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What's the key to regular sex in a long-term relationship?

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Originally posted by: Specop 007
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: Specop 007
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Stay in good shape and don't become a fat slob so she still finds you physically atractive. Guys always complain about their wives getting fat but 99% of these guys let themselves go too.

Also daytime sex or sex with the lights on so you can see what you are doing instead of just trying to wing it by feel alone. Of course if you and your spouse have become beasts then maybe it's not such a good idea.
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Hes right. Red Dawn has the sexiest damn body, and I just cant resist him.
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Going to the gym 5 days a week for years does pay off🙂
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I need to, in a BAD way. 🙁

Fortunately, I've a fairly inefficient metabolism so i can eat like a heifer and not gain a pound.
Flip side is, I'm not well defined.

I've been thinkin real hard of getting small weight set for the house as my X-mas present.
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As long as you don't have bitch tits and can look straight down and see your manhood you shouldn't have to worry.... yet. Of course as you get older your metabolism will slow down and like most men you will gain fat. Another plus is that working out will help keep your testosterone levels high as you get into your 50+ years where as those men who don't work out regularly will see a marked decrease in testosterone levels which also means they will gain fat, have a lessor sex drive and less muscle when they reach middle age.
 
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: Specop 007
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: Specop 007
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Stay in good shape and don't become a fat slob so she still finds you physically atractive. Guys always complain about their wives getting fat but 99% of these guys let themselves go too.

Also daytime sex or sex with the lights on so you can see what you are doing instead of just trying to wing it by feel alone. Of course if you and your spouse have become beasts then maybe it's not such a good idea.
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Hes right. Red Dawn has the sexiest damn body, and I just cant resist him.
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Going to the gym 5 days a week for years does pay off🙂
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I need to, in a BAD way. 🙁

Fortunately, I've a fairly inefficient metabolism so i can eat like a heifer and not gain a pound.
Flip side is, I'm not well defined.

I've been thinkin real hard of getting small weight set for the house as my X-mas present.
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As long as you don't have bitch tits and can look straight down and see your manhood you shouldn't have to worry.... yet. Of course as you get older your metabolism will slow down and like most men you will gain fat. Another plus is that working out will help keep your testosterone levels high as you get into your 50+ years where as those men who don't work out regularly will see a marked decrease in testosterone levels which also means they will gain fat, have a lessor sex drive and less muscle when they reach middle age.
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Where do I sign up?
Actually, that is one of my committments. This is not a new years resolution, since those don't work.
I'm going to the gym next tuesday, getting a trainer and going to ask them to fix me. I used to weigh 245 with 15% body fat. That was at 35 years old. I now weigh 275 and I'm sure I have at least 30% body fat. at 46 years old. I'm 6'3" tall.
Red is right. 🙁

Also, guys who are 60lbs overweight, have lost 2" of manstuff, guaranteed. 😉
 
Unexpected gifts, unexpected times.

There are a million books out there about how to spice up your sex life, first one that springs to mind is "The Joy of Sex"
 
Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Unexpected gifts, unexpected times.

There are a million books out there about how to spice up your sex life, first one that springs to mind is "The Joy of Sex"
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When you sprung to mind, did your zipper area elevate? LOL 😉

 
a hot secretary.


it couldnt help to both keep in shape. Individuals with higher fitness levels often experience increased libidos
 
keep things as new as possible with your partner.
be open to everything with them. Feel comfortable enough with them to make sure they know what you like and vice versa.
I also think that couples need to take vacations/small weekends away.. whatever together. THat seems to rekindle excitement and romance and the thought of doing things in a new place or outside or where ever is fun.
Finally, ALWAYS make sure that your s/o knows how much they still turn you on.
 
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Stay in good shape and don't become a fat slob so she still finds you physically atractive. Guys always complain about their wives getting fat but 99% of these guys let themselves go too.

Also daytime sex or sex with the lights on so you can see what you are doing instead of just trying to wing it by feel alone. Of course if you and your spouse have become beasts then maybe it's not such a good idea.
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I've never wanted to have sex with mine with the lights on. I also get into it more when it is dark.
 
Stay fit, limit your alcohol intake as you age, don't be afraid to try new things, don't be afraid to tell your mate what is exciting and pleasing to you and vice versa, put pleasing her above pleasing yourself, date her, desire her, romance her.
 
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Stay in good shape and don't become a fat slob so she still finds you physically atractive. Guys always complain about their wives getting fat but 99% of these guys let themselves go too.

Also daytime sex or sex with the lights on so you can see what you are doing instead of just trying to wing it by feel alone. Of course if you and your spouse have become beasts then maybe it's not such a good idea.
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Amen to the fat comment.

Daytime sex or sex with the lights on? Comon, sex in total darkness went out in the 1950s!
 
Romance her.

Send her kinky messages to her phone, leave notes about. Send a saucy email about what your thinking about her and how much you desire and want her.

And everything else in this thread. Lots of good advice :thumsup;

Koing
 
Originally posted by: SampSon
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Stay in good shape and don't become a fat slob so she still finds you physically atractive. Guys always complain about their wives getting fat but 99% of these guys let themselves go too.

Also daytime sex or sex with the lights on so you can see what you are doing instead of just trying to wing it by feel alone. Of course if you and your spouse have become beasts then maybe it's not such a good idea.
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Amen to the fat comment.

Daytime sex or sex with the lights on? Comon, sex in total darkness went out in the 1950s!
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lol thats what I was thinking. another poster above said he gets more excited in the dark. 😕

i think its way more exciting to see penetration and what not. i guess those who are insecure w/being naked in front of their partner are the ones who enjoy it in the dark better.

but me ... i like to watch my sausage link to in the pink 😀
 
Originally posted by: Specop 007
Originally posted by: Amused
A mistress.

😉
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HAHAHA!

/end thread!
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LOL!

Seriously, the only things I know for sure:

1) Make sure that she gets hers BEFORE you get yours, every time.
2) That doesn't always do it... so alcohol is next.
3) Finally, if nothing else works, get a mistress until she turns 32 - 36 and hits her prime.
 
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