What was your first date like?

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Mnementh

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Jul 16, 2003
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/me tries desperately to remember that far back (we're talking the dark ages here ie the mid 80's)

Bah I have vague recollections of the girl (I remember her name was Theresa) and I know it was a meal but that's as much as I can recall...

Mnementh
 

Zugzwang152

Lifer
Oct 30, 2001
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cuddling in the bed of my old pickup truck watching the sunrise from a beautiful Hawaii beach. Beat this, I dare you.
 

Fenixgoon

Lifer
Jun 30, 2003
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watched the philadelphia eagles' NFC(?) championship game, then went to my indoor lacrosse game. not much of a first date, as we weren't officially dating yet. but we're still together and happy :D
 

bobbybe01

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May 30, 2004
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cuddling in the bed of my old pickup truck watching the sunrise from a beautiful Hawaii beach. Beat this, I dare you
Was she alive? How old was she? Was she crying or did she cry "Rape" afterwards? Just kididing. I can't beat that, sir.
 

Yossarian

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Dec 26, 2000
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Originally posted by: Curly
It was a beautiful experience. We went to the prom, I was a freshman and she was senior. Everyone was staring at us. We danced to fast and slow dances. We really connected as if we knew each other for years. Then our mom came and picked my sister and I up.

:Q
 

FuZoR

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Sep 22, 2001
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it was 1999... we met at a mutual location... neither of us had cars. 14-15 ( I rode the subway back home with her :) ) All I kept thinking was im gonna screw this up... and i did several times... fumbling words etc. It was a great learning expierence... went out several more times but sadly it never worked out.
 

Eli

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Oct 9, 1999
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Well, it wasn't really a date.. heh.

I had met someone online, through the Yahoo motorized scooter group. Just a friend, we would spend hours just talking about anything and everything, well into the night.

She had moved down here from Washington to go to school about 2 years prior. She has 4 kids, 16f, 14m, 12f and 11m(At the time I met her). The 2 boys lived down here in Oregon with her, and the 2 girls lived up in Washington with their dad.

I had known her for about a year, we were pretty good friends, would get together and have drinks with her boyfriend every once in a while.

One day, her kids got online while we were chatting, and we all began chatting. I guess I kinda hit it off with her oldest, even though I was 20 and she was 16. ;) It was approaching Thanksgiving, and her girls were going to come down and visit for a few days. I didn't know this, but I guess Crystal had asked her mom to bring me up when she went to pick them up.

She went up to see her kids about twice a month, and she had always been wanting me to come and see the scenery up there, since she knew I was into camping and the woods and all that. So that's the guise that she invited me under, I guess. LOL..

So, I agreed.. I went up there with her to pick them up. I wasn't even thinking about the possibility of hooking up with her oldest daughter at the time, since she was so young, although I was certainly open to the possibility. :D But I didn't have any expectations.

It was all pretty normal. We left to come back to Portland, and of course Crystal and I ended up sitting in the back seat together. This was actually planned beforehand, since Crystal's mom wanted to visit with her youngest daughter.

The ride home was pretty normal, but it was when I first noticed.. it. Not really sure how to explain it. It's just an attraction, you both know that you like eachother, or something. I dunno, it's very bizzare.. you'll know it when you feel it. ;)

Anyway.. we got home and broke out the drinks. I wasn't sure if this would be a good thing or not, since it .. loosens your inhibitions up a little, but apparently it wasn't bad at all. We stayed up quite late just listening to music in her moms bedroom.

She finally got tired and layed down in the wee hours of the morning. I guess you could say this is when I made the first move. ;) I just simply gave her a very gentle neck massage.

She fell right asleep, and her mom though it was cute. ;) lol.. good times.

Somehow we managed to migrate out to the couches in the living room; seperate ones of course.

I don't really remember much from when we woke up the next morning. I don't remember waking up at all. The first thing I remember that morning is her sitting next to me, watching TV.

My arm ended up around her, to which she didn't seem to object - so I stepped it up a bit. Caressing her face with my hands.. At first, I was getting nervous, because I didn't know if she liked it or not. But then I noticed that every once in a while she would close her eyes and nuzzle her face into my hand, which I thought was really sweet.

I'm not sure how long that went on, but eventually I pulled her head around to face mine. She knew what was comming; the look on her face was pure anticipation. No breathing, nothing.

When we kissed eachother that first time, I don't think our lips parted for the next hour and a half. LOL! It was truely magical. :)

That was 3 years ago, and we're just as much in love as we were then. I never thought I would meet someone like her.

Life is weird.

:p
 

911paramedic

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Jan 7, 2002
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Hehehe. My step-brother and I went on a double date with two girls from our school. (7th or 8th grade, don't remember)

We filled a jar with various parts of booze from the old mans liquor cabinet and headed out to pick up the girls, on foot of course. We then all walked about a mile to the movie theater and proceeded to drink from the pickle jar of nastiness, and got pretty drunk. My date started to get sick (my guess is the booze caused it ;) ) and had to call her mom to pick her and her friend up from the movies. My step-brother and I wobbled home after the movie was over. Man did we get in trouble when the girls mom called our parents.

Fast forward 25 years and that's still my idea of a great date, drinking mixed up booze out of a pickle jar at the movies. (j/k...or am I?)
 

RegularK

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Apr 5, 2004
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First and only: Went to the Dallas World Aquarium, talked and then went to eat.

Cheers,
KiM
 

Ameesh

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Apr 3, 2001
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Originally posted by: Eli
Well, it wasn't really a date.. heh.

I had met someone online, through the Yahoo motorized scooter group. Just a friend, we would spend hours just talking about anything and everything, well into the night.

She had moved down here from Washington to go to school about 2 years prior. She has 4 kids, 16f, 14m, 12f and 11m(At the time I met her). The 2 boys lived down here in Oregon with her, and the 2 girls lived up in Washington with their dad.

I had known her for about a year, we were pretty good friends, would get together and have drinks with her boyfriend every once in a while.

One day, her kids got online while we were chatting, and we all began chatting. I guess I kinda hit it off with her oldest, even though I was 20 and she was 16. ;) It was approaching Thanksgiving, and her girls were going to come down and visit for a few days. I didn't know this, but I guess Crystal had asked her mom to bring me up when she went to pick them up.

She went up to see her kids about twice a month, and she had always been wanting me to come and see the scenery up there, since she knew I was into camping and the woods and all that. So that's the guise that she invited me under, I guess. LOL..

So, I agreed.. I went up there with her to pick them up. I wasn't even thinking about the possibility of hooking up with her oldest daughter at the time, since she was so young, although I was certainly open to the possibility. :D But I didn't have any expectations.

It was all pretty normal. We left to come back to Portland, and of course Crystal and I ended up sitting in the back seat together. This was actually planned beforehand, since Crystal's mom wanted to visit with her youngest daughter.

The ride home was pretty normal, but it was when I first noticed.. it. Not really sure how to explain it. It's just an attraction, you both know that you like eachother, or something. I dunno, it's very bizzare.. you'll know it when you feel it. ;)

Anyway.. we got home and broke out the drinks. I wasn't sure if this would be a good thing or not, since it .. loosens your inhibitions up a little, but apparently it wasn't bad at all. We stayed up quite late just listening to music in her moms bedroom.

She finally got tired and layed down in the wee hours of the morning. I guess you could say this is when I made the first move. ;) I just simply gave her a very gentle neck massage.

She fell right asleep, and her mom though it was cute. ;) lol.. good times.

Somehow we managed to migrate out to the couches in the living room; seperate ones of course.

I don't really remember much from when we woke up the next morning. I don't remember waking up at all. The first thing I remember that morning is her sitting next to me, watching TV.

My arm ended up around her, to which she didn't seem to object - so I stepped it up a bit. Caressing her face with my hands.. At first, I was getting nervous, because I didn't know if she liked it or not. But then I noticed that every once in a while she would close her eyes and nuzzle her face into my hand, which I thought was really sweet.

I'm not sure how long that went on, but eventually I pulled her head around to face mine. She knew what was comming; the look on her face was pure anticipation. No breathing, nothing.

When we kissed eachother that first time, I don't think our lips parted for the next hour and a half. LOL! It was truely magical. :)

That was 3 years ago, and we're just as much in love as we were then. I never thought I would meet someone like her.

Life is weird.

:p



umm you a 20 year old, got a 16 year old drunk and made out with her?


......


L
 

palle33

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Nov 4, 2003
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Originally posted by: yllus
My story:

I was pretty nervous. Had just gotten my driver's licence but I didn't tell her that, as she was a year older and I didn't want to harp on that differences that implied. She looked hot in a skirt, I had dressed fairly casual. We watched a movie. She put her head on my shoulder. We had bubble tea afterwards. I was too chickensh!t to make a move throughout. Eventually, she quit trying to nudge me into taking a first step and our love went unrequited. We ceased being even just friends after that, and she went on to date a total moron who did however look pretty good. Ah, young love! Sure don't miss that sh*t! :D

What's your story?
I never had a first date...but I was drunk and in bed it sucked.....bad so called first date,,,,
 

erub

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Jun 21, 2000
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besides asking girls to school dances and the like (which I didnt really consider a date) - i dont remember my first date exactly, except that it was after senior year in HS..i know the girl and what happend afterwards (i got a kiss, yipeee) - but what we did, who knows..probably dinner and a movie..
 

eakers

Lifer
Aug 14, 2000
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i had a bf for like a week in grade 10 and we went to see the empire strikes back special edition in the theatres.

no big story.
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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we had been friends for a while so it's not like it was awkward. We went to see A Perfect Murder. ;)
 

nageov3t

Lifer
Feb 18, 2004
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pretty normal. we met at a party, talked on the phone for a few weeks after the original meet, and I asked her out.

for our first date, we went to a show -- bunch of local bands, one of which was my friend's band. after the concert, a bunch of us (me + her + my friend and his band) went to a 24-hour diner and hung out there for a couple hours.