What you should talk about on first dates

[madoka]

This guide is like a primer on what not to do!

http://www.businessinsider.com/what-you-should-talk-about-first-date-2016-12

- Share secrets

- Talk about abortion

- Talk about your first sexual experience

Yeah, I'm sure these topics will go over well.

That video warns not to talk about movies because it might cause arguments, then suggests you bring up controversial subjects like abortion!

 

[lxskllr]

Why talk at all? That's what cell phones are for, and they make it easy to avoid uncomfortable conversation topics. She can look at instagram, you can nef on atot, and everyone's happy.

 

[BarkingGhostar]

Guides for dating are bs. If you can't feel girls energy, go home and masturbate...

Um, you mean D-cell batteries that she uses in her vibrators?

 

[db]

Being honest saves you and the other time. Being present with the other person, and them with you, honors both of you.

 

[Exterous]

I like to lay it all out on the table on a first date. And by it I am of course referring to my junk.

 

[highland145]

I like to lay it all out on the table on a first date. And by it I am of course referring to my junk.

Huh and she still married you.


Virgins....both.

 

[cbrunny]

The only acceptable thing to talk about on a first date is poutine. Just talk poutine.

 

[highland145]

The only acceptable thing to talk about on a first date is poutine. Just talk poutine.

I'll ask my wife if that's acceptable for our 16 y.o.

Boy, thankfully..

 

[John Connor]

I just immediately talk about my foot fetish. If she's into it great! If not, FUCK HER! I mean, fuck her...

 

[John Connor]

That video was garbage! Seriously. You don't talk about controversial subjects FFS. I learned that you avoid politics and religion at all costs. Especially at Thanksgiving and Christmas! When I met woman I would talk about our interests, hobbies, favorite music and go from there. Some woman are very boring!

 

[BurnItDwn]

Best is small talk with frequent awkward silences. The more awkward silences, the better. The winner has the most!

 

[Carson Dyle]

I think the video is dead on. It just makes sense. Give the person an idea of who you are.

I like the idea of avoiding talking about movies, because it's likely to end up in a disagreement, however trivial or light-hearted. A disagreement over a more weighty, controversial topic is more likely to reveal who the person is. It has some value for both of you.

Don't talk about religion or politics? Bullshit. I won't talk about religion or politics (or the top five all-time NFL quarterbacks, or the best all-time NBA lineup) with a stranger in a bar, because I don't need to get into a heated argument while I'm just trying to kick back. And because I couldn't care less about their opinions on any of the subjects. But on a date? If she's a born again christian? That date is ending early and there won't be a second one.

 

[IronWing]

But on a date? If she's a born again christian? That date is ending early and there won't be a second one.

Your loss. You might miss out on the second coming.