What should I do? Involves a girl on the bus.

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Akebona

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Start with a nice smile, then say to her "soo..... nice skirt you got on there, maybe you and I can........." wait sorry, thats from watching too many pornos. But seriously, just say hi, ask her what classes she goes to and if she likes them. See what she studies, ANY small talk will help. And heck if it doesn't work out, at least you have practice for the next opportunity that might come up. Dont be shy, the only reason why you would be shy is b/c you're afraid of her dissing you and taking a hit on your "ego" but all signs point to her being interested in you.
 

thomsbrain

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Originally posted by: 911paramedic
I have heard of these guys that do things with girls in their "bus".

bwahaha

SithSolo, you're reading way too much into every aspect of the situation.
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: weezergirl
yeah she's crying/sad cuz you didn't talk to her....

umm anybody else think the guy who started this thread is a bit delusional? no offense to you. but i don't know any girl who would make a big deal about some guy she doens't even know on the BUS. are you sure you're not imagining this whole scenario that you two exchanged. hehe.

lol,my thoughts exactly,the whole thing sounds kinda stalkerish
 

PCMarine

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What the others have said. Make sure you stay cool, just be yourself and remember humor is a damn good way to win over girls.
 

Crappopotamus

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ok... maybe its time someone pointed out that there is SOMETHING WRONG. sorry dude, but you are a sad case.

i used to be really really shy. craaaazy shy. but i grew out of it. YOU sir are older than i am. COMEON man! you are missing out on life. if not this girl, try talking to other people. not even girls. try making new guy friends. i swear it helps.

btw, i know the feeling of "oh crap what do i say". but so does everyone! so does she! everyone has anxietys. you just gotta get up and kick its ass. good luck.
 

chiwawa626

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Wow finaly a fellow shy guy. Seems like everyone on this board is such a flirt and has so much "game", if they did then why the hell are they sitting at home on their computer talkin to total strangers
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I dont know what to tell you for advice, but hey im taking notes as well while reading this thread. But good luck :D
 

KeyserSoze

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I've been there. Hell, I'm still SUPER shy to talk to random girls. But on the flipside, I'm an outgoing person, and can talk to people if introduced or something. And I can talk to random Dudes.....yeah, doesn't help me much.


I say talk to her, but I don't take my own advice......soooooooo :p





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What should I do? Involves a girl on the bus.

I don't know jack schit about women, but to me it seems like she wanted your attention but didn't get it, at least the way you described it. Talk to her, and if this is confirmed, apologize, and explain that you were nervous because of her amazing beauty.
 

zippy

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Originally posted by: Azraele
Smile and say hi. She's not going to bite you. :)
You don't know that!

:)

Seriously though, talk to her. She wants the caulk...take her to your home depot.
 

SagaLore

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Sit right next to her next time. Have a conversation, and say that you've noticed her on the bus before and ask about what she's doing for school and whatever. Tell her she looked hot yesterday and ask her if she got prettied up for her boyfriend. Then she'll answer that she doesn't have a boyfriend and then say that's too bad, because she'd make a great girlfriend.
 

SithSolo1

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Originally posted by: StinkyMeat
Hey how about stalking her?

How about thats immoral and illegal. :|


Anyway I have firgured out my problem. I just need to conquer it.

I have an intense fear of rejection. Thats why I don't ask girls out, talk to teachers, etc. Hell I'm afriad to ask my own parents if I can learn to drive the care. I know they'll say yes but in my mind I see them saying no. Anyway, its no ones problem but mine and I'll learn to deal with it in time. Thank You all for the advice, I think I will talk to her next time. :)
 

Crappopotamus

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Originally posted by: SagaLore
Sit right next to her next time. Have a conversation, and say that you've noticed her on the bus before and ask about what she's doing for school and whatever. Tell her she looked hot yesterday and ask her if she got prettied up for her boyfriend. Then she'll answer that she doesn't have a boyfriend and then say that's too bad, because she'd make a great girlfriend.

thats GUTSY. lol. how bout starting a little smaller? btw, if i had the guts to do something like that... i would say i find it surprising that a pretty girl like her doesnt have a bf... theoretically :p

 

zoiks

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I used to work with this kid...he couldnt be more than 19 or so. He met this girl on the bus and got together with her. Made her pregnant and now fantasizes about other women now. True story too.
Moral of the story, see a girl on the bus, dont get her pregnant.