Just out of curiosity, how does reverse mounting a lens ruin your equipment?
I'd figure messing with extension tubes would be an even bigger risk than reverse mounting, as your allowing dust from the tubes into your sensor and/or into your lens.
As for mounting the lens, hitting DOF, and then reverse mounting it, isn't that only possible with Canon? With a Nikon (D90) the OP just needs any older non-G lenses.
When you are reversing a lens, you are exposing the rear glass to the elements, which is much more prone to dust or scratches than the front glass.
You also have to take into account that the front filter ring is primary designed for light weight filters. Coupling it with a reverse ring onto a full camera body will induce more stress than the intended design and may lead to breakage.
I am not sure how you figured that coupling a lens to extension tubes would induce a higher risk to introducing dust to the sensor. The tubes are sealed, the only times they are exposed to the elements is when you actually have to couple them, but it's the same risk you run whenever you are changing your lens.