What to do when a guy touches you?

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ajpa123

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When he puts his arm around you, don't you automatically get the urge to move closer to him.. That should give him a clear signal of what you want.

When he puts his hand on your leg, is it a bare leg, or are u a jeans gurl? Cuz if it's bare legged, and you and he have no electricity.. somethin's wrong!
 

iwearnosox

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Ask him what's got two thumbs and loves diamonds, then point them towards yourself and say "this girrrllll..."
 

spidey07

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heh - if he doesn't pick up on the "I'm rubbing the inside of your leg now do something you idiot" move then all hope is lost and you need to find a man.

You're gonna have to be direct with this one.
:beer:
 

jagec

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Originally posted by: wiredspider
Just figured this would be the place to ask, even though some of you guys have never had a g/f (j/k :p). Anyhow, I'm just wondering what is the ideal thing to do in these situations

"Ideal"? Depends, do you want to escalate your relationship? In that case, respond...when he puts your arm around you, lean in close and lay your head on his shoulder or something...
 

welst10

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It's simple on your part. Girl doesnt have to make any move. Wait for him to make a move then give signs that you like it. it's that simple
 

wiredspider

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Well this got more attention that I thought it would, of course less than 50% of the post have anything to do with my original question. Only noted I was a girl so I wouldn't get responses where they didn't read my entire post and reply with like I would knock the homo out... We have kissed and other things before, but I guess neither one of us has been pushing things lately (I finally got a car, so my parents expect me to be home at night...).

Edit: for ajpa123, mostly jeans or some other article of long legged clothing.
 

Hubris

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Originally posted by: ThisIsMatt
Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
I tall depends on wether or not your father will kill him or not.
<announcer>Translator on isle 5, translator on isle 5</announcer>

I prefer Isle 4, myself. :roll: It's "aisle", Sparky.

"Well? It's not gonna suck itself" is still one of the funniest lines ever.
 

welst10

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Originally posted by: wiredspider
Well this got more attention that I thought it would, of course less than 50% of the post have anything to do with my original question. Only noted I was a girl so I wouldn't get responses where they didn't read my entire post and reply with like I would knock the homo out... We have kissed and other things before, but I guess either one of us has been pushing things lately...

you mean neither?
 

ironcrotch

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wiredspider.. this reminds me of when my gf and i started dating.. and its been nearly 3 years so far. and it started out just like that. we hung out, maybe the occassional hand hold. i really liked my gf so i took the initiative to make the first 'move.' in all honesty just let things go with the flow, i mean if he puts his arm around you then great, do watever feels natural. if u hug at the end of the night, and u want to give him a peck on the check maybe just hug him a lil longer than usual maybe he'll get a clue. just dont be scripted, hehe makes things awkward.
 

Klixxer

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I don't think we can tell you anything you don't already know, you are shy of him, obviously, but if you want him, grab him, throw him down and ravish him wildly.

Or just tell him and kiss him.
 

Ready

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Dang he puts his hand around u and u didn't lean against him?
If a girl don't reacts when I put my arm around her that would just about kill it for me
 

ThisIsMatt

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Originally posted by: Hubris
Originally posted by: ThisIsMatt
Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
I tall depends on wether or not your father will kill him or not.
<announcer>Translator on isle 5, translator on isle 5</announcer>

I prefer Isle 4, myself. :roll: It's "aisle", Sparky.

"Well? It's not gonna suck itself" is still one of the funniest lines ever.
Shoot! Your years of bag boy experience at the local five n dime totally schooled me.
 

Yossarian

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Originally posted by: phreakah
Originally posted by: anxi80
Originally posted by: Kalvin00
LMAO...I still crack up when I think about 'stick out your butt' :laugh:
lol, i crack up at that one also.

lmao me too :D


how about when he puts his arm around you you lean more in towards him and let him hold you closer?

my greatest post EVAR!!! ;)