What to do with this girl.?..?.

[5489]

ok, there's this girl i like. i guess i kinda did things for her to think i liked her. ok, i was thinking about giving her an anonymous gift. but if she knows i like her, then she would look at the gift and assume its me rite? so what should i do? give a gift or no?

 

[VirusDub]

Give her a gift, just don't do it anonymously. That's kinda creepy.

 

[ander]

Yeah, balls out.

 

[arigato]

<< Give her a gift, just don't do it anonymously. That's kinda creepy. >>



Some girls might like that kind of thing but most would probably think it is a stalker, plus you want her to know that you like her right?

 

[5489]

ok, what if i already gave her a card and a cd that she asked for yesterday at skool?

 

[5489]

i dont know if i want her to know i like her

 

[perry]

One of my friends wanted to give this girl flowers, but didn't have the stones to do it. So he got another one of my buddies to act as a flower delivery guy and deliver the flowers to her dorm. I suppose the fool coulda just had FTD deliver them, but he wanted to know the girl's reaction when she got the flowers.

 

[Antoneo]

Ok, if you like her and you would like to hook up with her, you have to let her know that you do. None of that anonymous stuff because you should not assume any assumptions. Give the gift to her in person, wait a few days after Christmas, ask out.

 

[VirusDub]

If you don't want her to know you like her, just get her a normal gift, nothing special. If you do want her to know, get her flowers or something that she really likes.

 

[AdamDuritz99]

<< you know you want her to know that you like her, you're just scared that she won't like you. simple solution: commit suicide.

better solution: give her the gift directly. >>



LOL
great advice!

simple solution to life's toughest problems: suicide


peace
sean

 

[Kadarin]

Give her the gift, and let her know you like her, and ask her out. Do all of this in a nice way, and try to avoid acting like a geek about it. If she likes you, she'll probably want to get to know you better. If she rejects you, there's not a whole lot you can do about it except find someone else.

You should definitely go for it, because life is too short to waste on recrimination. Besides, you never know, you guys could hook up...

Good luck, and keep us posted!

-j

 

[5489]

the thing is, i think she already knows,

 

[5489]

o, thanx for the advice astaroth...................


hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

 

[notfred]

Can you expalin why you dont want her to know you like her? Does she have a really big boyfriend or something, or are you really that scared of girls?

 

[Antoneo]

<< the thing is, i think she already knows, >>


That is what you think. Never assume anything with girls. She might just think that you are a friend and the gift came from someone else. Make sure she knows its you.

 

[5489]

well, she told my friend "i think he likes me" so...that hints that she knows?

 

[tjwenger]

Not exactly Players In Here, are we?

 

[StUdMaN]

quit trying to do things for her and do things for yourself
be selfish to the extreme in anyway and everyway-don't just care for only you be spitefull girls love that and thats what gets results

 

[thomsbrain]

<< i dont know if i want her to know i like her >>



if she doesn't know, you obviously aren't getting anywhere

 

[Kadarin]

You should just be open and honest, and not playing games. She'll see this, and respect you even if she decides you're not the one for her. Yes, you could get rejected, but you will never know unless you try (and if you do, it's not the end of the world even if it feels like it..)

-j

 

[KennyTheGreat]

i'm kinda in the same situation

 

[5489]

ok, lets say she knows that i like her. should i tell her that i do? even though she knows?

 

[Ameesh]

i think you should put a huge collage of pictures of her together and write in your own blood "I LUV U VERY MUCH"

 

[winston9t4]

What does she think of you?

I had a friend in your situation. He ended up telling her, but she just wanted to be friends. I think he would have regretted not taking the chance and asking her though. Better to have tried, than to have wondered what if...

 

[RSI]

Just tell her.

-RSI