What's the longest relationship you've been in?

[ashakar]

3 years 3 months. I'm 23

 

[Plop]

currently 3 years and 5 months

 

[nakedfrog]

28, and been with my gal since early 1999.

 

[secretanchitman]

still with same gf for over almost over 2 years.

i really hope it stays this way forever...!

 

[Spamela]

mrs. spamela & i have been married 23 years & dated for 2 1/2 years.

 

[RagingBITCH]

Current - little less than 3 months. It'll end after we get back from our respective Christmas Breaks though. None of my relationships have ever lasted past 2.5 months - I think I get freaked out or want to move onto the next "best" thing

 

[TBone48]

42 years old. Married (happily) since Oct 1988, dated for 8 years before marriage. That's 25+ years.

 

[fbrdphreak]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Please post your age and what you answered in the poll.

I'm 24, and my longest relationship has been about 9 weeks.

That's it 😕

22 and near 4.5 years. I know I'm above average here for length, but 6 months.......😕

😉

 

[MikeyIs4Dcats]

29, 5.5 years

 

[Grouchyoldguy]

I'm 39. 18 year relationship. Married for 15. Sixteen year old son.

 

[elektrolokomotive]

43, 15 years.

 

[Chryso]

41, 15 years

 

[dawnbug]

21, 3 years 7 months and counting.

:heart: Jello

 

[Schwan]

I'm 26 - less than 3 months....

 

[meltdown75]

i started dating my wife in October 1998.

so, just over 7 years now, 2 1/2 of which we have been happily married 🙂

 

[BAMAVOO]

Me - 36 Her - 32

17 years (10 married) 😀

 

[FuZoR]

22, a little over one year

 

[shortylickens]

Originally posted by: Schwan
I'm 26 - less than 3 months....

Ditto for me. Actually it was almost exactly 3 months.
Part of the trouble was the Navy. Its difficult to have a long term thing when you deploy every so often.

The other part can be summed up here:
http://nomarriage.com/
About half the links describe (in detail) why american women are so horrible.
I believe there used to be a site called americanwomensuck.com. Havent been to it in a while, but I agreed with most of the articles.

Before I turn 30 years of age, I intend to go back to Iceland and find a nice girl to call my own.

 

[scorpmatt]

i'm 23, am in a off and on relationship that has been going for 4 years now.

 

[shamrock1313]

I haven't had a girlfriend in around 4 years. Longest relationship 2 weeks.

I fvcking blow.

 

[DaWhYteDraGoN]

I'm 20, longest relationship - 2 years practically on the dot

 

[meltdown75]

Originally posted by: shamrock1313
I haven't had a girlfriend in around 4 years. Longest relationship 2 weeks.

I fvcking blow.

in that case maybe you're pursuing the wrong gender :Q 😉

 

[Bryophyte]

12 years 4 months, married 11 years 11 months. 36 years old. Previous record was an on and off thing for about 9 years.

 

[GuitarDaddy]

Married 19yrs + lived together for 6yrs = 25yrs, I'm 48

 

[shortylickens]

Originally posted by: GuitarDaddy
Married 19yrs + lived together for 6yrs = 25yrs, I'm 48

Since you're sharing, how about sharing a little more.
I have noticed a genuine trend in unhappy marriages that includes the trait of not living with each other for a while before the marriage.

I asked a guy (who talking mad smack about his wife) how well he knew her before hand.
He said "Oh I was with her for a long time. We dated for a whole year and lived together for like, 3 months".

This seemed like an incredibly short time to me but he was convinced he knew what he was doing. 1.5 months after the wedding day he was calling her a fvcking byatch. Not a byatch, a fvcking byatch.

If you had a young male friend who was considering matrimony, how long would you recommend he know her and live with her before proposing?
I was thinking date her for several years and live together at least one year.