What would you do... EDIT: I need help

[Jfur]

However much it hurts and angers you, it's better to know now. I'm glad you are not letting her take advantage of you. Stay strong Make sure you address/vent the feelings you are having by talking it over with trusted friend(s).

 

[MichaelD]

OK, you did the right thing. I didn't and that's why I'm in the situation that I am. Live and learn. If she was on the pill, how'd she end up pregnant. I KNOW the pill isn't 100% reliable...but the odds are very, very slim that she'd conceive while on the pill. See, my son's mom was on the pill. We stopped seeing each other for about a month. She went off the pill. We had a few booty calls. She didn't tell me squat. You can figure out the rest.

I hope to GOD for your sake that you don't have to go thru the hell I've been in for almost six years. Child support, child custody hearings, false accusations to Child Protective Services, threatening phonecalls to your place of employment...see, I was stoopid enough to sleep with Mephisto Herself. Dumbass that I am. Good luck to you. PM me if you need someone to talk to.

 

[Looney]

EDIT: She keeps calling me, but I don't bother to pick up the phone.

I would stick with that, just ignore her and you'll eventually get over it.

OK, fair enough. Why do you think it's his?

Because she says it's the other guy? But that's not even the entire issue... even if it is his, she still cheated on him.

 

[gopunk]

my god, that sucks. i'm sorry man.

i would never talk to her again, and change my phone number if i needed to.

 

[Random Variable]

<< OK, you did the right thing. I didn't and that's why I'm in the situation that I am. Live and learn. If she was on the pill, how'd she end up pregnant. I KNOW the pill isn't 100% reliable...but the odds are very, very slim that she'd conceive while on the pill. >>


Well, there was a gap of several weeks between the last time we had sex and when she told me she was pregnant, so I have a feeling that she wasn't taking the pills during that time period.

 

[cdan]

Find him, take him into his garage, clamp his d!ck down to a table, give him a saw and set the garage on fire.

 

[Random Variable]

But anyways, I was holding up very well until today, when I heard a song on the radio that reminded me of her. I just fell apart.

 

[AGodspeed]

If your girlfriend of two years had sex with her ex-boyfriend and got pregnant?

1. If this is the whole story (meaning you're nearly 100% sure you yourself haven't done anything that would make her do such a thing beyond the information you give in this single sentence), then I would say that you should confront her (especially if you haven't talked to her since she revealed this information) and tell her that you don't want to be associated with her anymore or don't want to talk to her anymore.

2. Please make sure this isn't your child. The WORST thing you could do in this situation is break up on bad terms and find out years later that it's your baby. The thought of this personally makes me feel a little sick.

Besides making sure it's not your baby, I'd also try to leave on terms that weren't of the worst possible scenario. People in general should try to make the best of all situations, no matter how horrible they become.

 

[MacBaine]

<< Find him, take him into his garage, clamp his d!ck down to a table, give him a saw and set the garage on fire. >>



ROFLMAO! Damn! That's a sticky situation.......

 

[BeauJangles]

Vespasian: That sucks. I'm sorry to hear that. I think you are on the right track. Don't talk to her, don't think about her (or at least as little as possible) and try to move on. This is only if you are almost 100% sure the kid isn't yours. It sounds like it isn't, but is there any way to get tested? I would talk to her just enough to get tested and make sure it isn't yours.

 

[Random Variable]

Life sucks, and then you die.

 

[Random Variable]

a bump for the EDIT

 

[Random Variable]

another bump, in case someone cares

 

[OpalFrost98GT]

If it were me.....I think that I would completely seperate myself from her. Time is the only medicine for you at this point...and believe me it is GOOD medicine.
Hang in there bud!

 

[Looney]

You've been together for two years, don't expect to get over this in a couple of weeks... probably more likely a couple of months at the least.

Best thing to do is hang around with friends... you're probably feeling lonely and bored, so they'll help with that. Or you can try finding a rebound relationship to use as a crutch until you get over her.

 

[UberNeuman]

Kick her dog!

 

[MichaelD]

Bump for you, Vespasian. I really feel for you. This is very similar to what I went thru w/my son's mom. The last two months of our relationships were nothing but drunken booty calls (I'm not proud...trust me) and after I'd had my fill of her crap, I didn't see her for 7 weeks. Ring-ring goes the phone and I'm in hell. Still there. PM me if you need someone to talk to.

 

[Random Variable]

<< Bump for you, Vespasian. I really feel for you. This is very similar to what I went thru w/my son's mom. The last two months of our relationships were nothing but drunken booty calls (I'm not proud...trust me) and after I'd had my fill of her crap, I didn't see her for 7 weeks. Ring-ring goes the phone and I'm in hell. Still there. PM me if you need someone to talk to. >>


Thank you for the support. I just feel like such a fool for believing that she wouldn't do something like this to me.