What nonsensical thoughts do you have in your mind on a recurring basis?

Zeze

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I bought a house in a sleepy bedroom community. Vinyl siding all around. It's a safe-ass boring-ass spacious typical American suburb.

Time to time I keep thinking about society collapsing (global warming? economy collapse? political collapse?).. and I keep wishing my house was made of bricks so it could stop bullets or at least have a brick veneer for the front facing.

I also sometimes think about if some ahole blocked our cul-de-sac / deadend, then about 8 houses will be stuck. Also scary.

I don't stay up worrying about these things but it just pops in my mind time to time.

what the hell.
 

rh71

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My neighbor's adult kid came back to live with his parents. He proceeded to park his car in front of our house for week's on end. I finally asked him nicely not to [because it bothered me (us) daily]. At least he listened.

Only homeowners in suburbia would understand.
 

Zeze

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My neighbor's adult kid came back to live with his parents. He proceeded to park his car in front of our house for week's on end. I finally asked him nicely not to [because it bothered me (us) daily]. At least he listened.

Only homeowners in suburbia would understand.
How's that nonsensical? Perfectly valid to me.
 

Captante

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Sometimes it occurs to me to post nonsensical questions on internet forums?

;)
 
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Red Squirrel

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With crime in my area being super bad I always worry about getting to my house only to find out it's been ransacked. Or if people attempt to do it while I'm home, I worry I will be in the shower, on the toilet or in bed, or other situation where I'm not ready to actually defend myself. And even if I am in a better situation, whether or not I would be able to actually do it at the heat of the moment. Multiple big 6'+ guys show up with knives, bats, guns etc, I don't really think I could take that on honestly with just me and a crow bar (I keep one in a central area I can get to fast). If I call the cops, they'll come on the next business day to take a report, so not like I can rely on them either. I'll also be the one that gets in trouble if I hurt them but if my life depends on it I'll do what I can anyway.
 
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Captante

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With crime in my area being super bad I always worry about getting to my house only to find out it's been ransacked. Or if people attempt to do it while I'm home, I worry I will be in the shower, on the toilet or in bed, or other situation where I'm not ready to actually defend myself. And even if I am in a better situation, whether or not I would be able to actually do it at the heat of the moment. Multiple big 6'+ guys show up with knives, bats, guns etc, I don't really think I could take that on honestly with just me and a crow bar (I keep one in a central area I can get to fast). If I call the cops, they'll come on the next business day to take a report, so not like I can rely on them either. I'll also be the one that gets in trouble if I hurt them but if my life depends on it I'll do what I can anyway.


This is why I focus on any path to me requiring LOUD sustained noise that can't be silenced without a PIN and does not require AC power to operate.

Obviously with current levels of technology I could be eliminated with a literally few keystrokes by Big Brother if they decided I was worth the effort/cost... I'm well aware of this fact. (Fortunately I don't rate it!)

The real risk day to day is from random street-level violence and possibly home invasion type crime. Key thing here is to NOT be the low-hanging fruit... make it difficult and noisy to even GET in you've already won 99% of the time.

Also if you show up in my apartment in the middle of the night uninvited ONE of us is leaving feet-first. (and beyond my immensely heavy gaming PC I have nothing of value sitting around to even steal)
 
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SamQuint

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Sometimes I think about the big one (earthquake) hitting Southern California. I am thinking it will wipe out all freeways and roads in and out of the LA basin. Airports will be too damaged to be used. All utilities will be down. No gas, water, or electricity or even cell phone service for months. Then the inevitable looting and riots. It will turn to total and utter chaos. My plan is to get to the ocean, steal the first boat I find and take it up the coast far enough to leave LA forever.
 

sdifox

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Sometimes I think about the big one (earthquake) hitting Southern California. I am thinking it will wipe out all freeways and roads in and out of the LA basin. Airports will be too damaged to be used. All utilities will be down. No gas, water, or electricity or even cell phone service for months. Then the inevitable looting and riots. It will turn to total and utter chaos. My plan is to get to the ocean, steal the first boat I find and take it up the coast far enough to leave LA forever.


The big one would shear off California and sink it.
 

Red Squirrel

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This is why I focus on any path to me requiring LOUD sustained noise that can't be silenced without a PIN and does not require AC power to operate.

Obviously with current levels of technology I could be eliminated with a literally few keystrokes by Big Brother if they decided I was worth the effort/cost... I'm well aware of this fact. (Fortunately I don't rate it!)

The real risk day to day is from random street-level violence and possibly home invasion type crime. Key thing here is to NOT be the low-hanging fruit... make it difficult and noisy to even GET in you've already won 99% of the time.

Also if you show up in my apartment in the middle of the night uninvited ONE of us is leaving feet-first. (and beyond my immensely heavy gaming PC I have nothing of value sitting around to even steal)

Yeah my alarm is LOUD. My philosophy used to be to set it to be silent so that they take their time and cops show up but reality is even if they get caught by cops, they get a slap on the wrist and they're stealing again. Everything they did have a chance to steal would probably also be confiscated as evidence.

So yeah having it super loud to the point that it's ear piercing is probably the best bet as hopefully it drives them out. I will do the same with my bush property, just have it activate very loud sirens throughout each building. I'm far enough out that I doubt cops would ever go anyway.

I also need to look at "traps" that are legal. Things that are just very annoying and not really harmful. Loud sounds, flashing lights, maybe even smoke or bitterant. I'll worry about that once I actually build something out there though.
 

Kaido

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Time to time I keep thinking about society collapsing (global warming? economy collapse? political collapse?).. and I keep wishing my house was made of bricks so it could stop bullets or at least have a brick veneer for the front facing.

I grew up with anxiety, which is coupled with intrusive thoughts:
Intrusive thoughts are unwanted thoughts that can pop into our heads without warning, at any time. They're often repetitive – with the same kind of thought cropping up again and again – and they can be disturbing or even distressing.

It basically works like this:

1. Thoughts go through my head at like a thousand miles per hour
2. They spin like the Wheel of Fortune through all of the positive & negative options
3. When my anxiety has kicked in, that wheel always lands on the Most Negative Outcome Imaginable™

This has actually come in really handy in my job in the IT field, particularly for systems design, because it will spur me into great disaster-recovery designs. I'll be like dang, what if the motherboard on this CNC machine computer fries or this firewall for a branch office craps the bed or the building burns down & the customer needs to be operational again within two hours to avoid business downtime? I've developed a pretty good DR checklist over the years due to this (as well as experience, as Murphy can just come along & ruin anything lol). It's sort of like having a really annoying Spidey Sense about negative future possibilities lol.
 

Zeze

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Sometimes I think about the big one (earthquake) hitting Southern California. I am thinking it will wipe out all freeways and roads in and out of the LA basin. Airports will be too damaged to be used. All utilities will be down. No gas, water, or electricity or even cell phone service for months. Then the inevitable looting and riots. It will turn to total and utter chaos. My plan is to get to the ocean, steal the first boat I find and take it up the coast far enough to leave LA forever.
Jesus
 

Charmonium

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3. When my anxiety has kicked in, that wheel always lands on the Most Negative Outcome Imaginable™
That's called catastrophizing and I'm pretty sure it's a technical medical term.

I think things like this and OCD are evolutionary developments and are probably genetic. Remember that the Black Death killed about a third of the population of Europe in the 14th (??) century. That was just one very important "selection" event that made it much more likely that people who were extremely fastidious and wary of disease would survive. Same with catastrophizing.

Now multiply that by the multiple plagues and pandemics that have swept across human cultures over the millenia and it's not hard to see how such behaviors could develop.

But there's also a dark side to these "abilities." Often times our perception of risk can be horribly skewed such that we place an inordinate amount of importance on trying to prepare for things that have at best an infinitesimal chance of actually happening. At that point, these "abilities" become maladaptive and counterproductive and serve only to make our lives miserable.
 

Kaido

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That's called catastrophizing and I'm pretty sure it's a technical medical term.

I think things like this and OCD are evolutionary developments and are probably genetic. Remember that the Black Death killed about a third of the population of Europe in the 14th (??) century. That was just one very important "selection" event that made it much more likely that people who were extremely fastidious and wary of disease would survive. Same with catastrophizing.

Now multiply that by the multiple plagues and pandemics that have swept across human cultures over the millenia and it's not hard to see how such behaviors could develop.

But there's also a dark side to these "abilities." Often times our perception of risk can be horribly skewed such that we place an inordinate amount of importance on trying to prepare for things that have at best an infinitesimal chance of actually happening. At that point, these "abilities" become maladaptive and counterproductive and serve only to make our lives miserable.

Oddly enough, for me, my anxiety is largely driven by my digestion. I grew up with debilitating anxiety & eventually panic attacks, which was not the most fun thing in the world lol. A few years ago, I got on a magic pill for my food intolerance issues & my anxiety magically disappeared! (comes back when the medication wears off & my digestion goes to crap, pun intended haha). A few years, I got into DIY cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which is a form of talk therapy that identifies distortions:


For me, it sort of boiled down to an adrenaline issue: I'd run into a situation and go oh crap! And the adrenaline would make my brain spin fast & create a zillion outcome options, and then land on a negative one as the most salient. Then that would combine with another distortion I suffer from - "all or nothing" thinking - which is where I feel pressured to do a really awesome job at everything, which is largely driven by my ADHD because I forget stuff easily lol, so I'm like oh dang, I need to catch up & do a really great job to make up for missing the deadline or forgetting to do the task or whatever. I developed a coping strategy called the GBB Approach to manage that situation. Basically, I audit each responsibility by asking myself what level of quality the job needs to be completed at:

1. Good
2. Better
3. Best

Then I accept it as an internal commitment, rather than just going full-bore on it as my instant, no-think, adrenaline-drive reaction. This approach has helped me tremendously, because I tend to over-commit to things & then build up projects so big that I either can't get started or can't sustain the effort. It's sort of like the approach from Billy Murry's "What about Bob" movie - baby steps! My brain tends to think in terms of big home-run efforts, rather than consistent itty-bitty efforts over time, so adopting the GBB Approach has really helped me push through my internal barriers of getting overwhelmed & going into stasis by auditing what quality level I'm willing to commit to & then just chipping away at things.

It's helped even in small stuff, like sometimes I'm just fried after work & I'll say screw it, I'm having cereal or a microwaved hot dog for dinner, and that's "good enough" to meet the need to execute on-time delivery (i.e. fill my stomach when it's hungry, lol). It's a silly & a bit of an irrational thing to deal with, but unfortunately I'm stuck with that on my plate, so I've had to find some good management strategies to keep getting over the finish line! Auditing task requirements is not a default behavior for me, so I have to make sure I use the GBB Approach so that I don't get all fired up about something as my default reaction to learning about it or getting reminded about it.
 

ultimatebob

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Jul 1, 2001
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I'm still wondering when the Christian conservative crowd is going to embrace the world of cryptocurrency and release their own "Holycoin".

I think that there could be a real market for that, considering that there is a handful of people out there that think that Bitcoin is "evil". You just need to clone some other cryptocurrency, add a moderation system that prevents people from spending it on porn and drugs, and maybe add some sort of automatic tithing system to it. All you need is one of those mega churches to endorse it, and you have a potential gold mine on your hands.
 

MrSquished

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I'm still wondering when the Christian conservative crowd is going to embrace the world of cryptocurrency and release their own "Holycoin".

I think that there could be a real market for that, considering that there is a handful of people out there that think that Bitcoin is "evil". You just need to clone some other cryptocurrency, add a moderation system that prevents people from spending it on porn and drugs, and maybe add some sort of automatic tithing system to it. All you need is one of those mega churches to endorse it, and you have a potential gold mine on your hands.

 
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Nonsensical thoughts - probably that I'll retire some day heh.

Nah, I'll have plenty, just that I focus too much on it all the time.
 

Muse

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I bought a house in a sleepy bedroom community. Vinyl siding all around. It's a safe-ass boring-ass spacious typical American suburb.

Time to time I keep thinking about society collapsing (global warming? economy collapse? political collapse?).. and I keep wishing my house was made of bricks so it could stop bullets or at least have a brick veneer for the front facing.

I also sometimes think about if some ahole blocked our cul-de-sac / deadend, then about 8 houses will be stuck. Also scary.

I don't stay up worrying about these things but it just pops in my mind time to time.

what the hell.
You're never really safe. To entertain the thought that you're safe is an invitation to conger nonsensical thoughts.

Where I am a devastating earthquake could happen any time. I have EQ insurance, but would it work out? I haven't read the fine print and even if I did how do I know that the company wouldn't find a way around my claim?

My house could burn down any time. Ditto on that lack of trust in my insurance company.

The whole country is filled with guns, there's about a gun for every living soul.

I go skating 10 miles every day. I could fall and "break my neck." Someone could:

1. run me over (a few guys have pretended they were going to).
2. shoot me, yeah just because they suddenly felt like it.

I could catch covid-19 and my life be ended or wrecked.

Covid-19 could develop a variant we can't stop. Another pandemic could be worse, far worse.

Nonsensical? I never figure I'm safe. The truth is frightening sometimes.

A former GF gave me a book of cartoons called The Worry Book. There's 2 sections, one for men, one for women. Each cartoon represents something you can worry about. It kind of satirizes the whole syndrome.
 
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Muse

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The street is public property. You don't own the street in front of your house.
Where I live you aren't allowed to park your car on the street and not move it for more than 3 days.

I used to park my 2nd car (a station wagon I kept for those occasional hauling jobs my sedan wasn't suited for) in front of the apartment building next door. I got a complaint from one of the residents and I kept it back in my driveway in back of my other car thereafter... until I got rid of the wagon.
 
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Scarpozzi

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Where I live you aren't allowed to park your car and not move it for more than 3 days.

I used to park my 2nd car (a station wagon I kept for those occasional hauling cars my sedan wasn't suited for) in front of the apartment building next door. I got a complaint from one of the residents and I kept it back in my driveway in back of my other car thereafter... until I got rid of the wagon.
The guy that owns the house across the street from me is in his 70s. His wife got alzheimer's a few years back and died pretty quickly. He has a son that's addicted to drugs and kind of crazy. He works limited months of the year and has a traveling job, but otherwise just takes up space. We didn't even realize he was living in the house for a long time because he doesn't leave the house, except out the back.

The old guy has a daughter lives in Jersey. He basically went to Jersey the past few years ago to be with her and left his son living in his house. The yard wasn't mowed regularly and they left a white Escalade parked across from my house...whatever....It didn't bother me. My neighbor on the other hand got tired of seeing it parked in the same place for 2+ years. It had moss growing on the side of it. He called the cops out twice and they told him nothing could be done to move it.

Finally another neighbor called the police and the officer noticed it was parked on the street with expired tags. They towed it to their driveway, at least.

Glad you live somewhere that enforces cars moving on the street. It sucks when they get left in one spot and no one has them cleaned up.