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Because of the ignorance of denial we all live in this poor woman could get no help. As the delusions of a successful ego began to crumble in the face of unpleasant reality, her real feelings began to surface and the terror that they are the real truth lead to her death. And all of this because she did not know that she hated herself and nobody else did either.
This is what the denial of our inner reality can lead to, entering the war of self loathing without the knowledge that what we believe is the deepest truth is only a feeling, that we are the worst in the world. But this truth is only a lie, a lie we do not remember being taught to feel.
She could have found her way back to real mental health had she lived in a world of knowledge. Beyond the depression, the guilt and the rage is the suffering of grief for ourselves we avoid like the plague, a way anybody can heal without the transcendence of faith or meditation or mastery over the body.
Do not build your life only on the illusions of success because that can be taken but on the understanding that beneath all of negativity you were forced to believe is your true being, a bundle of protoplasm that came into the world to smile. If you suffer you can heal. Depression rage and guilt are all ways we avoid grief, but grief. It is the awakening of compassion for the self that suffered and it brings healing.
Do not jump off a bridge to avoid what you feel because what you feel is a lie that can be healed if you will but feel it. Remember and tell others so they may have something to fight with.
Because of the ignorance of denial we all live in this poor woman could get no help. As the delusions of a successful ego began to crumble in the face of unpleasant reality, her real feelings began to surface and the terror that they are the real truth lead to her death. And all of this because she did not know that she hated herself and nobody else did either.
This is what the denial of our inner reality can lead to, entering the war of self loathing without the knowledge that what we believe is the deepest truth is only a feeling, that we are the worst in the world. But this truth is only a lie, a lie we do not remember being taught to feel.
She could have found her way back to real mental health had she lived in a world of knowledge. Beyond the depression, the guilt and the rage is the suffering of grief for ourselves we avoid like the plague, a way anybody can heal without the transcendence of faith or meditation or mastery over the body.
Do not build your life only on the illusions of success because that can be taken but on the understanding that beneath all of negativity you were forced to believe is your true being, a bundle of protoplasm that came into the world to smile. If you suffer you can heal. Depression rage and guilt are all ways we avoid grief, but grief. It is the awakening of compassion for the self that suffered and it brings healing.
Do not jump off a bridge to avoid what you feel because what you feel is a lie that can be healed if you will but feel it. Remember and tell others so they may have something to fight with.