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What to Do???

first of all, asking people here on life help...not such a good idea.

and I have no idea what to tell you. you aren't working and you just relax all day...?
 
Sounds like you burned out! Everytime I get close to doing that, we pack up and head to Florida for a few weeks.
 
Originally posted by: MoPHo
first of all, asking people here on life help...not such a good idea.
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QFT

My uncle had a great carpenter job, he was making 6 digit salary and then he quit like you did. Well now hes been changing jobs like every year>_< hes not doing very well:

I suggest you rethink why you don't like your job🙂
wanna list some reasons?
 
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
Originally posted by: CraKaJaX
become a cop, you'll never be bored again.
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LOL. That is one thing I've seriously considered. I'll do some research on that. Thanks!
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My dad, both of my uncles, and one of my grandfathers (retired) were all in the police dept. I've heard some f*cked up stories, but then again... they are never boring 🙂
This is a book written by an officer my grandpa worked with, retired also. Very good book of stories from upstate NY, where I grew up... so that makes it more interesting if you know the area 😛
 
before you make a rash decision....step back take a few days and really think about where you are and what you want to do, and where you want to be in the future, an weigh that against the potential consequences of making a rash decision


so you are in a funk now..but your employed and have a house...its better than being in a funk 3 months down the road with no job prospects and no house


you got lucky once walking off of your other job..dont push your luck...

it seems to me though you feel you have accomplished what you set out to do(becoming manager, owning a house) and your not sure what else there is to do...maybe you need to set you goals to get yourself motivated.
 
Sounds like there are some more issues there than just work. If you plain don't feel like meeting people, EVER, then I think you need to work on that. Don't you meet tons of ladies when you take your dogs to off-leash areas? I know if I was ever single again, that is one way I'd meet women.
 
Originally posted by: BooGiMaN
before you make a rash decision....step back take a few days and really think about where you are and what you want to do, and where you want to be in the future, an weigh that against the potential consequences of making a rash decision


so you are in a funk now..but your employed and have a house...its better than being in a funk 3 months down the road with no job prospects and no house


you got lucky once walking off of your other job..dont push your luck...

it seems to me though you feel you have accomplished what you set out to do(becoming manager, owning a house) and your not sure what else there is to do...maybe you need to set you goals to get yourself motivated.
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I agree for the most part. What you're thinking of doing for the second time may not turn out as well as the first. Yeah you don't like your situation right now, but are you prepared to adjust to a lifestyle change which could possibly be worse? Im sure you've thought about starting a family, so why not that? As for going back to school to be a vet, my mom is pushing 50+ and going to school so don't let age stop you.
 
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
Originally posted by: Patt
Sounds like there are some more issues there than just work. If you plain don't feel like meeting people, EVER, then I think you need to work on that. Don't you meet tons of ladies when you take your dogs to off-leash areas? I know if I was ever single again, that is one way I'd meet women.
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There's definitely more issues than just work.
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That's a step in the right direction.
When I was getting my ass screwed on straight I was told to make absolutely no major decisions for one year.
That was assuming I was sincere about getting help in getting my wires uncrossed.
It was excellent advice and I would have made some very rash decisions.
It makes sense now, from the standpoint that I wasn't very well qualified to make important decisions about my life as indicated by the fact that I needed help.
Kind of a catch 22.
It worked out very well and I'm a.) glad I took the advice b.) lucky someone offered it.

Good Luck in whatever you decide!!!
 
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