For my Lian-Li case: M/B Fixed Screw #6-32*8
6-32 is the threading. 8 is the length in mm.
Jagged.
They look about like this, except a little longer and with the lagged bottom. I don't think the jagged bottom really matters, but it does provide a better cold solder if one isn't using washers and if the motherboard uses that pad for a ground (I haven't seen good answers about this one).
6-32*.25"
The felt washers are to relieve mechanical stress so that the board is not damaged if it is exposed to a wide temperature range. I generally don't bother.
Although there are some different sizes:
Motherboard mounting nuts
The top one is the standard one with 6-32 threads. The middle one uses 4/40 threads, and the bottom one uses 3mm.