ones.

I think the only people who had low opinions of women in general do so by their own fault, because they unknowingly go to the worst places to find them.

I feel really bad right now because I agree with you. :shocked:




hahahahaha
 
it does depend on the woman. i know some that matured before they graduated HS, others, they are still partying and are completely immature.
You cannot say it as a generalization at all.
I would say i am very mature for being 23 and I am proud of that. There are good women out there! 🙂
 
Originally posted by: huberm
I broke up w/ my gf a few months ago and have since been trying to meet new people. Unfortunately, all of the women I have met since then have been so immature and FAKE. Is this the norm for women my age (23)????

I have been told I act much more mature than the typical 23 year old. Is it just me bringing this out in women or do I need to start looking for ladies in the late 20s/early 30s????? What the heck am I doing wrong?

I don't know but they amture a lot faster than men do.

My SO told me to say that.🙁
 
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
it does depend on the woman. i know some that matured before they graduated HS, others, they are still partying and are completely immature.
You cannot say it as a generalization at all.
I would say i am very mature for being 23 and I am proud of that. There are good women out there! 🙂

find one for me? 🙂
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
It depends where you meet them. If you meet women are "clubs" and "bars," you're going to meet immature ones.

I think the only people who had low opinions of women in general do so by their own fault, because they unknowingly go to the worst places to find them.

I think that's probably some of the best advice right there. If you go to bars etc, don't expect much from the people you find.
 
Originally posted by: huberm
I broke up w/ my gf a few months ago and have since been trying to meet new people. Unfortunately, all of the women I have met since then have been so immature and FAKE. Is this the norm for women my age (23)????

I have been told I act much more mature than the typical 23 year old. Is it just me bringing this out in women or do I need to start looking for ladies in the late 20s/early 30s????? What the heck am I doing wrong?

They start to grow up when they realize that their biological clock is ticking away. You'll need to look for ladies in their early 30s. I'm 26, and I would only date girls that are older than me.
 
I think 23 is 23 whether you are male or female. Some folks will behave more maturely than others at that age. You sound like perhaps you are one of them🙂

I think early 20's can be just as trying in some ways as being a teen. Early 20's to some is a good partying age and it doesnt necessarily mean immaturity. It just means freedom🙂
 
Originally posted by: huberm
I broke up w/ my gf a few months ago and have since been trying to meet new people. Unfortunately, all of the women I have met since then have been so immature and FAKE. Is this the norm for women my age (23)????

I have been told I act much more mature than the typical 23 year old. Is it just me bringing this out in women or do I need to start looking for ladies in the late 20s/early 30s????? What the heck am I doing wrong?


Dude we should talk. I'm the same way. I broke up with Heather (see all my previous threads) and until recently we were still talking.... we actually talked today. But she still plays the "I don't know I'm confused" game... drives me nuts.

I just want to meet a girl who is decent, responsible, and mature.... looks like 25+
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
It depends where you meet them. If you meet women are "clubs" and "bars," you're going to meet immature ones.

I think the only people who had low opinions of women in general do so by their own fault, because they unknowingly go to the worst places to find them.


FTW
 
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