What would you do?

jtusa

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I'll try and keep this as short as possible. I was living by myself, then my good friend's parents moved, so he had to move out, I got a place with him even though he didn't have a job, but was getting one. It was against my better financial judgement, but he's a good friend, and couldn't afford a place by himself.

Been living in this place for 4 months and he owes me a month and a half rent, about $600. Right before we got the place he got fired from his job, so I hooked him up with a friend of mine who got him a job. He got fired from that job about 3 months later. He's been without work for about 3 weeks. He has no money, can't pay me, can't pay his bills.

He tried to get a loan from the bank, they said they wouldn't do it without a cosigner. He asked me to cosign for him and said I was his last resort because he's asked everyone else.

I'm very hesitant because he's sh!tty with money. If I help him out, I get my money, but put my credit on the line. If he fvcks up on the loan, my credit gets hurt, and my credit is pretty much flawless.

What would you do?

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jst0ney

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I can relate. I think that the bottom line is that your friend is really taking advantage of you. Ask yourself if he would do this for you. If he wouldn't then I think that you asnwered this question. If you do decide to cosign then you better make sure that he has a good plan to repay the loan. Sounds like he cannot hold a job so repaying the loan may fall on your hands and you may be out of a friend. Money and friends do not mix.
 

Mill

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Do NOT co-sign. That would only make you liable for him running up the balance of the loan, or you for your own money if he defaults. The only people I'd ever co-sign with is my brother, mother, or step-father, but they don't need my help in the first place.
 

hdeck

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didn't you watch the last season of dawson's creek? getting financially involved ruin dawson and pacey's relationship completely.

/me shoots self for watching that
 

fredtam

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Originally posted by: hdeck
didn't you watch the last season of dawson's creek? getting financially involved ruin dawson and pacey's relationship completely.

/me shoots self for watching that

Holy fvck. Please cut up your man card.



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jtusa

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Originally posted by: fredtam
Originally posted by: hdeck
didn't you watch the last season of dawson's creek? getting financially involved ruin dawson and pacey's relationship completely.

/me shoots self for watching that

Holy fvck. Please cut up your man card.



grumpy

Ahahaha.
 

nageov3t

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don't do it.

there's a reason that no one else was willing to co-sign with him. your friend might be sincere, but getting financially involved with your friends is always a bad idea.
 

fredtam

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Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
Originally posted by: jtusa4
Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
Do not get financially involved with friends.

I'm finding that out the hardway...

Anything I "lend" to friends, I don't expect back.

That is the number one rule in loaning money. Never expect it back (yes I know it defies the definition of loan) and if you can't afford to lose it don't loan it.
 

bockchow

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do not cosign for anything. and as far as what he owes you and is probably going to owe you get it all in writeing and have it signed, notarized if possible. he may seem willing to pay you back at the moment but that could quickly change. there's nothing wrong with helping people i do it all the time but ALWAYS CYA.
 

Ornery

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"...my good friend's parents moved, so he had to move out..."

Your "good friend" can't hold a job, or pay bills, so he has to move out. Cut your losses and send him packing to move back with mommy & daddy.
 

300MDemon

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Don't cosign. I agree with everyone -- never get financially involved with friends. my roommate and I got an apartment with one of our friends and he ended up not paying rent and we had to kick him out.
 

Orsorum

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Do NOT co-sign. I'd start looking into a new apartment with financially responsible roommates ASAP.
 

Kelemvor

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If you Co-Sign you're a retard.

Is his name on the lease? If not, I'd get a new roommate. It's not that hard to hold a job. obviously he's either a screw up or just incompetent. Neither or which I'd want to be living with much less sign my financial future away on since you know he won't be able to repay the loan.