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puffff

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Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: Descartes
Originally posted by: bradruth
Is he serious or just giving you sh!t?

Does it matter?

I think so.

agreed. if he's serious, and he has a point (your gf is fat and ugly), maybe he's just looking out for you.

there are plenty of fish in the sea, maybe he wants you to throw this one back.
 

krunchykrome

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Originally posted by: Aimster
Calling her ugly, laughing whenever you said something good about her, Saying she has gained weight.. etc.

My best friends and I always make fun of each other's girlfriends, but theres a difference between joking around and actually putting them down. I would never put another best friend's gf down. I say you put that f*cker in his place.
 

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Originally posted by: puffff
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: Descartes
Originally posted by: bradruth
Is he serious or just giving you sh!t?

Does it matter?

I think so.

agreed. if he's serious, and he has a point (your gf is fat and ugly), maybe he's just looking out for you.

there are plenty of fish in the sea, maybe he wants you to throw this one back.

Maybe he wants him to throw it back so he can get it for himself :Q
 
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Originally posted by: Aimster
Calling her ugly, laughing whenever you said something good about her, Saying she has gained weight.. etc.

actually i should take note of this.. cause some ATOT ppl were like this with regards to my girlfriend..

i dont announce her on this site often because of incidents in the past.. but she posts and stuff under her userid.. too bad i spolied her and got her addicted to the site now..
 

Aimster

Lifer
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here are the examples:

"My girl cousin saw you and your girlfriend the other day and she thought your girl was really hot, but I was laughing at her and telling her she really is not"

"I wouldn't call your girlfriend hot at all she is not even average"
"I noticed your girlfriend's friend has a nice ass but I couldn't say the same for your girl"
"She has lopsided boobs and crooked teeth" .. BTW her boobs and teeth are fine.

Same friend also laughs at me for not picking up these random chicks at the clubs/bars when he knows I'm getting very serious with my GF (engagement soon hopefully). He wants me to cheat on her, but I won't.

He always has this smirk on his face whenever he mentions these things too like he is better than me.

So would you call those remarks above joking around?

No other guy friend of mine has said anything negative about her. All my friends that are girls say she is really pretty too and that I'd be an idiot if I was to let her go.
 

mugs

Lifer
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I'd probably stop making up imaginary girlfriends and cars and posting about them on the Internet.
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: Aimster
here are the examples:

"My girl cousin saw you and your girlfriend the other day and she thought your girl was really hot, but I was laughing at her and telling her she really is not"

"I wouldn't call your girlfriend hot at all she is not even average"
"I noticed your girlfriend's friend has a nice ass but I couldn't say the same for your girl"
"She has lopsided boobs and crooked teeth" .. BTW her boobs and teeth are fine.

Same friend also laughs at me for not picking up these random chicks at the clubs/bars when he knows I'm getting very serious with my GF (engagement soon hopefully). He wants me to cheat on her, but I won't.

He always has this smirk on his face whenever he mentions these things too like he is better than me.

So would you call those remarks above joking around?

No other guy friend of mine has said anything negative about her. All my friends that are girls say she is really pretty too and that I'd be an idiot if I was to let her go.

He's either jealous, an immature jerk, or an asshole. I'd tell him his comments bother you, and if he respected you as a friend to tone it down/stop completely.
 

Chronoshock

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Originally posted by: Aimster
here are the examples:

"My girl cousin saw you and your girlfriend the other day and she thought your girl was really hot, but I was laughing at her and telling her she really is not"

"I wouldn't call your girlfriend hot at all she is not even average"
"I noticed your girlfriend's friend has a nice ass but I couldn't say the same for your girl"
"She has lopsided boobs and crooked teeth" .. BTW her boobs and teeth are fine.

Same friend also laughs at me for not picking up these random chicks at the clubs/bars when he knows I'm getting very serious with my GF (engagement soon hopefully). He wants me to cheat on her, but I won't.

He always has this smirk on his face whenever he mentions these things too like he is better than me.

So would you call those remarks above joking around?

No other guy friend of mine has said anything negative about her. All my friends that are girls say she is really pretty too and that I'd be an idiot if I was to let her go.


This "friend" sounds like a jealous @sshole, please follow my advice above
 

Aimster

Lifer
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Originally posted by: mugs
I'd probably stop making up imaginary girlfriends and cars and posting about them on the Internet.

Why dont you go to maxima.org and search for Tuna's car in Virginia and you'll see my post and pictures of my car. If you have no evidence my car doesn't exist why don't you STFU?
 

clamum

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If he's serious I'd tell him to STFU, and if that didn't work, I wouldn't hang out with the fool.
 

purbeast0

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Aimster: dude that really is not cool. i would not put up with that crap. i have kind of had situations similiar to yours as far as the 'picking up girls at the club when already having a girlfriend' type deal.

i have only had 2 girlfriends, and they have both been pretty serious. i am currently 22, and i have been in my current relationship 'seriously' since last summer. i had been seeing the girl for about a year before we became serious. all the time, when with this girl and my ex (which I was with since i was 17), whenever we would go to the clubs my friends would ALWAYS try to get me to hookup with other girls, which again, is not cool to me, him knowing that I have a gf already and knowing how serious it is. the thing is, my friends don't have gf's. they are the type who like to go out and hook up with random girls at the club. i am not like that, at all. i like having 1 special person that i can be with. whenever my friends are like 'yea i hooked up with this chick at the club' or 'i had sex with this girl the other night' i am just like 'and you are telling me this why? when are you guys gonna start dating? etc.'

i think the main thing my friends try to get me to hook up with the girls is because (and i'm not trying to sound like an arrogant fvck) is because I am the one in the bunch who is the best looking, and they see me getting girls left and right when we go out, without even having to try. the girls just come up to me and talk to me and tell me how hot I am and what not. i honestly think they are just jealous because they can't get em that easily, and that they want me to take advantage of the situation because they can't. i kinda of like the feeling just KNOWING i could have those chicks, but not actually getting them.

one time my best friend and I were talking, and he was saying to me 'how can you have sex with the same girl all the time? i can't do that, i get bored' and my reply was 'i bet you i have had sex more times this week than you have had all year' and he kinda chuckled and was like 'yea, but it's with the same girl.'

the thing that pissed me off was he was saying it like it was a bad thing. my manager at work was also right there and was kinda like 'wtf... who cares, i have a girl too and its great.'

just remember this bro (but seems like you aren't gonna have to worry about this) ... an hour of pleasure with some random hot chick is not worth the time you have spent with your current GF, no matter who it is.
 

BurnItDwn

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I'm sure I would punch them. Not sure about after that, I think it depends on their reaction.
 

Fausto

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Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: mugs
I'd probably stop making up imaginary girlfriends and cars and posting about them on the Internet.

Why dont you go to maxima.org and search for Tuna's car in Virginia and you'll see my post and pictures of my car. If you have no evidence my car doesn't exist why don't you STFU?
AHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! Still in denial are we?
 

BooGiMaN

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dude why you letting him disrespect your woman like that....seriously man...handle your bizness....
 

mugs

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: mugs
I'd probably stop making up imaginary girlfriends and cars and posting about them on the Internet.

Why dont you go to maxima.org and search for Tuna's car in Virginia and you'll see my post and pictures of my car. If you have no evidence my car doesn't exist why don't you STFU?

What about your other cars? You apparantly have:
03 Maxima
98 Maxima and 98 Accord
02 Acura
 

dabuddha

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Originally posted by: Aimster
here are the examples:

"My girl cousin saw you and your girlfriend the other day and she thought your girl was really hot, but I was laughing at her and telling her she really is not"

"I wouldn't call your girlfriend hot at all she is not even average"
"I noticed your girlfriend's friend has a nice ass but I couldn't say the same for your girl"
"She has lopsided boobs and crooked teeth" .. BTW her boobs and teeth are fine.

Same friend also laughs at me for not picking up these random chicks at the clubs/bars when he knows I'm getting very serious with my GF (engagement soon hopefully). He wants me to cheat on her, but I won't.

He always has this smirk on his face whenever he mentions these things too like he is better than me.

So would you call those remarks above joking around?

No other guy friend of mine has said anything negative about her. All my friends that are girls say she is really pretty too and that I'd be an idiot if I was to let her go.
Had a friend like that. Best way to fix it is to stop hanging out with him. He'll get the idea.
 

Fausto

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Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: Aimster
here are the examples:

"My girl cousin saw you and your girlfriend the other day and she thought your girl was really hot, but I was laughing at her and telling her she really is not"

"I wouldn't call your girlfriend hot at all she is not even average"
"I noticed your girlfriend's friend has a nice ass but I couldn't say the same for your girl"
"She has lopsided boobs and crooked teeth" .. BTW her boobs and teeth are fine.

Same friend also laughs at me for not picking up these random chicks at the clubs/bars when he knows I'm getting very serious with my GF (engagement soon hopefully). He wants me to cheat on her, but I won't.

He always has this smirk on his face whenever he mentions these things too like he is better than me.

So would you call those remarks above joking around?

No other guy friend of mine has said anything negative about her. All my friends that are girls say she is really pretty too and that I'd be an idiot if I was to let her go.
Had a friend like that. Best way to fix it is to stop hanging out with him. He'll get the idea.
If he persists, throw bricks at him.
 

dabuddha

Lifer
Apr 10, 2000
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Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: mugs
I'd probably stop making up imaginary girlfriends and cars and posting about them on the Internet.

Why dont you go to maxima.org and search for Tuna's car in Virginia and you'll see my post and pictures of my car. If you have no evidence my car doesn't exist why don't you STFU?

What about your other cars? You apparantly have:
03 Maxima
98 Maxima and 98 Accord
02 Acura

ahhhhh I remember this guy now. He's the guy who had his maxima's wheels stolen or broken into or something, wasn't he?
 

Doboji

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1. We need pics.

He may be a good friend trying to rescue you from the ugly monster who you think is hot just cuz she likes you and has boobs.


2. how old are you?

If you're like 17... ummm yeah that would make sense

3. Has your friend ever groped any part of your body.

That would explain alot as well.

-Max
 

mugs

Lifer
Apr 29, 2003
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Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: mugs
I'd probably stop making up imaginary girlfriends and cars and posting about them on the Internet.

Why dont you go to maxima.org and search for Tuna's car in Virginia and you'll see my post and pictures of my car. If you have no evidence my car doesn't exist why don't you STFU?

What about your other cars? You apparantly have:
03 Maxima
98 Maxima and 98 Accord
02 Acura

ahhhhh I remember this guy now. He's the guy who had his maxima's wheels stolen or broken into or something, wasn't he?

So he says. He also claims to have keyed an X5 because the owner didn't give him a tip. Oh yeah, he affords all 4 cars on what he makes delivering pizzas.
 

Wahsapa

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there comes a point in a mans life when he has to beat up one of his friends. for you, this point is now.
 

CrackaLackaZe

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Originally posted by: notfred
Pics of girlfriend? If she really is fat and ugly, maybe your friend has a point.

lol wtf? It shouldn't matter if he's your friend. Friends give friends respect and respect their decisions. You can get that kind of stuff from a stranger.