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What would you do if your S.O. broke up with you?

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AreaCode707

Lifer
Assuming you're currently in a relationship that is. Assume they didn't cheat and did their best to keep it from being a messy breakup (keeping it entirely mess-free depends on you too). How would you react/what would you do?
 
um.. mine broke up with me 2 weeks ago.. not messy.. and honestly.. its like i forgot she was there... now theres just a desire to fill that empty hole and go back to being happy like i was for 6 months
 
If Hubby broke up with me tomorrow...
I would take time out to mend and then I think I would start looking for a nice girl to chase.

 
same thing i've done in my last two relationships, it works well. say it's their choice, if they aren't happy then that's how it will be. i accept it, and move on. it was kinda ironic that the second last one was the one dumping me, but she was the one in tears and i was the one comforting her, go figure
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<< If Hubby broke up with me tomorrow...
I would take time out to mend and then I think I would start looking for a nice girl to chase. >>


:Q
 
I'd probably go get drunk with my best buds and do stupid things, play lots of video games, and have lots of fun. Just anything to get the mind off it :Q
 
I told her that even though it wasn't what I wanted to happen, I'd support her and try and be there for her.

Thats what I said 4 months ago.



🙁
 


<< If Hubby broke up with me tomorrow...
I would take time out to mend and then I think I would start looking for a nice girl to chase. >>


hmmmmmm... 😉
 
well, assuming that i have one, and that the past is any indication, probably be bummed out for a couple days.
 
Get a second job, work lots of OT. Dump as much money as possible into my 401k, spend lots of money on my PC, buy a nice car.

When I'm working I don't have to think about things, & working is much better for me than sitting around doing nothing.

Viper GTS
 


<< Get a second job, work lots of OT. Dump as much money as possible into my 401k, spend lots of money on my PC, buy a nice car.

When I'm working I don't have to think about things, & working is much better for me than sitting around doing nothing.

Viper GTS >>



that's so true... i got the job i have now because i was down about a girl 🙂
 


<< Assume they didn't cheat and did their best to keep it from being a messy breakup (keeping it entirely mess-free depends on you too). How would you react/what would you do? >>



I'd say there was no love or passion in the relationship and I'd let it go...
 
I would try to make it less painful as possible.
I have seen many seperations and divorces, most of them being full
of anger and fighting. Looking from the outside in, I can see all the wasted
energy and emotions......
Easy come and easy go.......Life will continue, there will be a tomorrow........
 
HotChic and Mr Pulse,
I have had three last names, I doubt I could remember a fourth.... so a third marriage is definitely not in my future.
Besides the other side of the fence isnt so bad. 🙂
 


<< << If Hubby broke up with me tomorrow...
I would take time out to mend and then I think I would start looking for a nice girl to chase.>> >>


Very confused!
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<< Yeah yeah yeah, "I'd let it go." Nice pat answers. What'd you really do, not just what would you ideally do? >>



Okay, I'd start following them around and calling them late at night, and keep saying: "Every breath you take, every move you make, I'll be watching you..."





 
I've switched roles. I was the one who broke the relationship. But, if she were the one to break the relationship while things were going well, i would have been severly heart-broken. I strove for a working relationship since the beginning, but in the long run, i began to realize that i was fighting for a lost cause. Woops, sidetracked there 😛 Umm, knowing her, she'd be the one to sour up our "clean" breakup, making it into a VERY messy split. I had two options:

1) Mope around like a helpless bum
2) Get out and about, and meet some new chicks 😉

Needless to say, number 2 worked for me, and i'm working on a new pre-relationship 🙂


<<I told her that even though it wasn't what I wanted to happen, I'd support her and try and be there for her. >>

Woah, that's the same thing i told my ex... Too bad she had to f|_|x0r it all up, no more support from me!
 


<< Assuming you're currently in a relationship that is. Assume they didn't cheat and did their best to keep it from being a messy breakup (keeping it entirely mess-free depends on you too). How would you react/what would you do? >>





one thing is for sure, I wouldn't be discussing it here,80,000 readers and their enquiring minds ? bah, no thank you 😀
 
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