What's the deal with married ex-girlfriends?!?!?

XMan

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I have two ex-girlfriends who are married. We're still friends, and I'm even a good friend to one of the husbands.

Recently, both of the exes have confided in me that they are having difficulty in their marriages . . . that hubby isn't, for lack of a better term, putting out.

Both of them have expressed more than a little interest in having something on the side with me when I come back to my hometown.

What's the stinkin' deal?!?! I can't get a girl to even give me the time of day where I live now, and the ones I broke up with are pining away for me?

I know there's a God - and he's sadistic, believe you me. :|

(And what the hell is happening to my married buddies that they don't have any interest in relations anymore?!?!)
 

XMan

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Oh, and before you say anything - I'm not going to do it. I'd be a liar if I said I wasn't tempted, but I'm not going to do it.
 

Amused

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What's the deal with you sounding like Jerry Seinfeld?
 

Originally posted by: X-Man

(And what the hell is happening to my married buddies that they don't have any interest in relations anymore?!?!)

They got married. :p
 

XMan

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Originally posted by: Amused
What's the deal with you sounding like Jerry Seinfeld?

Not that there's anything wrong with that . . .

 

BCYL

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Originally posted by: X-Man
Oh, and before you say anything - I'm not going to do it. I'd be a liar if I said I wasn't tempted, but I'm not going to do it.

Good for You! :)
 

Storm

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Originally posted by: Skyclad1uhm1
Maybe they want to know if you still find them hot, and maybe they want a backup slave.

Exactly... Sounds like they arent too sure of themselves and want to see if they still got it by going back to an old stand-by the ex-bfs ie You
 

hzl eyed grl

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In case y'all are wondering, no, I'm not one of the married ex's. ;) heehee


Oh, and are you gonna do it, X-Man? :Q ;)
 

XMan

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Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl


Oh, and are you gonna do it, X-Man? :Q ;)

No way. Potentially break up two marriages? My dad already says I'm going to Hell, I'd at least like to stay in the non-smoking section.

 

illusion88

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their husbands werent your friends BEFORE they married right?
if so then get down and quit complaining about sex with willing chicks.
 

Mill

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I hate you X-man. I was just thinking about my ex and then a song I downloaded reminded me even more.

I wouldn't break up two marriages either.
 

tcsenter

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Both of them have expressed more than a little interest in having something on the side with me when I come back to my hometown.
If this is the case then the marriage is bound to be 'broken up', anyway. You can't break up a marriage whose parties don't want to be broken up.

But let me tell you there are downsides to being the 'other man' or 'woman'. Big, pain-in-the-ass, highly undesirable downsides.

In this situation, and I've had a few opportunities, I basically try to treat people the way I would want to be treated, and I wouldn't want my wife to have a boy toy on the side, so I won't be a party to such an arrangement. Goodness knows I've kicked myself in the ass a minute after saying no. Damned morals!

 

gooseman

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Both of them have expressed more than a little interest in having something on the side with me when I come back to my hometown.

What's the stinkin' deal?!?! I can't get a girl to even give me the time of day where I live now, and the ones I broke up with are pining away for me?

My advice to you.....MOVE BACK HOME!:Q
 

FoBoT

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Originally posted by: X-Man

(And what the hell is happening to my married buddies that they don't have any interest in relations anymore?!?!)

too much pr0n/wacking the monkey
 

Isla

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They are probably just looking to ease the pain, but they won't find the cure in you.

And my husband wants to have sex constantly.
 

Zedtom

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One of my old girlfriends called me up after ten years of not seeing her. She invited me over to her house to visit her and her husband. I had grown up with both of them, so I thought it would be nice to chat and talk about old times. I went to their house, walked in, and her husband is sitting there at the dining room table cleaning his hunting rifles. I thought that was strange, but I figured he was just doing a project when I happened to come by. We sat and talked for about an hour, but when her husband offered me a beer, I declined and said I had to go. The mood in the room didn't lend itself to partying with alcohol. Anyway, that was the end of that. Married couples do have their own private agendas- and I didn't want to get sucked into some some weird scenario.
 

MichaelD

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Originally posted by: Renob
I say Bang them silly.;)

Most times, when it comes to sleeping w/a married woman, everyone loves to throw stones and say "you evil SOB! You broke up their marriage!!" I say "Chuck you Farley!"

I've never once in my life made any woman do anything she didn't want to do w/me. If I don't know the husband, if she's just some woman that wants to cheat, who am I to say no? Her life and her problems are irrelevant to this situation in the "here and now."

Chances are, I'm not the first guy she's boinked outside her marriage. Hell, I'll take a number. :p

Now, this situation here is different. He's friends w/their husbands. It would be bad mojo (evil bad mojo) to do anything w/his exes b/c he does know their husbands and professes to being "good friends" w/one of them. That's a no-no. Like shagging your best friends' ex...you just don't do it.
 

crystal

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Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: Renob
I say Bang them silly.;)

Most times, when it comes to sleeping w/a married woman, everyone loves to throw stones and say "you evil SOB! You broke up their marriage!!" I say "Chuck you Farley!"

I've never once in my life made any woman do anything she didn't want to do w/me. If I don't know the husband, if she's just some woman that wants to cheat, who am I to say no? Her life and her problems are irrelevant to this situation in the "here and now."

Chances are, I'm not the first guy she's boinked outside her marriage. Hell, I'll take a number. :p

Now, this situation here is different. He's friends w/their husbands. It would be bad mojo (evil bad mojo) to do anything w/his exes b/c he does know their husbands and professes to being "good friends" w/one of them. That's a no-no. Like shagging your best friends' ex...you just don't do it.

For some reasons, that don't sit right with me. Whether they choose to commit a moral sin or not is not an issue. It is whether or not you choose to involve yourself in such a situation. In this case, it take two to tango. BTW, this is just my opinion and there will be those the disagree strongly to this.