Whats going on? ...yet another girl thread

[halik]

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[imported_Tomato]

Originally posted by: halik
Alright heres my struggle,
one of my 'friends' got me all confused....we're very close but it seems to me theres something more...
First of all she has a boyfriend (thats why i find her behavior bit odd) and acts really 'friendly' towards me.

Its really random stuff..she changes with me in the room, she eats my food (ice cream and stuff like), steals suckers form my mouth etc. Yet she still seems to like her boyfriend (hes somewhat of an ass)...so im litte confused on all the stuff. Also it seems she listentsto me more than him (ive talked outta stuff that i consider bet couple of times)...plus im bigger/ better looking than him anyway...


Any of you kids have similar experience? I really dont know whats all this stuff mean

I'm all for friendly, but that's a little TOO friendly. Steer clear romantically... if she has that much "respect" for her boyfriend, that's about as much respect she'll have for you if you engage in any sort of more-than-platonic relationship with her.

 

[Rkonster]

Changes in front of you, huh. Pics!

I should add that you should indeed not do anything while she currently has a boyfriend.

 

[yobarman]

get up on her. she'll dump her boyfriend for you if she's being an ass.

If you like her than let her know... but don't be outright about it. drop some clues here and there. But work fast, cause if her bf has a change of heart and starts treating her right then you're outta the game

 

[theNEOone]

it depends on how long she's been dating her b/f and how long she's been your friend. i have a hottie friend that changes in front of me, jokes around, etc. etc. we each have a significant other, but are just really comfortable in each other's presence. she probably just sees you as a kid brother.

also, if you have any respsect for yourself, you wouldn't make any moves on her until she's cut it clean w/ her current b/f.


edit: changed the last part. misread the post.

 

[hdeck]

tell her how you feel about her unless you enjoy the state you are in now.

 

[Spac3d]

Go for it, she wants you.

 

[halik]

shes been with him for around a year now...hes still in highschool, we're both in college (frosch). She knows i like her...we hang out every other day. (i switch to her class...her idea)

 

[Ordo1999]

Originally posted by: Dezign

I'm all for friendly, but that's a little TOO friendly. Steer clear romantically... if she has that much "respect" for her boyfriend, that's about as much respect she'll have for you if you engage in any sort of more-than-platonic relationship with her.

Good advice

 

[theNEOone]

hmm, well if this college chick is dating a high school boy, you can bet your ass that it's going to be over between them soon.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: Dezign


I'm all for friendly, but that's a little TOO friendly. Steer clear romantically... if she has that much "respect" for her boyfriend, that's about as much respect she'll have for you if you engage in any sort of more-than-platonic relationship with her.

Agreed. One thing I've noticed with people talking about messing with other people's girls is that the boyfriend is ALWALYS treating her bad. Much worse than you would treat her. Sounds like justification to me.

 

[hdeck]

Originally posted by: halik
shes been with him for around a year now...hes still in highschool, we're both in college (frosch). She knows i like her...we hang out every other day. (i switch to her class...her idea)

she's with someone in high school??? tell her to forget this guy. she's a woman, he's still a boy! she obviously likes you if she does all that stuff so just go for it.

 

[dejitaru]

What's going on? What can I do to open up your door? I gotta get to know you, get to hold you like I did before. Night and day running 'round. Can't you see that this is killing me? If you really love me, baby tell me what you need.

Anyway...
She's just screwing with you. Chicks do that.

 

[PricklyPete]

Originally posted by: Ordo1999

Originally posted by: Dezign

I'm all for friendly, but that's a little TOO friendly. Steer clear romantically... if she has that much "respect" for her boyfriend, that's about as much respect she'll have for you if you engage in any sort of more-than-platonic relationship with her.

Good advice

Ditto

 

[The Stigenator]

she is a bit too friendly and very comfy with you..

chances are she is thinking of you as a potiential.. give her an incentive.. and she will be all yours.

vanessa used to do that to me.. okay so we werent dating anybody then.. but she used to say she was still in love with her ex. Needless to say one good thing that I did for her and next thing she became mine.

This girl is comfy with you, you will make a good couple.

 

[zippy]

A girl I know hits on me a lot too and yes she has a boyfriend. I thought that was just her personality, but two of my friends pointed it out yesterday. Oh well, if she drops her bf maybe I'll act, but until then, whatever, she's a nice girl and I have a good time hanging out and talking to her. Her bf is a tool though, oh man, he thinks he's the funniest thing ever...good lord I just want to punch him in his damn mouth - which happens to be missing a tooth, it's weird, he has this gap and braces - I guess his teeth needed some more room to move about.

 

[wnied]

I say bang her. Then kick her crazy ass to the curb.

Heres why: Girls like this are essentially nuts. But, that being said, she seems to have an interest in you. So you should take advantage of this attraction before it passes by getting some seriously animalistic copulation from her, then dump her off at the nearest bus station with enough money for a one way ticket outta town. If you dont, then you'll always wonder when your older, what it wouldve been like to "bang that crazy chick I used to hang out with."

In dealing with the opposite sex on attraction, he who hesitates is doomed to chronically date Rosey Palm and her five sisters.

~wnied~

 

[kami]

What's going on is she is probably bored with her boyfriend so she has you to play with.

I'm in a similar situation now, though I'm trying to become more distant cause it could get nasty. She's been w/ him for about 2.5 years, but lives at college away from him. She calls constantly, and if she's not calling she's in my room. Once when she was drunk she started kissing me and grabbing me but I was sober enough to remind her what was going on. She's also slept with me in my bed once (fell asleep watching a movie)...

Girls suck. Why can't a single one do these things? Always has to have a b/f. No matter though...starting a relationship in college is a little dumb since I'll be outta here in a month.

All I can say is be careful

 

[Lola]

Plain and simple: she is teasing and playing with you. Sure, she has a boyfriend, but that won't stop her. The sucker thing took it to a certain point then teh changing in front of you took it another level. thats just not cool. I would tattle on her, but how would her BF react if he knew this was goin on??

 

[Ynog]

Some girls are considerable more friendly than others.
I been friends with girls that are very touchy, doing
about the same stuff you described with nothing more
than friends behind it. Some of them even shared the
bed to sleep in. I have never thought anything of it.
I have also known girls that are the opposite, very
reserved and wouldn't want you even sleeping in the
same room as her.

I have always found that girls are fairly obvious when
she just wants to be frends and when she is interested in more.

 

[Pepsei]

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: halik
Alright heres my struggle,
one of my 'friends' got me all confused....we're very close but it seems to me theres something more...
First of all she has a boyfriend (thats why i find her behavior bit odd) and acts really 'friendly' towards me.

Its really random stuff..she changes with me in the room, she eats my food (ice cream and stuff like), steals suckers form my mouth etc. Yet she still seems to like her boyfriend (hes somewhat of an ass)...so im litte confused on all the stuff. Also it seems she listentsto me more than him (ive talked outta stuff that i consider bet couple of times)...plus im bigger/ better looking than him anyway...


Any of you kids have similar experience? I really dont know whats all this stuff mean

I'm all for friendly, but that's a little TOO friendly. Steer clear romantically... if she has that much "respect" for her boyfriend, that's about as much respect she'll have for you if you engage in any sort of more-than-platonic relationship with her.

I agree, she's a whore type.

 

[Schadenfreude]

Time for soem good ol' POON

 

[halik]

teeheee update

 

[Rufio]

man be ready for a mad boyfriend coming to kick your ass!

 

[JEDI]

Originally posted by: wnied
I say bang her. Then kick her crazy ass to the curb.

Heres why: Girls like this are essentially nuts. But, that being said, she seems to have an interest in you. So you should take advantage of this attraction before it passes by getting some seriously animalistic copulation from her, then dump her off at the nearest bus station with enough money for a one way ticket outta town. If you dont, then you'll always wonder when your older, what it wouldve been like to "bang that crazy chick I used to hang out with."

In dealing with the opposite sex on attraction, he who hesitates is doomed to chronically date Rosey Palm and her five sisters.

~wnied~

Sounds like my THREAD on taking a chance on making the move, or wonder what-if for the rest of your life