whats worse?

[caitlion]

emotionally meaning that you have feelings for someone else, spend time with them, act like youre together except no sex.

or physically meaning its just sex.

i think i would say emotionally, and im definitely guilty of both right now

 

[Schadenfroh]

humans are polygamistic, get used to it

 

[cpals]

I'd say cheating is cheating.... it doesn't matter whether emotionally or physically (which if it was physically, wouldn't it have to be emotionally too? I don't know.), it's still wrong.

Maybe you should hook up with Fx02?

 

[Aimster]

I've done both. .. I only felt guilty when I was caught.. . I don't do that stuff anymore. I think with maturity one learns to respect women if they are a man.

 

[Dulanic]

Either is bad, cheaters are scum IMO, if you want to be with someone else, go ahead, but atleast have the respect to let go of the person your with.

 

[cpals]

Originally posted by: Dulanic
Either is bad, cheaters are scum IMO, if you want to be with someone else, go ahead, but atleast have the respect to let go of the person your with.

Agreed

 

[Pliablemoose]

You need to mod your poll,to include gender of the respondents.

Traditionally females view emotional infidelity as almost identical to physical infidelity. Men see the two as very different & tend view emotional infidelity as a non-issue, only considering physical infidelity as a relationship problem, especially when we're the ones doing it.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

What a shock, you're a whore.

Now put less tile and more tits in this picture, kthx.

- M4H

 

[cpals]

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
You need to mod your poll,to include gender of the respondents.

Traditionally females view emotional infidelity as almost identical to physical infidelity. Men see the two as very different & tend view emotional infidelity as a non-issue, only considering physical infidelity as a relationship problem, especially when we're the ones doing it.

I don't see the reason to add gender to the poll since we all know there are only like 5 women here on AnandTech.

 

[cpals]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
What a shock, you're a whore.

Now put less tile and more tits in this picture, kthx.

- M4H

:Q

 

[Bryophyte]

They're both really immature. Finish one relationship before you begin another, unless you both agree to have a more open arrangement. I won't throw stones because I went through similar crap at your age. Learn from it now so you won't repeat it in the future.

 

[NutBucket]

Hope it was worth it and/or you're sick of your guy.

 

[caitlion]

Originally posted by: Aimster
I've done both. .. I only felt guilty when I was caught.. . I don't do that stuff anymore. I think with maturity one learns to respect women if they are a man.

i doubt that.

i dont want to give too many details but they guy that im "involved" with is married and older than i am... i think guys can just never commit themselves to one vagina..

and yes, you can call me a whore if you want. at least im getting some.


oh and no we have not had sex and i ended this today. this poll isnt about me though its just out of curiosity.

 

[Yossarian]

Originally posted by: caitlion

Originally posted by: Aimster
I've done both. .. I only felt guilty when I was caught.. . I don't do that stuff anymore. I think with maturity one learns to respect women if they are a man.

i doubt that.

i dont want to give too many details but they guy that im "involved" with is married and older than i am... i think guys can just never commit themselves to one vagina..

and yes, you can call me a whore if you want. at least im getting some.

I don't think you're a whore. I just think you suck for doing your part to break up someone's marriage.

 

[caitlion]

Originally posted by: Yossarian

Originally posted by: caitlion

Originally posted by: Aimster
I've done both. .. I only felt guilty when I was caught.. . I don't do that stuff anymore. I think with maturity one learns to respect women if they are a man.

i doubt that.

i dont want to give too many details but they guy that im "involved" with is married and older than i am... i think guys can just never commit themselves to one vagina..

and yes, you can call me a whore if you want. at least im getting some.

I don't think you're a whore. I just think you suck for doing your part to break up someone's marriage.

at first i felt really bad about that. then i found out that he has cheated before and that he probably will again... its his choice and he is ruining his own marriage. i feel way worse about cheating on my bf.

 

[bradruth]

Originally posted by: caitlion
and yes, you can call me a whore if you want.

Ok. You're a whore.

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
What a shock, you're a whore.

Now put less tile and more tits in this picture, kthx.

- M4H

:laugh:

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: Yossarian

Originally posted by: caitlion

Originally posted by: Aimster
I've done both. .. I only felt guilty when I was caught.. . I don't do that stuff anymore. I think with maturity one learns to respect women if they are a man.

i doubt that.

i dont want to give too many details but they guy that im "involved" with is married and older than i am... i think guys can just never commit themselves to one vagina..

and yes, you can call me a whore if you want. at least im getting some.

I don't think you're a whore. I just think you suck for doing your part to break up someone's marriage.

He was going to cheat anyways, caitlion managed to get some dick out of it. What's the big deal?

 

[midwestfisherman]

Originally posted by: cpals

Originally posted by: Dulanic
Either is bad, cheaters are scum IMO, if you want to be with someone else, go ahead, but atleast have the respect to let go of the person your with.

Agreed

 

[Aimster]

Originally posted by: caitlion

Originally posted by: Aimster
I've done both. .. I only felt guilty when I was caught.. . I don't do that stuff anymore. I think with maturity one learns to respect women if they are a man.

i doubt that.

i dont want to give too many details but they guy that im "involved" with is married and older than i am... i think guys can just never commit themselves to one vagina..

and yes, you can call me a whore if you want. at least im getting some.

You're a girl. All you have to do is spread your legs. All I have to do is smile. Kind of the same thing, but not all guys have what I have.. Anyways what the hell are you doing with a married man?

Guys can commit. I used to have three girlfriends at a time. Now I only have one. I haven't cheated on her and if I even get a call from a girl I tell her about it. I love her and any mature guy who loves their SO won't hurt them. The guy might be old, but he might not be mature or he might not love his SO.

You need new friends and better relationships. Unless you are all for doing it for fun.. but you're a girl. Girls who do that stuff are looked down on (well in my book - no offense). Guys it is expected of them and they go and share a couple beers with their friends if they are caught and laugh it off....

 

[EvilYoda]

Not just an attention whore, but a whore outright.

i don't think you feel that bad about it if you both want to be with this other person and have indeed been with this other person...you're just trying to make yourself feel better. Drop the boyfriend, he's not worth a lot to you apparently, so don't put him nor you through any more bullsh*t.

 

[caitlion]

Originally posted by: EvilYoda
Not just an attention whore, but a whore outright.

i don't think you feel that bad about it if you both want to be with this other person and have indeed been with this other person...you're just trying to make yourself feel better. Drop the boyfriend, he's not worth a lot to you apparently, so don't put him nor you through any more bullsh*t.

he definitely is very important to me. if i could explain more about the situation i would. all i will say is that he is in a position of authority and took advantage of that.

 

[Bryophyte]

You thrive on the verbal abuse you get here, don't you? Why else would you be bragging about the lousy things you do?

 

[caitlion]

Originally posted by: Bryophyte
You thrive on the verbal abuse you get here, don't you? Why else would you be bragging about the lousy things you do?

bragging? i would hardly call it that.

are you jealous of me for some reason? why would you come into a thread that you know youre not going to enjoy reading AND comment just to start trouble? oh wait i do that too. still.

 

[Dulanic]

Originally posted by: caitlion

Originally posted by: Aimster
I've done both. .. I only felt guilty when I was caught.. . I don't do that stuff anymore. I think with maturity one learns to respect women if they are a man.

i doubt that.

i dont want to give too many details but they guy that im "involved" with is married and older than i am... i think guys can just never commit themselves to one vagina..

and yes, you can call me a whore if you want. at least im getting some.


oh and no we have not had sex and i ended this today. this poll isnt about me though its just out of curiosity.

Maybe it's just the guys you go after? Hey theres a thought. Not all guys are cheaters, many aren't. But when you date a$$holes what do you women expect? I've even been seperated for a year from my g/f, because she had to move as did I, and yet I haven't cheated, and I dont even have her here. It's not like it's HARD to figure out who the cheaters are, give me 5 minutes with any guy just hanging out, and I could tell by their attitude if they are likely to cheat or not. Women not so much for some reason, even the sweetest nicest girl can end up cheating. It's not always the case, but it seems it's alot easier to tell with guys.