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Joemonkey

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Originally posted by: JMapleton
Op, I'm not flaming or putting your down. But my honest opinion is that you should rearrange your finances so you can afford a better apartment in a better area to keep away from people like this.

Congratulations! you win at the intarwebs!

in all seriousness though, you're right, we would LOVE to do this but this "hey here's a huge monthly discount on rent so long as you don't break the 13mo lease" thing has us hesitant to leave. Lawyer fees may be MORE than the difference :/ so wtf are we to do? we don't want to move within the complex, too much hassle
 

JMapleton

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Originally posted by: Joemonkey
Originally posted by: JMapleton
Op, I'm not flaming or putting your down. But my honest opinion is that you should rearrange your finances so you can afford a better apartment in a better area to keep away from people like this.

Congratulations! you win at the intarwebs!

in all seriousness though, you're right, we would LOVE to do this but this "hey here's a huge monthly discount on rent so long as you don't break the 13mo lease" thing has us hesitant to leave. Lawyer fees may be MORE than the difference :/ so wtf are we to do? we don't want to move within the complex, too much hassle

Is the hassle to deal with people like this less than the hassle of moving?
 

Turin39789

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Originally posted by: Joemonkey
Originally posted by: JMapleton
Op, I'm not flaming or putting your down. But my honest opinion is that you should rearrange your finances so you can afford a better apartment in a better area to keep away from people like this.

Congratulations! you win at the intarwebs!

in all seriousness though, you're right, we would LOVE to do this but this "hey here's a huge monthly discount on rent so long as you don't break the 13mo lease" thing has us hesitant to leave. Lawyer fees may be MORE than the difference :/ so wtf are we to do? we don't want to move within the complex, too much hassle

Lulz an JMapleton, he's always been a bit of fail.


It's honestly not a bad part of town, close to stuff, but for some reason being separated right behind a large commercial area gets a lot of fucktards.
 

Joemonkey

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Originally posted by: Indolent
I'm not sure I understand the office workers. They both smell pot and can't do anything about it?

What about the people below these people? Do they hear the noise? Get them to call in some complaints also.

that's what i don't understand either, we told the cop that came to the door tonight that the office workers smelled it, but unless they "witnessed" them smoking it that it didn't matter... wtf does that mean? to "witness" it they have to be out in the parking lot listening to a bug in their apt that has them say "yes, i am now rolling illegal drugs into a joint to smoke now, and in case you didn't hear that i said ILLEGAL drugs!"

even though it is illegal, i don't give a shit i someone smokes weed, all day long every day, fine, do your thing... just don't force your exhalations and smoke into my residence. am i in any way liable for NOT reporting someone for smoking weed when it doesn't infringe upon my rights?
 
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Originally posted by: Joemonkey
Originally posted by: Indolent
I'm not sure I understand the office workers. They both smell pot and can't do anything about it?

What about the people below these people? Do they hear the noise? Get them to call in some complaints also.

that's what i don't understand either, we told the cop that came to the door tonight that the office workers smelled it, but unless they "witnessed" them smoking it that it didn't matter... wtf does that mean? to "witness" it they have to be out in the parking lot listening to a bug in their apt that has them say "yes, i am now rolling illegal drugs into a joint to smoke now, and in case you didn't hear that i said ILLEGAL drugs!"

even though it is illegal, i don't give a shit i someone smokes weed, all day long every day, fine, do your thing... just don't force your exhalations and smoke into my residence. am i in any way liable for NOT reporting someone for smoking weed when it doesn't infringe upon my rights?

They have to witness it? Smelling the smoke coming into your bathroom isn't witness enough to go give them a warning? It's not like your bathroom is fucking lighting up.
 

I Saw OJ

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I've been going through something similar with my downstairs neighbors. They have no concept of other people sharing walls with them. Its sort of been a noise war that is slowly escalating. I've been on the lookout for a pogo stick that I could use to jump around on when they are being loud.
 

Joemonkey

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Originally posted by: Brainonska511
Originally posted by: Joemonkey
Originally posted by: Indolent
I'm not sure I understand the office workers. They both smell pot and can't do anything about it?

What about the people below these people? Do they hear the noise? Get them to call in some complaints also.

that's what i don't understand either, we told the cop that came to the door tonight that the office workers smelled it, but unless they "witnessed" them smoking it that it didn't matter... wtf does that mean? to "witness" it they have to be out in the parking lot listening to a bug in their apt that has them say "yes, i am now rolling illegal drugs into a joint to smoke now, and in case you didn't hear that i said ILLEGAL drugs!"

even though it is illegal, i don't give a shit i someone smokes weed, all day long every day, fine, do your thing... just don't force your exhalations and smoke into my residence. am i in any way liable for NOT reporting someone for smoking weed when it doesn't infringe upon my rights?

They have to witness it? Smelling the smoke coming into your bathroom isn't witness enough to go give them a warning? It's not like your bathroom is fucking lighting up.

exactly. However, i'm sure there is some dumbass law written specifically to protect asshats and fuck over regular folks who report "illegal activity"
 

n yusef

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Originally posted by: Joemonkey
Originally posted by: I Saw OJ
Document each time you have to call the cops, each time there is pot smoke smell, each time you involve the management office, names, everything. Keep on them about the noise and pot smell. They would have to sue you to get their money which at that time you could show the court all the anguish you went through due to their inaction which forced you to move.

good point. when the cop showed up tonight and we complained about some things we decided to "let slide" due to apt. life he said "those are the kinds of things you should be calling about and documenting"

seriously though, do we have to be the fucking neighborhood busybody and report on EVERYTHING!? shit i'm sorry but i'm more of a live and let live person... their shit is loud? turn yours up loud enough that you don't hear it.

Hell, we have a VERY loud fan in our daughter's room to drown out things in case Luther (aka 300lb black dude downstairs, we heard 100lb white chick yelling at him about stealing her money the other day so we at least know his name) starts yelling while we're asleep

I empathize for you, but what do your neighbors' races and weights have to do with it?
 

JMapleton

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Originally posted by: Turin39789
Lulz an JMapleton, he's always been a bit of fail.

It's honestly not a bad part of town, close to stuff, but for some reason being separated right behind a large commercial area gets a lot of fucktards.

No I'm sorry, there is no fail.

When you live in apartments (as I do), you almost have to live in the nicest part of town in order to live next to people who won't cause trouble. Anywhere else there will be trouble.
 

Perknose

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Originally posted by: n yusef
I empathize for you, but what do your neighbors' races and weights have to do with it?

Hey, man, I think everyone here knows I am not racist in the least and truly loathe those that are (including and especially those that are and try to pretend they're not), but there does seem to be a distinct subset of interracial couples who consist of one white loser and one black loser, neither of whom could attract and keep a reasonable person from their own general communities, who somehow end up together.

For whatever reason, it's usually a white chick and a black dude, not vice-versa. And usually, for whatever reason, it's the chick who tends to be obese, so this couple does fall outside of that part of the stereotype.

Hey, there are plenty of same race, low-life couples, that's for sure, although I can't say I've ever experienced any asian ones personally. I think that we notice these mixed-race ones more because they are mixed-race, but I've been around some REAL doozies.

 

Newbian

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File a restraining order against them so they have to move to the first floor so you won't get bothered by them again except for when you hear them shout against the new 2nd floor residents. ;)
 

BoomerD

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Fuck it...take up tap dancing or clog dancing. :D

Make friends with a cop...invite him/her over for dinner...especially during the times when you normally have problems with "Luther."

Most likely, unless management opts to do something, the cops aren't gonna do much about the pot smoking. It's considered such a minor thing nowadays that I wouldn't expect them to even respond to a "my neighbors are smoking marijuana" complaint.

Of course...you could always invest a few bucks in a large container of narcotics...and plant it in Luther's car...and drop a dime...
"I think my neighbor is selling cocaine, heroin, extasy, etc."

PROFIT.
 

zinfamous

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Originally posted by: Joemonkey
Originally posted by: LtPage1
Sounds like you should move if you can. There are worse markets to be looking for a new apartment.

we would move in a HEARBEAT if we could get away w/o "breaking" the lease

In this instance, I'd say you can.

Hell, GF and I just had to do that a month ago b/c of ridiculous insane neighbor. Of course, ...a death threat was involved, so that made it pretty easy on the landlord...


seems to me there's enough hsitory and evidence, what with all the police calls, for reasonable cause to break the lease via the common stipulation "landlord unable to provide habitable living space."

that's it.
 

polarbear6

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Originally posted by: Joemonkey


so tonight, we're watching slumdog millionaire, which gets VERY loud at times,
u WERE WATCHING SLUM DOG MILLIONAIRE :eek: , PEOPLE PLEASE DONT WATCH THAT SHIT, life in india is not like that i feel hurt when ever some one watches that

its a shit hole movie made for u westerners .......... i still didnt get it, WHY DID INDIAN GOVT ALLOWED IT TO BE SHOWN IN CINEMA THEATERS ..............
to hell with dan boyle

 

Joemonkey

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Originally posted by: silverpig
Set alarm clock for 4:30 am. Turn volume way up. Leave for the weekend.

you know, sadly enough, their alarm clock is loud enough that we can hear it go off some mornings :(

After sleeping on this issue, I think we are just going to have to find some way to break the lease. What they are doing HAS to be some form of harassment and if the apt complex wants to play any "break the lease penalty" card then I think we'll get an attorney involved.

I would rather move away than get them evicted simply out of fear for our own safety. I'd rather just leave them be in their own little world than let them form some sort of grudge against us for "getting them kicked out" and 5 months later decide they still know where we live and feel like taking out vengeance on us

and n yusef, Perknose hit it on the head. Sometimes stereotypes play themselves out...
 

sao123

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Originally posted by: Joemonkey
I'll try to put in a long story and cliffs, but who knows what will happen. Just a little background to let someone play the race card if they feel like it, I'll let you know my wife and 3yo daughter and I are white and the downstairs neighbors are a 300lb black man, 100lb white woman, and 2 mixed kids probably 1yo and 3yo

we have been here since Sep 2008, who knows how long they have been here. They live on the 2nd floor, us on the 3rd.

The downstairs neighbors constantly fight, yell, slam doors, etc., F-word easily understandable through the floor to the point where we turn up the TV/stereo or tell our daughter it is singing and dancing time to prevent our daughter from coming up to us and asking "daddy/mommy what does f*ck mean?"

We never called in a noise complaint against them due to the fact we knew it was apartment life, get over it, oh well. One day in October while the wife and I are watching Dexter on Showtime (in case you don't know, very little loudness and/or music, mostly dialog) loud enough that we can simply hear the talking OK, we hear their door slam, running up steps, and a loud knock.

Wife answers the door, it's the female from downstairs asking if we were listening to music loudly. We asked her if she even heard anything from outside the door, she said no, we said "uh, well ok then, we'll still turn it down."

Happens again sometime in December, still said they didn't hear anything outside the door, no big deal, we told her we'd turn it down.

*pay attention! admission of SOME guilt!* new years eve we BLARE aud lang syne when midnight hits, chick comes up, we apologize, oh well ;)

2009 rolls around, we start getting the distinct smell of weed smoking in our kitchen and bathroom. Back in 2008 we smelled it as they smoked it on their deck, but we just closed our deck sliding glass door and looked at each other and said "meh, live and let live." However, in this instance, we call the apt office, they tell us to call the cops. We honestly don't care about pot smokers smoking pot, nor do we want to call the cops on them, but we don't want our 3yo daughter smelling/inhaling it asking us questions about it, not to mention that whole "you have rights until they infringe upon your rights" thing in the constitution

Their pattern seems to be "take the kids to daycare/school/grandma's/whatever then go home and toke up" so one day while I'm at work my wife finally gives in and calls the cops. The cop on the phone hears my daughter say "Mommy what's that smell?" and says she'll take a personal interest, sends out officers, they don't open the door, and oh well

One day my wife and daughter go out of town and I watch Iron Man on blu-ray, start the movie at like 7:30pm, and apparently downstairs neighbors call the cops on me for having it too loud. I was constantly upping and downing the volume to simply "hearable" levels to make sure I didn't piss off the asshats downstairs, yet they call the cops on me. About 8:30pm a cop comes to the door, i answer, he says they've received a noise complaint. I ask if he even heard anything outside the door, he says no. I tell the cop that it was probably retaliation for our call, he says "if you're telling the truth, that sounds about right" and leaves.

A few more weeks go by and we hear via our floor (literally) loud enough that dude had cheated on chick, 2 cop cars our outside, they tell him to leave and not come back, he leaves, 20 mins after the cops are gone, he's back. Many more times over the next few weeks this EXACT same thing happens, multiple cop cars outside our stairwell, multiple cops in and out of their apt, etc.

A few weeks later the guy from downstairs comes up for the first time, says "you guys playing something with a lot of bass?" and i say "uh, no... in fact our stuff is paused..." he says "hmm i still hear it" which makes me think "ok well our shit is PAUSED and you're still hearing shit?!?!"

We do have four big wooden speakers from the 70's sitting on the floor, so we thought we would try to be nice and go out and buy four $8 planter holders on wheels to get them off the floor completely just in case it really IS somewhat loud/bass-y down there. We still watch TV and movies at the same volume, no complaints since we bought them, so maybe it was "loud" down there? yeah i doubt it, they probably were just too high to complain...

The pot smell continues, and both our bathrooms constantly smell like cigarette smoke, so my wife calls the apt. complex to have their courtesy officers check on it to OUR apt, not theirs. courtesy officers are busy so my wife asks 2 of the office workers to come to the apt, both say "oh yeah that's pot" and suggest we call the cops. Cops come, downstairs neighbors don't answer the door (neither would I if i was smoking up!) and nothing happens.

i start looking through my lease and see that

Resident, any member of Resident's household, Resident guest or other person under Resident's control, shall not:

i: engage in criminal activity, including drug-related criminal activity, in or near the apartment community. "Drug related criminal activity" means the illegal manufacture, sale, distribution, use, or possession with intent to manufacture, sell, distribute, or use a controlled substance (as defined in section 802 of Title 21 of the United States Code);

ii: Engage in an act intended to facilitate criminal activity, including a Drug-related criminal activity, in or near the Apartment Community

<snip>

VIOLATION OF ANY ONE (1) OF THE ABOVE PROVISIONS SHALL BE CONSIDERED AN EVENT OF DEFAULT HEREUNDER AND GROUNDS FOR IMMEDIATE TERMINATION OF THIS LEASE

so tonight, we're watching slumdog millionaire, which gets VERY loud at times, but i'm still on remote duty and am constantly upping and downing the volume so it isn't too loud. About 1.5 hours into the movie a cop shows up at our door with a noise complaint! chick from downstairs comes out and yells up "about time you got here! we called 2 and a half hours ago!" and he says "ma'am I will talk to you in a moment!" and the cop and my wife both hear the guy say something about "that bitch upstairs"

now wait... 2.5 hours ago? 1.5 hours into the movie? and they said it sounded like people were "jumping around" up here? 2.5 hours ago we were all sitting quietly in the dark and ANYONE with a kid knows that at bedtime there is NO jumping around and simply quiet time

15 mins after the cop left we heard 300lb dude outside in the parking lot yelling shit, driving off, coming back, yelling more shit, then out on their deck yelling about "stupid bitch and i hope you heard that" and who knows what else! We just sit up here looking at each other wondering what kind of person seriously thinks that will get something done...

so..

Cliffs:
shitty ass downstairs neighbors
illegal activity
cops don't care
we are willing to move but don't want to pay penalties


Reason #83962 to buy your own house.
 

Legendary

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I love smoking pot but those people are doing it all wrong. You're supposed to fucking relax.
If I were you, I'd let the cops into your house when you can smell the smoke. Have your daughter say she's feeling a little light headed, but hungry, at roughly the same time. Then start talking about filing charges of child endangerment.

Ugh I hate the concept of narcing but your story really made me mad.
 

Joemonkey

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Originally posted by: sao123
Reason #83962 to buy your own house.

we do own a house! We moved out of it because I got a job 1.5 hours away and only had 2 weeks to snag a place to live. We filed bankruptcy a few years ago, so how likely would it have been for us to find a house we like and close on it in < 2 weeks while still having the mortgage to our other house?

hindsight is always 20/20, we should have looked for a house to rent instead of an apartment, but we didn't. How is your comment helpful?

And Legendary, I agree, I don't want to be a narc, nor do I give a shit about them (or anyone) smoking pot, but the fact remains that it is currently ILLEGAL and they need to keep it the hell away from us...

I also just received a text from my wife that the female got out on her deck while my wife was putting our daughter in the car and simply stood out there and stared at them...
 

sao123

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Originally posted by: Joemonkey
Originally posted by: sao123
Reason #83962 to buy your own house.

we do own a house! We moved out of it because I got a job 1.5 hours away and only had 2 weeks to snag a place to live. We filed bankruptcy a few years ago, so how likely would it have been for us to find a house we like and close on it in < 2 weeks while still having the mortgage to our other house?

hindsight is always 20/20, we should have looked for a house to rent instead of an apartment, but we didn't. How is your comment helpful?

And Legendary, I agree, I don't want to be a narc, nor do I give a shit about them (or anyone) smoking pot, but the fact remains that it is currently ILLEGAL and they need to keep it the hell away from us...

I also just received a text from my wife that the female got out on her deck while my wife was putting our daughter in the car and simply stood out there and stared at them...

its better to rent a hotel room and get free room service for a month, than to rent a place and have bad neightbors for a year.
 

Red Dawn

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Fuck it move and pay the penalty if you have too, it's not worth the grief. Also find a place on the first floor.
 

AlienCraft

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Congratulations, the management has determined that you are not as low a class as they will accept, and as such, you get to move, since the management will not enforce the terms of their lease agreement, to wit: the portion referenced.
Simply state that the reason you're breaking your lease is their failure to enforce their regulation re: the weed smoking and the subsequent habitability and safety of your unit in close proximity to the unit the management allows to be used for weed smoking.
Send that in a Certified letter, after you've found a new place, before you pay the next months rent, and DO NOT expect your security deposit back. Let them eat that for last months rent.
Good Luck