- Jun 10, 2005
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Ok, so here's the deal:
I met this girl about three weeks ago at the gym I go to. She works there. We started talking and it turned out that she had failed an algebra class and was retaking it this summer but was having a lot of trouble. I gave her my number and told her to call me if she wanted any help (this is college algebra. She is 19. I am 25).
This girl is really cute. About 5'2" very pretty face. Kinda punk rock/emo style. Not typically my thing, but definetly cute and really fun and sweet. However, I wasn't wanting or planning on trying to make anything happen. She's younger than me and we have philisophical differences that were apparent even from the inital meeting.
She called me two fridays ago and wanted help. Fine. She came over at like 8 o'clock to do some homework. We ended up studying/hanging out until 3:30 in the morning. I offered to let her sleep in my guest room. (remember, still not trying to make anything happen, but we really clicked)
Ok, this can go on and on, but fast forward to two nights ago- in the past two weeks we've hung out A LOT (almost every day) and at least talk every day. Turns out she has a boyfriend, but they don't have a wonderful relationship. They even sleep in different bunk beds when she stays at his place. She has said that she would never ever cheat, though (important note there). That brings us to two nights ago-
She came over and we hung out and started drinking. Time goes by, she can't drive. She is really starting to grow on me and I find myself thinking about her all the time (= not good) Anyway, she spends the night, but just before bed, she lays on my bed (not the guest room) because it is a Tempurpedic. She says shes just gonna sleep there and i can deal.
As we are going to sleep we start holding hands and i guess for a lack of a better term- cuddling. Regardless we were very close, intertwined even. There were a few times in which this closness created difficult, um, situations for me in which i had to be careful about where my body parts and hers were, if you know what I mean.
That whole evening she was very physical with hugging and playing footsie and stuff. As we were in bed she said she was confused. I asked about what and she deflected the question.
Here's the thing- She works at my gym that i go to a lot. I know that she and i wouldn't work in the long term. She would never cheat on her boyfriend. Aside from all that I am beginning to have feelings that I know I shouldn't have. I can either stop hanging out with her or somehow deal. What should I do and how do i do it?
Cliffs-
Met a cute girl at the gym, but no real interest due to personality differences
Needed help with math, so I started tutoring her
Start hanging out A LOT and talking A LOT
Ends up she has a boyfriend and would never cheat
She spent the night and was very physical with me, but nothing happened.
I am now thinking about her too much and can't help my feelings.
Have to do something about this- what to do??? Relationship wouldn't work.
EDIT-
Cliffs of cliffs- (for elektrolokomotive)
Girl. Cute. BF. Not a good idea. Mutual Feelings/tension. How to deal w/o making things uncomfortable b/c see eachother often?
PS- No pics as of now. Only known her for a little bit and it would be wierd if I was tuturing her with math and said, "hey, smile!"
I met this girl about three weeks ago at the gym I go to. She works there. We started talking and it turned out that she had failed an algebra class and was retaking it this summer but was having a lot of trouble. I gave her my number and told her to call me if she wanted any help (this is college algebra. She is 19. I am 25).
This girl is really cute. About 5'2" very pretty face. Kinda punk rock/emo style. Not typically my thing, but definetly cute and really fun and sweet. However, I wasn't wanting or planning on trying to make anything happen. She's younger than me and we have philisophical differences that were apparent even from the inital meeting.
She called me two fridays ago and wanted help. Fine. She came over at like 8 o'clock to do some homework. We ended up studying/hanging out until 3:30 in the morning. I offered to let her sleep in my guest room. (remember, still not trying to make anything happen, but we really clicked)
Ok, this can go on and on, but fast forward to two nights ago- in the past two weeks we've hung out A LOT (almost every day) and at least talk every day. Turns out she has a boyfriend, but they don't have a wonderful relationship. They even sleep in different bunk beds when she stays at his place. She has said that she would never ever cheat, though (important note there). That brings us to two nights ago-
She came over and we hung out and started drinking. Time goes by, she can't drive. She is really starting to grow on me and I find myself thinking about her all the time (= not good) Anyway, she spends the night, but just before bed, she lays on my bed (not the guest room) because it is a Tempurpedic. She says shes just gonna sleep there and i can deal.
As we are going to sleep we start holding hands and i guess for a lack of a better term- cuddling. Regardless we were very close, intertwined even. There were a few times in which this closness created difficult, um, situations for me in which i had to be careful about where my body parts and hers were, if you know what I mean.
That whole evening she was very physical with hugging and playing footsie and stuff. As we were in bed she said she was confused. I asked about what and she deflected the question.
Here's the thing- She works at my gym that i go to a lot. I know that she and i wouldn't work in the long term. She would never cheat on her boyfriend. Aside from all that I am beginning to have feelings that I know I shouldn't have. I can either stop hanging out with her or somehow deal. What should I do and how do i do it?
Cliffs-
Met a cute girl at the gym, but no real interest due to personality differences
Needed help with math, so I started tutoring her
Start hanging out A LOT and talking A LOT
Ends up she has a boyfriend and would never cheat
She spent the night and was very physical with me, but nothing happened.
I am now thinking about her too much and can't help my feelings.
Have to do something about this- what to do??? Relationship wouldn't work.
EDIT-
Cliffs of cliffs- (for elektrolokomotive)
Girl. Cute. BF. Not a good idea. Mutual Feelings/tension. How to deal w/o making things uncomfortable b/c see eachother often?
PS- No pics as of now. Only known her for a little bit and it would be wierd if I was tuturing her with math and said, "hey, smile!"
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