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What should I do? (Uhm..love recomendation!)

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SiliconVandal

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I guess I am a puss, but there is a extremely hot girl at school that I want to ask out. I know she likes me, but I don't know what she will say. Am I just a big pussy, or am I smart? I guess im afraid of rejection. It's kinda wierd, I never have been before. Heh..best opinions please 🙂

SV
 
What do you have to lose? Go for it before somebody else grabs her and you start crying in the corner.
 
What is the deal with all the "there is this hot girl at school/work/whatever should I talk to her?" threads.

You guys seriously need to grow a pair and just go after the chick!
 


<< I know she likes me, but I don't know what she will say. >>


Good grief... you KNOW she likes you, so you refrain from asking her out WHY??

As long as you're not asking out any one of my three little sisters, you shoud be good to go. Now stop posting silly questions with obvious answers like this one and GO TALK TO HER.
 
don't rush into things. get to know her first. become friends before you take it to another level. you have the rest of your life for love. don't rush, take love slowly. =o)
 
First of all, if she is interested, you will know. She will let you know, be it through words or actions. Talk about some general topic, weekend plans, etc. If she show interest you are in. No need to get into any drama or acting. Its actually a simple process. And please, I am not a nun.
 
<< don't rush into things. get to know her first. become friends before you take it to another level. you have the rest of your life for love. don't rush, take love slowly. =o) >>

My point exactly. Exactly! I do feel like a a total nutless loser....but still. I will talk to her. This is a new school for me, so I think that has something to do with my timidness. BTW, I know she likes me..I just do..don't ask 🙂
 


<< BTW, I know she likes me..I just do..don't ask >>



What...did your friend send her a note that says...

My friend likes you.
Do you like him?
Check ( ) Yes or ( ) No



 
Another thing:

<< What is the deal with all the &quot;there is this hot girl at school/work/whatever should I talk to her?&quot; threads. >>

How was I supposed to know there are these type of threads? I never come to Off Topic.
 


<< My friend likes you.
Do you like him?
Check ( ) Yes or ( ) No. >>



Never Do That! It's the most stupid thing you can do.

Unless if you're in high school of course.
 
Just go up to her and be yourself. Try to stay calm, relaxed, and focused. She's human, after all, just like you, and if you know she likes you, she's probably just as nervous talking to you as you are with her. What do you have to lose? You definately don't want to go around wondering what could have been.
 
<< My friend likes you.
Do you like him?
Check ( ) Yes or ( ) No. >>



Never Do That! It's the most stupid thing you can do.

Unless if you're in high school of course.

That is the worst thing even if you are in high school! What idiot still does that?
 


<< That is the worst thing even if you are in high school! What idiot still does that? >>



That was my point...this whole thing is childish.
 
Why dont u go to her and ask her out to coffee? It's almost finals week at ucla, and its for free. So you don't spend any money.
 


<< So you don't spend any money. >>



You're one classy dude Bobby Ribs.....bet you have to fight the babes off.
 
she is playing the game of &quot; the person showing the least interest in the relationship has the most control&quot;. the trick, unfortunately is to initiate &quot;some&quot; conversation, and then just wait on her, trust me, she is waiting on you, BUT if You wait then she must respond eventually or lose. you have to respond enough to be &quot;polite&quot; and &quot;mildly interested&quot; but if you show too much interest then you become &quot;boring&quot; and &quot;no fun to 'play' with&quot;. it takes patience and Maybe you'll get tired of her little games. hopefully, actually.
 


<< BUT if You wait then she must respond eventually or lose. you have to respond enough to be &quot;polite&quot; and &quot;mildly interested&quot; but if you show too much interest then you become &quot;boring&quot; and &quot;no fun to 'play' with&quot;. it takes patience and Maybe you'll get tired of her little games. hopefully, actually. >>



So how long is too long?
 
<< Ask her out to lunch and get to know her. >>

LOL, thats exactly what I did. She said yes..(about lunch) and we went and talked. She is great! One of the first girls I've seen thats actually smart, nice, and intelligent!

<< << BTW, I know she likes me..I just do..don't ask >>



What...did your friend send her a note that says...

My friend likes you.
Do you like him?
Check ( ) Yes or ( ) No >>

No, it's one of those things where you can just tell. I can't explain it, but its the way you look at each other. As stated..if she likes you, you will know. 🙂

SV
 
A hard situation dude, I was always really nervous around women. You just gotta work up the courage to ask, it's worth it 🙂
 
siliconvandal, read a thread titled &quot;the halo effect&quot; ... luchini posted it.

<< She is great! One of the first girls I've seen thats actually smart, nice, and intelligent! >>


Hot girls are bound to hurt you unless u're really good looking yourself. Also, do not talk about other girls in front of her to try to mask your own feelings towards her, this is a one way ticket to gay friend mode.
how do you know she likes you? is she touchy feely? does she flirt alot? or is she the fliratious type? does she make the effort to go out with you?
i wish you'd give more information...what type of person are you? artsy? computer techie? jock? nerd? closet nerd? spritiual one? party animal? loser who is afraid of drugs/alcohol/fun? paint me a picture, and I'll tell you exactly how this will end up. pictures would be a plus. believe me, most of love is formulaic...
 
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