whats worse?

[SSP]

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
I give you credit for admitting it and asking honest opinions.
I think they are both the same....
as we can see....a mention of sex brings on the boners in hoards....
😕

Yah, she opened her legs, and M4H fell right in. 😛😉

 

[lavagirl669]

LMAO

 

[FrustratedUser]

Originally posted by: SSP

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
I give you credit for admitting it and asking honest opinions.
I think they are both the same....
as we can see....a mention of sex brings on the boners in hoards....
😕

Yah, she opened her legs, and M4H fell right in. 😛😉

LMFAO!

 

[Kasper4christ]

sory to disturb the topic.. but.. my 2 cents..
usually emotionally is worse.. it happens first... then, once your past that kinda thing, it gets physical...

 

[tooltime]

i'll have to think on this one but i would lean to say both are bad

 

[Phoenix86]

Originally posted by: caitlionmaybe we have different definitions of cheating. i have never had sex with someone other than my bf at the time. i have kissed other guys. its still cheating to me.

If it can't be done in front of your SO, does it matter what label you out on it?

 

[lightweight]

Originally posted by: caitlion
emotionally meaning that you have feelings for someone else, spend time with them, act like youre together except no sex.

or physically meaning its just sex.

i think i would say emotionally, and im definitely guilty of both right now 🙁

Both are equally bad, and if you had any morals at all you would at least tell your "boyfriend" or "significant other" what you're doing. He deserves to know, and you deserve to go to hell 🙂

 

[Hammer]

so wait, you said you were guilty of emotional cheating, but you said you only kissed this guy because you felt pressured due to his position of authority. which is it?

 

[lightweight]

Originally posted by: caitlion
whenever i have cheated, i have usually been drunk and it has ALWAYS been something that just happened out of nowhere. its not like i plan these things. so yes, i tell them after. it has nothing to do with my own guilt because honestly it hurts a lot more to see their reaction than to pretend that nothing happened. but i believe that they at least deserve to know if something happens, and i would want them to do the same for me.

thank you to those of you who gave honest answers that didnt involve me or my situation 🙂

Alcohol doesn't make people make stupid decisions. Stupid people make stupid decisions.

 

[ILikeStuff]

Originally posted by: caitlion

Originally posted by: Aimster

1) How do you know they are not assholes? You probably never been with a decent guy.

2) Why do you assume most of the people here have a hard time finding another girl to cheat on? Because you assume they are all computer nerds? I am using a k6-500. I found out about anandtech.com because of hotdeals. I know nothing about computers nor do I care for them. Stop assuming.

3) Then tell the guys the truth and let them handle the situation.

most of the guys here are nerds, whether they know about computers or not. thats not to say all of them are, just most. i know because they are ALWAYS here posting. m4h for example. he acts like a badass, but why isnt he out doing things instead of sitting online? i dont even have all that much to do besides work and school, but i dont have time to post here if i ever want to see my friends. (by the way i am at school now which is why i am posting 😛)

i do tell my boyfriends when i cheat on them. the least i can do is be honest with them.

So you are now admitting that you have cheated more than once on multiple guys... Yeah, I'd say total slut (at least whores get paid for their services) , Cheat once, eh, forgivable as noone is perfect, more than once, instant slut. Your branded, baby. Big red "A".

 

[Robor]

Originally posted by: Dulanic
Either is bad, cheaters are scum IMO, if you want to be with someone else, go ahead, but atleast have the respect to let go of the person your with.

^

 

[StageLeft]

Physically. emotionally is far more transparent, and can be "undone", whereas you always stuck your dick in somebody else's face. What would you find worse: gf had just spent an evening on IM telling some friend something that she should have been telling you, or gf just spent an evening take it in the back from the same guy? I'll take the first, thanks.

 

[Isla]

My turn!

And no, I am not going to read the whole thread. I don't have to... all I need to know is the little miss is/was fooling around with a married man. I don't care if it was 'cut off' or not... it's still game playing on a dishonest, destructive level. Is this what you learned from your family growing up?

Caitlion, you seem to act like you think you are a smart girl. But really, you come across as a confused and scared child. You seem to constantly engage in unbalanced relationships... power plays, really. I don't have to know you personally to make that conclusion... I've read enough of your own posts to know what you are about. You're really still a kid so it can be forgiven for a time, but if you don't grow out of it, you'll be one of those monsters at cocktail parties that everyone avoids or gossips about. If you don't stop playing games, you'll end up being the very thing you disrespect and despise. The wife of your married man? She's you in twenty years, hon.

Focus your energies on something POSITIVE if you want to be loved.

That is all. 😛

PS... some of you know that as a married woman, I once had a similar dilemma to deal with. Except for I was the one being tempted. But it was not something I flaunted or was proud of. It was gut wrenchingly painful and made me learn a lot about myself. So, I really don't take this subject lightly.

edited for clarity

 

[Doboji]

Why am I sitting here reading this thread just because I find hating Caitlion entertaining....

I think I'm not alone... where does this angst come from?

I think it's jealousy that someone like Caitlion, is free to be a total b!tch, just because of her physical attractiveness. Furthermore she KNOWS THIS....

blech.... titilating....

-Max

 

[Isla]

Originally posted by: Doboji
Why am I sitting here reading this thread just because I find hating Caitlion entertaining....

I think I'm not alone... where does this angst come from?

I think it's jealousy that someone like Caitlion, is free to be a total b!tch, just because of her physical attractiveness. Furthermore she KNOWS THIS....

blech.... titilating....

-Max

Some people are physically attractive and are NOT bitches. In the long run, the ones who abuse their power turn into Ursula the Sea Witch. That's when the Caitlions get really entertaining... angry, bitter people who can't manipulate like they used to! Youth and beauty only go so far.

 

[etalns]

Whorediddly!

 

[rumplestiltskin]

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: Doboji
Why am I sitting here reading this thread just because I find hating Caitlion entertaining....

I think I'm not alone... where does this angst come from?

I think it's jealousy that someone like Caitlion, is free to be a total b!tch, just because of her physical attractiveness. Furthermore she KNOWS THIS....

blech.... titilating....

-Max

Some people are physically attractive and are NOT bitches. In the long run, the ones who abuse their power turn into Ursula the Sea Witch. That's when the Caitlions get really entertaining... angry, bitter people who can't manipulate like they used to! Youth and beauty only go so far.

Agreed, but meanwhile back at teh ranch all of us inexperianced, horney guys are falling into the trap of youth and beauty.....

It's fun while it lasts....

 

[Fausto]

Originally posted by: rumplestiltskin

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: Doboji
Why am I sitting here reading this thread just because I find hating Caitlion entertaining....

I think I'm not alone... where does this angst come from?

I think it's jealousy that someone like Caitlion, is free to be a total b!tch, just because of her physical attractiveness. Furthermore she KNOWS THIS....

blech.... titilating....

-Max

Some people are physically attractive and are NOT bitches. In the long run, the ones who abuse their power turn into Ursula the Sea Witch. That's when the Caitlions get really entertaining... angry, bitter people who can't manipulate like they used to! Youth and beauty only go so far.

Agreed, but meanwhile back at teh ranch all of us inexperianced, horney guys are falling into the trap of youth and beauty.....

It's fun while it lasts....

Yeah, this really needed bumping.

*sigh*