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What to do..girl at work, going to be an odd momment.

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Originally posted by: RichardE
Originally posted by: SZLiao214
Was the boyfriend relatively new, as well as young?

Yeah, don't think it matters though.

The boyfriend doesn't matter? That's really effed up if you are going to continue having sex with a girl, knowing that she has a boyfriend in the mix. Somehow, I'm not surprised by humanity anymore.
 
Originally posted by: SociallyChallenged
Originally posted by: RichardE
Originally posted by: SZLiao214
Was the boyfriend relatively new, as well as young?

Yeah, don't think it matters though.

The boyfriend doesn't matter? That's really effed up if you are going to continue having sex with a girl, knowing that she has a boyfriend in the mix. Somehow, I'm not surprised by humanity anymore.

😕
 
Originally posted by: RichardE
Originally posted by: SociallyChallenged
Originally posted by: RichardE
Originally posted by: SZLiao214
Was the boyfriend relatively new, as well as young?

Yeah, don't think it matters though.

The boyfriend doesn't matter? That's really effed up if you are going to continue having sex with a girl, knowing that she has a boyfriend in the mix. Somehow, I'm not surprised by humanity anymore.

😕

😕
 
Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: RichardE
Originally posted by: SociallyChallenged
Originally posted by: RichardE
Originally posted by: SZLiao214
Was the boyfriend relatively new, as well as young?

Yeah, don't think it matters though.

The boyfriend doesn't matter? That's really effed up if you are going to continue having sex with a girl, knowing that she has a boyfriend in the mix. Somehow, I'm not surprised by humanity anymore.

😕

😕

Not using that quote as a reference for my comment, noobs! 😛
 
Originally posted by: SociallyChallenged
Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: RichardE
Originally posted by: SociallyChallenged
Originally posted by: RichardE
Originally posted by: SZLiao214
Was the boyfriend relatively new, as well as young?

Yeah, don't think it matters though.

The boyfriend doesn't matter? That's really effed up if you are going to continue having sex with a girl, knowing that she has a boyfriend in the mix. Somehow, I'm not surprised by humanity anymore.

😕

😕

Not using that quote as a reference for my comment, noobs! 😛

😛
 
Just remember this, if you keep having sex with this girl while she has a bf, you have no leg to stand on when the same thing happens to you. Karma comes around man, and no one wants to give karma a reason to make them its bitch.
 
Originally posted by: BigJ
Be careful how you play it. If you make her feel uncomfortable, she can go to HR and file a sexual harassment claim.

QFT OP. You almost never mix business with pleasure. Most people know this.
You could have screwed yourself really bad.
 
Karma is a bitch, and you are certainly fscking with it right now. Knowingly sleeping with a girl who already has a BF, especially one you work with, is such a bad idea on so many levels. Trust me, this will most likely not end well for you, and I hope it doesn't.

How would you feel if you were the bf, and your gf was cheating on you with some other guy who knew she was in a relationship?
 
Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
Karma is a bitch, and you are certainly fscking with it right now. Knowingly sleeping with a girl who already has a BF, especially one you work with, is such a bad idea on so many levels. Trust me, this will most likely not end well for you, and I hope it doesn't.

How would you feel if you were the bf, and your gf was cheating on you with some other guy who knew she was in a relationship?

You're such a tard. He didn't rape anyone; she willingly slept with him. If my GF screwed some other guy and he didn't know me, it's not his fault, it's HER FAULT.

 
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: essasin
Originally posted by: BigJ
Be careful how you play it. If you make her feel uncomfortable, she can go to HR and file a sexual harassment claim.

But, it happend outside of work..can she still file?

Absolutely.

Yeah, someone at work told me the boundry extends outside of work.. i was like WTF, who made this crappie laws up
 
Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
Karma is a bitch, and you are certainly fscking with it right now. Knowingly sleeping with a girl who already has a BF, especially one you work with, is such a bad idea on so many levels. Trust me, this will most likely not end well for you, and I hope it doesn't.

How would you feel if you were the bf, and your gf was cheating on you with some other guy who knew she was in a relationship?

You're such a tard. He didn't rape anyone; she willingly slept with him. If my GF screwed some other guy and he didn't know me, it's not his fault, it's HER FAULT.
Um, wow... Yes it is his fault as well. Don't people have morals anymore?
 
Originally posted by: flawlssdistortn
Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
Karma is a bitch, and you are certainly fscking with it right now. Knowingly sleeping with a girl who already has a BF, especially one you work with, is such a bad idea on so many levels. Trust me, this will most likely not end well for you, and I hope it doesn't.

How would you feel if you were the bf, and your gf was cheating on you with some other guy who knew she was in a relationship?

You're such a tard. He didn't rape anyone; she willingly slept with him. If my GF screwed some other guy and he didn't know me, it's not his fault, it's HER FAULT.
Um, wow... Yes it is his fault as well. Don't people have morals anymore?

How is it his fault? She's not married... and more importantly he didnt know she had a boyfriend...

Nope sorry you're wrong... the only immoral party here is the cheating girlfriend.

-Max
 
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: flawlssdistortn
Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
Karma is a bitch, and you are certainly fscking with it right now. Knowingly sleeping with a girl who already has a BF, especially one you work with, is such a bad idea on so many levels. Trust me, this will most likely not end well for you, and I hope it doesn't.

How would you feel if you were the bf, and your gf was cheating on you with some other guy who knew she was in a relationship?

You're such a tard. He didn't rape anyone; she willingly slept with him. If my GF screwed some other guy and he didn't know me, it's not his fault, it's HER FAULT.
Um, wow... Yes it is his fault as well. Don't people have morals anymore?

How is it his fault? She's not married... and more importantly he didnt know she had a boyfriend...

Nope sorry you're wrong... the only immoral party here is the cheating girlfriend.

-Max
Yes, the OP didn't know until after that she had a bf, but I was disagreeing with Sudheer that a guy is excused for sleeping with a girl who has a bf, if he is aware of it at the time.
 
Originally posted by: flawlssdistortn
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: flawlssdistortn
Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
Karma is a bitch, and you are certainly fscking with it right now. Knowingly sleeping with a girl who already has a BF, especially one you work with, is such a bad idea on so many levels. Trust me, this will most likely not end well for you, and I hope it doesn't.

How would you feel if you were the bf, and your gf was cheating on you with some other guy who knew she was in a relationship?

You're such a tard. He didn't rape anyone; she willingly slept with him. If my GF screwed some other guy and he didn't know me, it's not his fault, it's HER FAULT.
Um, wow... Yes it is his fault as well. Don't people have morals anymore?

How is it his fault? She's not married... and more importantly he didnt know she had a boyfriend...

Nope sorry you're wrong... the only immoral party here is the cheating girlfriend.

-Max
Yes, the OP didn't know until after that she had a bf, but I was disagreeing with Sudheer that a guy is excused for sleeping with a girl who has a bf, if he is aware of it at the time.

I dunno... I think it all depends on who the bf is... if you are friends with the bf... then yes it is immoral. But if the BF is a stranger... I don't see where you owe the bf anything.
 
Also keep in mind, the girl doesn't necessarily have to report it to HR to become a sexual harassment issue. Some other office worker might notice that something happened (or continues to happen) and tell HR. The workplace is a very very bad place in recent times to have a romance (or fling).
 
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